Would you date an escort?

i have over the 15 years in the scene....too much of a headache for me...i value my time too much to deal with a ringing phone 24 hours a day...not to mention dudes showing up unannounced ....and there is no jealousy about sex for me honestly ...its more about the interruptions when trying to have a date or just normal quality time .

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Originally Posted by Mike11

I have been visiting this TS escort a few time since last year and she is gorgeous and quite a sought after escort in London. She has been really nice to me and very generous with her time and services. She keeps dropping hints at going out and stuff. I kind of say "yes sure and that would be really nice" but have not taken it beyond that.

Is it a good idea to go on a date? I really like seeng her as it is and happy to pay the fee for no strings attached fun. As much as I would love to take her out (she is totally passable) I am afraid of spoiling a good things. I wondered if others may have any thought/experience of this.

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Read the title of this thread and that answers your question- Let that marinade THO!

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Originally Posted by hwbs

i have over the 15 years in the scene....too much of a headache for me...i value my time too much to deal with a ringing phone 24 hours a day...not to mention dudes showing up unannounced ....and there is no jealousy about sex for me honestly ...its more about the interruptions when trying to have a date or just normal quality time .

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You are mistaking escorts with crazy ass whores.

I used to date a post op escort - she was from Singapore , and beautiful.When ever I told people she used to be a boy , they would all laugh thinking I was lying and joking .No one ever believed me , they just thought me weird for making up strange lies.
Anyway , I had a fantastic relationship with her , and I regret my immaturity of that time .
I was never bothered in the slightest by her being an escort .

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Originally Posted by Ts RedVeX

You are mistaking escorts with crazy ass whores.

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please elaborate...:smoking

The truth is it's a bit of a pain. You might be okay with it at first but if you love the person then you cant help but feel bad about them doing the job with someone else. That can lead to all sorts of issues. If you are just dating for fun - no problem but once you start getting real feelings then you have a whole lot of questions you need to ask yourself. Your scenario is even worse because if you start as a client and it then develops into anything else she always has that thing in the back of her mind that you went out and paid for it, no matter what it's always there.

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Originally Posted by alpha2117

The truth is it's a bit of a pain. You might be okay with it at first but if you love the person then you cant help but feel bad about them doing the job with someone else. That can lead to all sorts of issues. If you are just dating for fun - no problem but once you start getting real feelings then you have a whole lot of questions you need to ask yourself. Your scenario is even worse because if you start as a client and it then develops into anything else she always has that thing in the back of her mind that you went out and paid for it, no matter what it's always there.

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I doubt most sex workers are that judgemental. More than anyone they should understand why some people choose to see escorts.

I'm sure an escort /client relationship could be successful.In fact it could be a fantastic if there were no judgements or morality.
Sex and love are two different things ( although debatable)

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Originally Posted by saifan

I doubt most sex workers are that judgemental. More than anyone they should understand why some people choose to see escorts.

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I am not so sure. I think many can be judgemental and trust may well become an issue if you have met them as a client.

been there, done that, got the STD tests.