Good point.
Sounds like OP is halfway there, though- he understands it's going to be a transactional relationship, he just doesn't understand where the transaction is.
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my apologies for 1- misuse of terminology and 2- not being clear in my post, my post was written out of frustration.
Lets get things clear, i do not expect sex on the first date this is the whole idea of going on a date it is to get to know the other person its to see if your personalities match etc.
I understand that you might be in a relationship with your client and thats great but it doesn't feel right (personally for me anyway) that i could date someone that i used to pay for sex, it doesn't sit right with me.
So no i dont expect sex on the first date, yes i would pay for dinner but in no way should i have to pay for her to come out to dinner, and then pay for dinner the whole point of going out is to get to know each other i dont want anything from her and it should go vice versa in my opinion, meaning she shouldn't just expect me to pay for her 'time' thats bullshit, UNLESS it was a transaction of money for sex, but a date isnt a transaction and to the person who said relationship is transaction i disagree entirely, relationships are supposed to be deeper than physical attractions and actions.
So just to be clear is this a case of people chatting to you on things like Tindr and it turns out they are escorts?
I mean if so I can see the frustration, but if it's gone no further than online chat surely just block them for being misleading and move on.
Maybe you should try "in person" meeting, you know, like in the good ole days.
Worked out for our parents yeah?
Go to a club/bar...
great idea !
Unfortunately i have no idea where to find them in Sydney, used to be a club called Taxi Club but its shutdown plus i heard it was pretty sleazy. There isn't (to my knowledge) a club for transsexuals or a club where TS women go in Sydney, 'the scene' probably isn't as big relative to other nations maybe in the future, perhaps this a business opportunity for me ;)
I am positive there are an abundant amount of gay/lez bars all over Sydney.
You will find them there. I guarantee that.