To the OP...Threads like this don't pop up out of the blue...could you please tell me what thread ultimately caused you to post this?...because not all criticism is unfair.
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To the OP...Threads like this don't pop up out of the blue...could you please tell me what thread ultimately caused you to post this?...because not all criticism is unfair.
I think some comments are uncalled for such as complaining about girls getting breast, SRS, surgery, etc. Some people are too harsh to new T-Girls who just started their transitions. Most members here have said somethings that we now regret and we have realized our mistakes.
However, Fred41 is right. Some criticism is fair. If you think someone is a bad performer, then by all means say it!
It might be related to a thread where a girl on this site said she was accepted to Stanford's MBA program. Someone then responded that this was virtually impossible given the little information she had provided about her undergraduate experience and how selective Stanford is. My view is that the rebuttal was honest even if it was upsetting to her. But I'm not sure if this is what the op is referring to.Quote:
Originally Posted by fred41
Yea, same thread popped into my head when I saw this.Quote:
Originally Posted by broncofan
When you say less women are contributing to the forum. In what way do you mean contributing? I mean, just putting it out there a lot of women visiting today are mainly here for promotion purposes. Very few will talk about other things.
In the past a lot more women participated, because there were topics to engage in. They weren't porn topics. When topics focus on porn, less women contribute to the discussion. This a porn forum so yes there is going to be a lot of discussion on porn most of it around promoting. I don't really call that a engaging interaction. It is good when they do it, but I mean do people talk about their occupation 24/7. Not really. If you want more interaction try posting a more inventive topic then who has the biggest breast.
At the end of the day this is a porn forum, so we all expect a lot discussions on porn and that's ok, but people sometimes want something besides porn. For example start a discussion on something you would talk about in your regular day and just maybe a few women on this board may join in.
And as a final note, when in the world did we sign an agreement that we all have to agree on everything. Everyone is titled to disagree and conformity and uniformity are the decay of society. Doesn't mean we must be rude in our dealings, but please accept that we all and wonderful don't agree on everything. Yes some of us are more sensitive than others, but bear in mind what happens on this forum has not in the past or in the future determine the fate of the world. (With the new movie opening up I really want to throw in some Tom Cruise joke).
I think sometimes people forget, the girls are why we are here.
Some of the posts in the thread in question may have been mean, but at least one person was simply responding to a whopper of a lie by pointing out that it was a whopper of a lie. That by itself was enough to upset the OP and her defenders. It didn't exactly come across as tender, but he was being candid. On objective matters, I don't think it's fair to expect someone not to talk.Quote:
Originally Posted by youngblood61
It's been several, but the main ones were Evon's thread, and Krissy's thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by fred41
some guys just don't know when to STFU and have to be "besters"
all the thumbs up are from people that agree with what I said, and all the thumbs down are from people that simply cannot be nice and just let things be.
I think some good points have been brought up here and everyone has their right to their point of view.
The guys who I have actually met on here (or whom I think I will eventually have a drink with) generally have opinions that are not so strident and attacking. Those who feel it is their sworn duty to point out every place where the girls are flawed are like the snot nosed kid in grammar school who tattled to the teacher. If you ain't got shit nice to say ever keep that shit to ya self. But then that's is why they are here to point out the girls shortcomings behind the safety of their computer screen.
Now don't misconstrue my meaning here....the occasional comment is cool and even needed. But when you are know as the ass who is always bitching at all the babes, you got issues.
I find myself posting this often here.
http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=b48_1305790944
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-LHDxqigCco.../s1600/fry.jpg
The internet is not all pics of cuddly cats. There are some jerks who should just be ignored. Complaining about them will not make them go away. It'd probably draw more trolls to this forum.
The rules of the forum are really clear just follow them.