Why are straight men afraid to admit that they have seen a sexy tgirl

no i wouldnt its my secrect if i told people they would think im gay why would i do that

You mean 'stigma' - 'stigmata' is a completely different thing... Google it.

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Originally Posted by Bunsdk

The gay stigmata?

Honestly I dont meet many of those kind of ppl. I dont have many gay friends, but I clearly dont have any friends who dont know themselves well enough to be honest.

An example, a lot of straight friends and I went to a gay bar to support a bisexual gf. We actually discussed the looks of the ppl. There just isnt any point in going to a gaybar and then be too scared to look at anyone. And if you can look, you can disguss.

We have argued in the group how some ppl react. And do so a lot after parties like the one above. And so far, our conclussion is, the more testosterone they ACT, the less likely they are to admit beauty in anything that can question their own sexuality.
Usually the important thing is the act makes the diff.

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Im sure some guys fear stating it aloud because of public reaction but for me it just isn't anyone's bussiness who I sleep with unless you are my signficant other.

Maybe because they have a Ggirl S.O. ?

Which would make them cheaters or clients, as the case may be.

Otherwise, if they're single, I guess their secrecy is owing to social pressures. Who needs trouble ? But it might not be fair to the Tgirl, depending on circumstances.

I would never admit that to a straight person, then they would think I am a trans-lesbian.
LOL

but you are a translesbian

:dead: at this thread.

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Originally Posted by TatianaSummer

I would never admit that to a straight person, then they would think I am a trans-lesbian.
LOL

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But you're not a trans-lesbian...........are you? lol I've heard stories of your prowess as a top !!!!!!!

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Originally Posted by onmyknees

On one level I get what you're asking.....and unfortunately there is societal ignorance, but just Who am I suppose to admit this to? My family ? Co-workers? My closest friends? People on the Subway? I don't admit or confess when I'm fucking a stripper either and it has nothing to do with her profession or her gender. Don't you get annoyed when your friends are always sharing with you who they fucked? If you do that around here in excess, they'll hang the "chaser" label around your neck ! lol

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Onmyknees makes a good point: we’re all at least a bit secretive as to our sex life and/or our fantasies. It’s normal, and difficult to act any differently. But it’s somewhat unfortunate, at times. In this case, I think the implicit side of the question is: “Why are straight men more embarrassed about seeing a t-girl than a gg escort?” Correct me if I’m wrong, jayallday (OP).
I find this way of acting and being unfortunate and frankly ridiculous (not the question in itself; the attitude). I find people should put in their mind once and for all that t-women ARE women. If we, on this forum, all acknowledged that for a fact in our private life, I think such a silly opinion as the opposite would eventually just fade away. Because t-girls ARE women; if they take androgen’s inhibitors and estrogens, everything changes, their metabolic functions completely transforms and so is their bodies (and God! their mood! just like any woman). Don’t get me wrong, I’m not blaming anybody here, but I think we have to make more and more efforts to induce those changes in society by our general attitude on the subject.

Perhaps the OP mrant at the level of the guys who brag about that 'chick they screwed" hen they are out with their buddies. Few guys who fly the "straight" flag would have a few beers and then boast about the TG girl they enjoyed the night before.

But then MOST men don't boast about their sex partners anyway. IMHO. Except here!