How many guys here would actually DATE a TS?

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03-31-2009
LennyKoopa

Before I met my ex, I nevvvvver thought I would date a ts. of course I was attracted to them but couldn't really see myself going out on dates and doing public things with a ts.

I met her, and she totally changed me and my mentality. We had a relationship, lived together and I fell in love with her. I met her family and would have introduced her to mine.

I would date a ts again but I do know that I couldn't be comfortable being with a girl like that unless she is passable.
03-31-2009
phobun

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Originally Posted by keepingitreal470

But if ur looking for sugar coating, u wont find it here. Sorry.

But might she find some brown sugar?
03-31-2009
phobun

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Originally Posted by speck

Here is the problem...and this comes from a single unattached guy under 250lbs, 35 years old(and I look younger) with a full head of hair, and makes enough money to drive a gorgeous car and soon to own a house in a very expensive market(Los Angeles).....I don't get all those things without working my ass off. And in my situation(and in the situation of nearly every guy like me I suspect), there are career factors and social factors I have to be concious of.

I really would date and have a relationship with a transsexual...and even consider living together, long term commitment, marriage, etc...if the circumstances are right. But really, thats the same with GG also.

The things that really have to be present are that the person has to really present herself as a woman....in all aspects of life. My job and future earnings depend on this. If I were gay, thats not a stigma at all careerwise. But that I'm dating a "dude"(as the rumors would go), thats a real problem. Literally something that could keep me from promotions or choice jobs. Not to mention having to deal with rumors following me where ever I work. And then dealing with my friends isn't so much of an issue, but dealing with my family is. My parents are approaching 70 and its not fun or easy or anything I ever would want to deal with. I simply will never ever attempt to explain to my parents about people who are born with the wrong genetic parts. It's just not gonna happen.

You have issues.
03-31-2009
phobun

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Originally Posted by DL_NL

If the chemistry's OK, the rest is irrelevant.

Look for a mad scientist and perhaps she'll take care of the chemistry.
03-31-2009
fred41

I suppose various forms of this question are gonna be asked a lot on a site like this. Here are two of the most recent threads dealing with very similar subject matters:

http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=28295

http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=39641
03-31-2009
TommyFoxtrot

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Originally Posted by phobun

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Originally Posted by speck

Here is the problem...and this comes from a single unattached guy under 250lbs, 35 years old(and I look younger) with a full head of hair, and makes enough money to drive a gorgeous car and soon to own a house in a very expensive market(Los Angeles).....I don't get all those things without working my ass off. And in my situation(and in the situation of nearly every guy like me I suspect), there are career factors and social factors I have to be concious of.

I really would date and have a relationship with a transsexual...and even consider living together, long term commitment, marriage, etc...if the circumstances are right. But really, thats the same with GG also.

The things that really have to be present are that the person has to really present herself as a woman....in all aspects of life. My job and future earnings depend on this. If I were gay, thats not a stigma at all careerwise. But that I'm dating a "dude"(as the rumors would go), thats a real problem. Literally something that could keep me from promotions or choice jobs. Not to mention having to deal with rumors following me where ever I work. And then dealing with my friends isn't so much of an issue, but dealing with my family is. My parents are approaching 70 and its not fun or easy or anything I ever would want to deal with. I simply will never ever attempt to explain to my parents about people who are born with the wrong genetic parts. It's just not gonna happen.

You have issues.

That's pretty reasonable though. He said at the beginning of his post why it's problematic. You also have to factor in children. If you don't want to adopt you have to find a surrogate mother etc. Obviously this is long term, but at 35+ you're probably starting to look long term. I'm not even 30 and I'm looking long term.
03-31-2009
phobun

Re: How many guys here would actually DATE a TS?

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Originally Posted by Solitary Brother

In my estimation transexuals and GG almost EXCLUSIVELY go out with narrow minded guys.

Well if transsexuals and GG almost exclusively go out with narrow minded guys, perhaps there are some dudes who might be interested in an open minded guy like yourself.
03-31-2009
phobun

Re: How many guys here would actually DATE a TS?

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Originally Posted by ARMANIXXX

You should get out a bit.

The last time he took that advice he had to duck from all the falling girls.
03-31-2009
phobun

Re: How many guys here would actually DATE a TS?

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Originally Posted by Solitary Brother

Most of the hot one are escorts

Totally false.
03-31-2009
phobun

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Originally Posted by nohj68

Absolutely. As a matter of fact if my current situation fails that's going to be my next option.

Pessimism is the lot of losers.

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