Originally Posted by
giovanni_hotel
Why throw bombs on purpose on HA, tglover???
THe #1 suspect in the murder of Stacy, from Philly, was a 'hulking WHITE man' seen leaving her rowhouse.
The implication that trans-escorts are at a higher risk of violence from Black and non-white johns is intellectually dishonest.
For those girls who succumb to violence, I would assume most were victims of family members or close intimate associates ( non-professional).
This BS that ALL escorts would be safe from violent encounters if they avoided Black clients in delusional, IMO.
Still a girl should and MUST do whatever she can to be and feel SAFE, whether than means never seeing a client without someone you know close by, pre-screening clients, ( which I have been and makes perfect sense BTW!), having a taser or other weapon stashed in the room, etc.
But to say, hmm, 'John Doe's complexion is a little too dark, PASS,' is setting up a girl for having her head caved in by Beaver Cleaver because you cut his BJ short by a couple minutes.
From my understanding, the deaths in NJ weren't professional dates that went 'bad'. It sounds like these girls met these guys socially, possibly rejected these men, and they went off.
So does that mean a girl should avoid all Black men in any social situations???
Look, most Black people are victims of violence from other Black folks. I'm sure it's the case for other racial/ethnic groups also.
If a girl makes a habit of seeing DL thug types and fuccing with them, she's probably putting herself at risk. Or someone who's deeply closeted and has a difficult time processing even being intimate with a transgendered woman.
To simplify the problem and distill it to down to one superficial physical trait, one's skin color, is just dumb.
But really, do what you feel you must. A Black john might be initially offended for being rejected because of his race alone, but many of us could give a shit.
Just remember the first time you get roughed up by a white cop, or a puerto rican dude refuses to pay because the ass wasn't tight enough, or John Smith in the two-piece gives you drama and starts raising his voice at you, recall that the problem isn't about 'race'.
It's about personality type.
BTW, these type of threads every couple months do a lot for the drama quotient on HA, but they're a waste of time.
( I should delete this post!!!;))