Re: Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?
Kelly is indeed very wise...
Re: Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?
It's just hard to meet compatible transwomen for dating. I agree it's difficult from the other side too, but since the actual population of tgirls national is so fractional, a man isn't going to meet a TS for dating and a LTR unless he actively makes an effort to go find his dream woman.
Re: Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?
I would like to add also even if a guy says he'll pay for said surgeries, many girls still wont go for it. Due to the fact they don't want to feel like they owe their partner everything. Also if you have any resentment towards it, it avoids bringing it up in arguments.
Re: Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?
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KellyShore
Most girls are working towards what they want to see in the mirror.
So many escort and many men aren't okay with that.
So unless you want to fund their transition, I doubt they will stay.
Plus men that say they want a relationship, usually only want the superficial sexy side of it.
That can be said about straight relationships too.
Relationships take a lot of hard work and a lot of compromise.
Most men aren't ready to stick around for surgeries, and if she ever decides to go post op.
They have to get over the fetish/fantasy.
Many girls make that hard for the guy, by being so guarded and also assuming or empowering the fact they are "freaks" with their attitude. Instead of educating and going slow with the guy.
Could not have been said better
Re: Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?
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Originally Posted by
KellyShore
Most girls are working towards what they want to see in the mirror.
So many escort and many men aren't okay with that.
So unless you want to fund their transition, I doubt they will stay.
Plus men that say they want a relationship, usually only want the superficial sexy side of it.
That can be said about straight relationships too.
Relationships take a lot of hard work and a lot of compromise.
Most men aren't ready to stick around for surgeries, and if she ever decides to go post op.
They have to get over the fetish/fantasy.
Many girls make that hard for the guy, by being so guarded and also assuming or empowering the fact they are "freaks" with their attitude. Instead of educating and going slow with the guy.
Yes, I will say it again - Very true.
Also my opinion:
Many of the Tgirls actually are very good and nice person in real.
The problem is the right approach, the right place.
Too many men called them and lie them only to get to their bed.
That's why it is very difficult to believe you, even if you are genuine.
If you really want a relationship with a Tgirl, be patient. It takes time. Let the girl know you better. Socialise. Go to places that tgirls go, meet, talk. Be positive and genuine.
Regards,
K.
Re: Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?
Have you tried setting up traps in their natural habitat (surgeon offices, clubs, malls, etc)? The tranny is a very rare and elusive creature.catching one requires patience and sharp instincts
Re: Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?
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amberskyi
Have you tried setting up traps in their natural habitat (surgeon offices, clubs, malls, etc)? The tranny is a very rare and elusive creature.catching one requires patience and sharp instincts
LOL. You joke but the truth is it IS hard because there aren't many of 'you' out here.
I can keep my daily routine and meet all kinds of women. But if I wanna meet a tgirl I have to make much more of an effort and investment of my time.
I do agree though there are more TS who are open to relationships than there are admirers/chasers who want the same thing.
Re: Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?
Thank u everyone for thier input.
Re: Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?
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Originally Posted by
amberskyi
Have you tried setting up traps in their natural habitat (surgeon offices, clubs, malls, etc)? The tranny is a very rare and elusive creature.catching one requires patience and sharp instincts
lol...what would you bait the traps with?Louis Vuitton? (Would a knock off work...or do TS have sharper than normal eyesight?)
Re: Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?
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giovanni_hotel
LOL. You joke but the truth is it IS hard because there aren't many of 'you' out here.
I can keep my daily routine and meet all kinds of women. But if I wanna meet a tgirl I have to make much more of an effort and investment of my time.
I do agree though there are more TS who are open to relationships than there are admirers/chasers who want the same thing.
i never really find it hard to find someone to date me.now finding someone im actually into? thats where it gets hard.
