Would you have a relationship

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Originally Posted by hondarobot

I've been pretty anti "relationship" most of my life, personally. The most important thing for me would be open, honest, normal communication. Nothing in the world beats a great conversation.

I work at a nightclub, which makes sex pretty easy for me. Just hooking up with a girl has become boring.

I think everyone at some point pursues a relationship.

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I prefer relationships I am currently in one but a lot of the stress from being quote unquote stealth has gotten to me after about a year of it, I have always been open and honest about who and what I am I wish I could find a guy that would accpet me no matter not that I don't care about him but it hurts that he is ashamed

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Originally Posted by hondarobot

I've been pretty anti "relationship" most of my life, personally. The most important thing for me would be open, honest, normal communication. Nothing in the world beats a great conversation.

I work at a nightclub, which makes sex pretty easy for me. Just hooking up with a girl has become boring.

I think everyone at some point pursues a relationship.

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I prefer relationships I am currently in one but a lot of the stress from being quote unquote stealth has gotten to me after about a year of it, I have always been open and honest about who and what I am I wish I could find a guy that would accpet me no matter not that I don't care about him but it hurts that he is ashamed

its a pity kelly he feels ashamed about your relationship, i think its sad that we let other people judge our lives and worry what other people think is right or wrong. I had the same thing when i dated my ex Jen she was ts but i knew i wanted to be with her i wasnt gonna let other people make me feel ashamed of someone i loved.

Heh, you can say that again, Kelly. Seriously, it's a bitch if he's ashamed. I'm waaaay too old for you, and married to boot, but one thing I would never be is ashamed to be with you, or any woman that I loved. In fact, I couldn't be in love with anyone if I were ashamed of her in any way. That just does not compute.

As for the sex / love dynamic, for me they really are two different things. They certainly can complement one another, but I've had equally awesome sex with someone I love and with someone I was not in love with (3 of the former and 4 of the latter if memory serves). However, I have to connect with my partner for the sex to be intense: it may not be love, but it has to be real.

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Originally Posted by Ecstatic

Heh, you can say that again, Kelly. Seriously, it's a bitch if he's ashamed. I'm waaaay too old for you, and married to boot, but one thing I would never be is ashamed to be with you, or any woman that I loved. In fact, I couldn't be in love with anyone if I were ashamed of her in any way. That just does not compute.

As for the sex / love dynamic, for me they really are two different things. They certainly can complement one another, but I've had equally awesome sex with someone I love and with someone I was not in love with (3 of the former and 4 of the latter if memory serves). However, I have to connect with my partner for the sex to be intense: it may not be love, but it has to be real.

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yeah I wish guys my age had that attitude lol

Well, my 'relationship' node is pretty much broken from the abuses of past experience, so sex has been the driving force of my meetings with T-gurls, but if one sparked the heart electric...Who knows? :shrug

Yes Kelly, if I were to meet someone I would want a relationship..and hell, as for as the sex, that would be normal for two people in love...no matter what the gender. Just my bad fortune I live in the rural south and the chances of meeting a Transgendered lady is slim to none....but I still have my dreams...and of course HA...lol.

Hey hotfireman69, I don't know about Tallahassee, but Florida has a very substantial TS population, at least in Tampa and Miami. Miami I know is about 500 miles from Tallahassee, but Tampa is a lot closer as I recall.

Hey, Kelly...are you saying that he doesn't want people to know about your relationship, or that you're not a gg? If everyone assumes you're a gg, isn't that okay? Or do you want to be publicly TG?
Oh, and hi.

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Originally Posted by suckseed

Hey, Kelly...are you saying that he doesn't want people to know about your relationship, or that you're not a gg? If everyone assumes you're a gg, isn't that okay? Or do you want to be publicly TG?
Oh, and hi.

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No he doesn't want people to know he is dating a transexual and if they were to find out I am sure he'd leave me.