Do you feel it's wrong?

^^ it doesnt but if a guy doesnt want to explore that or interested in a TS woman... then you wasted your time and his when you could have easily weeded him out...

heres my yahoo personal as an example....


http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/pr...ame=&frmsrch=1

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Originally Posted by tsntx

^^ it doesnt but if a guy doesnt want to explore that or interested in a TS woman... then you wasted your time and his when you could have easily weeded him out...

heres my yahoo personal as an example....


http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/pr...ame=&frmsrch=1

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Your dog is so adorable..yeah thats true..but the reason I was saying this is cause I met a guy off this site the other night and we had a wonderful date he never once mentioned sex or about me being a transexual which was refreshing. And he was hot to boot. lol

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by tsntx

i didnt vote.. but im on a ton of "straight" sites and i always say female as i dont see myself as male... nor do any guys... look at me.. i dont look like a male why would i claim to be one... anyway... while i say female i also put in my profile that im a TS... i think its dumb not to... why would you want to waste all that time laying down the groundwork for a relationship only for the guy to be turned off and leave? dumb.. say female so guys that arent gay get you in their searches and put that youre a TS in there to weed out the guys that dont have the desire to be w/ you... makes sence dontcha think?

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Oh I get what you are saying but I'm saying I don't tell them till after you get through the civilities and start really talking so about 20 minutes of talking then I say something. Or if they suggest we should meet I say something. Do you feel thats dumb?

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if youre really doing it w/ in 20 mins then theres no issue and your not investing that much time...

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i didnt vote.. but im on a ton of "straight" sites and i always say female as i dont see myself as male... nor do any guys... look at me.. i dont look like a male why would i claim to be one... anyway... while i say female i also put in my profile that im a TS... i think its dumb not to... why would you want to waste all that time laying down the groundwork for a relationship only for the guy to be turned off and leave? dumb.. say female so guys that arent gay get you in their searches and put that youre a TS in there to weed out the guys that dont have the desire to be w/ you... makes sence dontcha think?

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Oh I get what you are saying but I'm saying I don't tell them till after you get through the civilities and start really talking so about 20 minutes of talking then I say something. Or if they suggest we should meet I say something. Do you feel thats dumb?

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if youre really doing it w/ in 20 mins then theres no issue and your not investing that much time...

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Yeah it's usually about 20 minutes up to an hour of convo before I say anything. I think you can tell if the person is actually feeling you or not.

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

So I am on a few "straight sites"...and I put my status as female. And I talk to the guys for awhile to let them get to know me, then if I want to meet them I tell them. It usually works out in my favor, but there's always that small percent that get mad. Do you think I am wrong for doing it this way? Should I tell them flat out?

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I do the same, I don't think its wrong.

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Originally Posted by tsntx

^^ it doesnt but if a guy doesnt want to explore that or interested in a TS woman... then you wasted your time and his when you could have easily weeded him out...

heres my yahoo personal as an example....


http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/pr...ame=&frmsrch=1

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Your dog is so adorable..yeah thats true..but the reason I was saying this is cause I met a guy off this site the other night and we had a wonderful date he never once mentioned sex or about me being a transexual which was refreshing. And he was hot to boot. lol

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well thats how a REAL first date should be... there shouldnt ever be a focus on sex ... if it comes up ... say well since were at dinner and not at my place this constitutes as an outcall and that will be $350 lol -j

No it isn't wrong at all. I do the same thing.

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So I am on a few "straight sites"...and I put my status as female. And I talk to the guys for awhile to let them get to know me, then if I want to meet them I tell them. It usually works out in my favor, but there's always that small percent that get mad. Do you think I am wrong for doing it this way? Should I tell them flat out?

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I do the same, I don't think its wrong.

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Yeah I don't see the big deal either, however I have had a coulple guys get real mad at me. Saying I made them gay now cause they thought a dude was hot and all that other hoopla that comes with it. So it just made me wonder if maybe I am in the wrong.

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^^ it doesnt but if a guy doesnt want to explore that or interested in a TS woman... then you wasted your time and his when you could have easily weeded him out...

heres my yahoo personal as an example....


http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/pr...ame=&frmsrch=1

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Your dog is so adorable..yeah thats true..but the reason I was saying this is cause I met a guy off this site the other night and we had a wonderful date he never once mentioned sex or about me being a transexual which was refreshing. And he was hot to boot. lol

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well thats how a REAL first date should be... there shouldnt ever be a focus on sex ... if it comes up ... say well since were at dinner and not at my place this constitutes as an outcall and that will be $350 lol -j

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Yes definitely, but it seems that your transitioning always comes up, how long you been living as a girl how do you do this your hands are this your face is this and that just annoys me.

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Originally Posted by Vicki Richter

No it isn't wrong at all. I do the same thing.

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This must be my first good thread if Vicki responded to it lol