does it make sense for her to say she wont have sex with me b4 moving in the housebecause she wants to have 'something to hold onto'? she wont let me pay her either...ladies would u hold out on a guy if he was promising to let u live with him?i can't be using her...like she suggests....to get sex cuz i can pay her....im confused and losing my head.the problem. is also she's fucking. my dream tgirl. i've met many n this one is what i've alwts wanted,loooks wise and personality.just xold sexually