Anal advice

Regardless of brand preference in lubes, just remember that "too much lube is just enough". :)

no its not a myth.the anus is a muscle.it relaxes and tenses just like any other muscle.
if you havent used it for awhile of course its going to take awhile for it to relax and flex.
just keep playing with her opening her up slowly day by day.the more her anus is exercised the more flexible it will become.

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Originally Posted by dderek123

Hey everyone, I am seeking some advice. I have just connected with a new gf over here in Thailand. She's a good girl and not one who fucks around. Prior to meeting me she hadn't had sex for two years! At first I didn't believe it but when we got down to business I quickly found out that she was really tight. Pretty much like a virgin.

I pushed and pushed but got discouraged because I could see the pain that she was going through. My cock is about average sized but it is really thick. That's what's making this so awkward. I remember my first ladyboy gf, it was the same situation but I just went ahead with it and there was a lot of blood. Like too much ... which is something i wouldn't want my gf to go through if it can be avoided.

I need your advice !
Do you guys have any ideas and techniques that could minimize the pain for her? I've thought of the obvious stuff (lube, anal toys, getting her drunk joking!) but is there any other ways that I am not aware of?

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Well, what do you mean by "really thick"? What is the midshaft girth of your cock? If it's huge, you may just be too thick for this Thai girl to take up the ass. If not, get a few toys of increasing thickness, and use them to gradually loosen her up. Once she is used to something up there, go very slow and use plenty of lube - it's not rocket science.

I highly recommend Boy Butter. It washes well with water and won't stain, and it has a desensitizing agent that helps reduce pain around the anus.

Who wants to have a numb asshole?

YUCK!

It doesn't numb you to the point of not feeling anything. They can't put that much in it for something that's sold over the counter. But it does take away some of the sharp pains.

I know that hun, I have used anal-ease before.

And I find it to take away alot of the enjoyment of sex.

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Originally Posted by tsparisangelline

I know that hun, I have used anal-ease before.

And I find it to take away alot of the enjoyment of sex.

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Hmmm.... That hasn't been the case for me. But everyone is different. I did make the mistake of getting it on my lips once.... now that did reduce my enjoyment. LOL!

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Originally Posted by JP Ewing

Hmmm.... That hasn't been the case for me. But everyone is different. I did make the mistake of getting it on my lips once.... now that did reduce my enjoyment. LOL!

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