Originally Posted by
danthepoetman
Thanks a lot, Grim, I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your kind words.
What conclusion, Amber? that we’re all gay and that t-women are not women? Amber, please don’t turn this against me, would you. You’ll have to admit that Pejik is very feminine. And I didn’t say “I would”, I said “I don’t know how my body would react (since I’ve never been with a guy, and since the idea usually rather repulses me), but if I was to pick him up as a girl in a bar, he’s so feminine I really could have sex with him”. Besides, it was pretty much a wisecrack in the context, and I was trying to back Ben up. Here’s the complete quote: “As a matter of fact, and although you never know quite precisely how your body will react, I’m pretty sure if I was to pick him up in a bar, that I’d fuck the shit out of him (excuse the French)…”
This being said, Amber, I don’t quite understand your logic: even if I was really gay (which I would be ok with if I was), how can it be the fault of gay men if some people do not consider t-women to be women? You’re saying: “You said you would fuck Pejik, therefore how can't you blame him for thinking that?” Or else, you mean that it’s ok for him to insult me, maybe? or anyone else he has insulted here? I’m really not sure I’m following you…