Hey Simon, not every guy here is a perv that just fantasizes about sex with a transsexual woman. Actually, let me restate that. We are all perves, but some of us do have girlfriends.
I have been with the same girl for almost five years now. She very beautiful and is totally passable and lives as a woman. When we first started dating, she told me I could never, ever out her to anyone. Thats just fine by me because I dont want her to out me to anyone either. At this point, I doubt that I will ever leave her, but if for some reason she leaves me. I would probably date another TS again.
Not every TS is a pornstar. There are so many TS girls out there that just live as everyday women, and are totally undetectable. I have met many TS's that live fulltime as a woman. Not all of them are sexy and beautiful, but you would be surprised at how many if them are very very passable. They just kind of fly under the radar and live their lives as a woman.
With that said, you have to admit that the girls here and on other TS forums and sites are very sexy and beautiful women. Many of them are more beautiful than even the most beautiful GG's.