Я Люблю Вас Ulyana, я Люблю только Вас ... теперь и для остальной части моей жизни.
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Я Люблю Вас Ulyana, я Люблю только Вас ... теперь и для остальной части моей жизни.
I hear that. I'd also avoid doing any drinking or smoking (illicit substances) if you plan to hook up with anyone. One drunken evening some girl I met at a bar slipped me in her bareback and I spent the next 6 months wringing my hands with anxiety (which can also cause a wrist injury). I turned out to be okay, but living in the shadow of STD's is no way to live at all. Also, remember that the presence of another STD (such as Gonorrhea) can make the transmission of HIV easier.Quote:
really safe sex at all times is pretty important, if you just hate condoms then join a website and jack it at home, the worst that can happen there is a wrist injury...
I hate condoms for oral, but sadly, they are necessary. You can't get all caught up in "the moment". That moment can last a lifetime.
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Firefighter101:
I give you credit for coming out about what happened. That takes a pair of balls that clank.
With that being said ... you talk to the person who did this to you in a very serious and stern manner. Explain to them that they took your health and quite possibly your life for granted (for what ... a moment of pleasure). Explain that better decision-making is a definite must. If all you come out of this with is a lil burnin, pussin, swollen penis .... CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY!. These days folks are coming away with lifetime medical conditions. You need to tell this person that they have no idea how dangerous it is out there and thay they can NEVER do this to you EVER again. Then... once you're done looking in the mirror .... think about how bad this could have gone down and realize ... next time it may become a reality.
I think the issue is not just crucial but often too hidden in the background of what everyone says and does. I rememeber blowing a woman's mind away when I pulled out test results (60 days old maybe ... lol in a nod to the porn star 30 day cycle) to show that I was truly clear but still insisted on protection (for everything). I know that bringing up STDs with a potential partner is a real moment killer.
I just feel failure to deal with it at all is a real killer.
P.S. Yes I know I stepped off the face of the earth - for those of you who noticed. I just happened to peek and this was too real to ignore.
Я Люблю Вас Ulyana, я Люблю только Вас ... теперь и для остальной части моей жизни.
:what I would tend to think the difference would be much, much higher than this?Quote:
Originally Posted by DamionXXX
The original poster touched on an interesting subject. Sex is sex (oral, anal, vaginal, whatever). Any anatomical part that produces fluids, basically, and makes internal contact with another person, is a risk. Most people don't actually realize this.
I honestly don't know much about the genetic underpinnings of the whole thing. But I know the basics.
People who are tested regularily and primarily have sex within a fairly controlled group or with a regular partner or partners (such as porn performers) are very much LESS at risk then the general public. Sex with professional escorts who follow due dilligence is also low risk, but the escort will (should) insist on protection with a client. If they don't, that should be a red flag.
Letting a TS escort, who you haven't seen papers from and don't fully trust, cum in your mouth, is a pretty bad move. Exchanging fluids with anyone you don't have confirmation of regular testing with (and trust the legitimacy of such documentaion) is bad.
Oh, and just as a warning. There are some STD tests where the nurse will insert a cotton swab into your dick. It sucks, so just get mentally ready for that. Freaked me out the first time, but it's not that bad.
OK. . . it is pretty bad, but it aint gonna kill ya.
The cock say to the condom: Cover mee im going in.
All good advice and something which i think needed to be said and debated.
I am worried and wondering about the chances of me having HIV.
I did chat to the girl and she decided to conceal from me that she was a escort.
The moral of the story it is better to safer than sorry. I must admit that i thought the chances of catching hiv through oral as very low although now the worry just ain't worth it.
The whole incident has changed my attitude towards my sexual behaviour. My experience is almost all with hetrosexual woman whuich i have been with quite a few and has left me thinking about my past behaviour with everyone. My future is to be a whole lot more careful and to change my behaviour.
I just hope its just not to late for me. And other can take heed from my experience.
Thank you. No one could've said it better. U should always protect yourself regardless to WHO you are engaging in sexual activities with! Don't generalize cuz it definitely leads to more unnecessary stereotyping. You're at risk if you have unprotected sex with ANYONE, and condoms were originally made for the prevention on pregnancy yes... but the only thing 100% safe is abstinence.Quote:
Originally Posted by AllanahStarrNYC
make sure genitals are kept apart?
Hi, Im going to chime in here, i was always told that 'frottage'(rubbing cocks together) is one of the safest acts , since there is no penetration involved. IN that it is very hard for fluid to be exchabged from one penis to another unless there is alot of direct contact head to head. Especially in terms of HIV, I was just curious because this os one of my favorite things to do, since Ive heard and read its primarily the safest of all to do and you can do without a condom.
Correct me if Ive heard wrong of course, I was just wondering.