Escorts - BJ with or without Protection ?

this thread makes me sad.

and, once again, i'll point to the research study above done in 2005. and no, jennifer, i'm not just talking about penetrative sex...isn't your life worth more than a couple hundred bucks?

AIDS is the major concern but their are many other diseases that should make one insist clients wrap it up for bj's. If you're an escort the odds are you're going to run across something sooner or later.

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Originally Posted by TJT

AIDS is the major concern but their are many other diseases that should make one insist clients wrap it up for bj's. If you're an escort the odds are you're going to run across something sooner or later.

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Co-fuckin'-sign.

I don't escort, but no glove no love.

And a dental dam for my coochie. :wink:

sometimes I think you guys are so full of shit. I mean, it would be awesome if the standard in the industry was guys demanding protection, but In my entire experience escorting I only had 1 client who ever chose to give me a bj while I wore a condom.

I always maintained a strict double standard. Guys have to be covered, and I would cover up if requested (strictly for blow jobs, anything involving penetrative sex needed a condom or glove). It was a risk I was willing to take (ie the risk of HPV, syphlis, etc... but not HIV). Since I don't ejaculate, or have pre cum, I could get tested and feel good about that option.

And for all the people who swear up and down that bj's don't cause HIV, I have a very close friend living with AIDS who knows exactly when, where and from who he contracted the Virus, and it was most definitely from oral sex.

Every single escort I have seen (five :) ) started to blow me without a johnny and I had to ask them too put one on . It may sound unbelivable but I had to ask one to put a johnny on as she was rubbing her dick around my butthole and I was concerned she was going to stick it in without a rubber. :shock:

I am always cautious apart from one moment of being a total fukhead and I am surprised as these girls weren't from a phonebox on Kings cross. Just because I may look healthy doesn't mean Iam and if I was them I would value my health more. But perhaps many men demand a blow job without a rubber so not all the blame can fall on them.

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Originally Posted by tsmandy

sometimes I think you guys are so full of shit. I mean, it would be awesome if the standard in the industry was guys demanding protection, but In my entire experience escorting I only had 1 client who ever chose to give me a bj while I wore a condom.

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That is amazing to me. With all of the information...that someone would actively choose that with anyone...anyone. And I'm not full of shit...but then again I don't visit escorts. But even in my personal life, I would never have sex (oral/penetration) with someone without a condom. It's truly a deathwish not to.

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Originally Posted by tsmandy

And for all the people who swear up and down that bj's don't cause HIV, I have a very close friend living with AIDS who knows exactly when, where and from who he contracted the Virus, and it was most definitely from oral sex.

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Yeah, I have a few friends that also are very well aware where and how they got it...oral.

A blow job with a rubber is not much of a blow-job and not something I would pay for.

That's why I don't pay for them. It's not worth the risk.

whatsupwithat seems to get pretty worked up about it, and I think he's right to. It's your life we're talking about, and people need to loose that; 'It's not going to happen to me' attitude. From what I have read, most Ts Escorts tend to exist in a closed community (of sorts). If even ONE person in that community has AIDS (and they do, it's been said) then everyone needs to take that to heart and smarten up.

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Originally Posted by shotgun

whatsupwithat seems to get pretty worked up about it, and I think he's right to. It's your life we're talking about, and people need to loose that; 'It's not going to happen to me' attitude. From what I have read, most Ts Escorts tend to exist in a closed community (of sorts). If even ONE person in that community has AIDS (and they do, it's been said) then everyone needs to take that to heart and smarten up.

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Yeah, i do get worked up. I have buried/taken care of enough friends to never not be. And if anyone would like to go visit an AIDS ward sometime or deliver food to homebound patients, I highly recommend it. Beyond bringing something to people, doing some good, you'll never go condomless again.

And you're absolutely right about the community. If one person has AIDS and they have unprotected sex...say with a john...and then that john has unprotected sex with other escorts...who have unprotected sex with other johns...who have sex with their wives and others...and on and on and on.

If I was transgender and an escort, I would be straight up telling my sisters who didn't use condoms to get their shit together...that they are putting me and everyone else at risk.

These are some general guidelines.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2...esexphoto7.jpg
AND REMEMBER HIV - AIDS ISN'T THE ONLY STD,
TO BE PROTECTED AGAINGST - HAVE FUN - BUT BE SAFE.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2...xchart8x10.jpg

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2...condoms4x4.jpg