It gets far more complicated than I could, or feel the need to, go into on here. As I alluded to, she and I have wound up in bed together a couple times. Her boyfriend wasn't jealous, he thought it was hot. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Azanti
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It gets far more complicated than I could, or feel the need to, go into on here. As I alluded to, she and I have wound up in bed together a couple times. Her boyfriend wasn't jealous, he thought it was hot. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Azanti
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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie
I am not looking to be a wiseguy or be disrepectful to you Julie but I'm confused ? Since he now knows that you are T and you two obviously have not had the time to develop an emotional attachment or even have a formal date, doesn't that make him just another "chaser" or at least simular to some of the civil guys on this forum who happen like tgirls ??
I can understand how a TGirl is flattered by a quality STR8 guy seeing you as a "woman" and showing interest. But when he finds out you are T within a matter of days and is still interested, what does that make him???
I'm sure quite of few men on this board (including myself) first became aware of TGirls in a simular way as your Long Island guy.
I am not posting this to try to change your mind or the other girls minds on what and who you find attractive. That is none of my business. I am just curious about how you girls qualify guys.
With due respect, best of luck with everything Julie.
Now I'm curious 8)Quote:
Originally Posted by NYTSJulie
Julie of course can of course give her take on what she feels a chaser is.Quote:
Originally Posted by PatrickFromNYC
But my definitioni is a guy who chases the dick and the woman that
it is atached to is irrelevant.
They basically go from dick to dick, have no intentions whatsoever of
being in a relationship with the woman, and will say and do anything
that they have to, to get the dick.
They are pretty much the same as a player, who is on a constant mission
to get pussy, bottom line they both see the women as objects to get their
rocks off, and rarely take the women's emotions into consideration.
once again, I am puzzles by the "dick-centrics" in definitions. Because, as I read it, it would be ok for a guy to jump from tranny-ass to tranny-ass, as long as he is not into the dick.Quote:
Originally Posted by peggygee
You can be a "chaser" as a top as well. Not that it matters much because in the last paragraph you are using a more general definition.
On another sidenote: If a "straight" guy is still interested in meeting a T-Lady after she revealed her "T", he is at least "curious", simply due to the fact that in the western hemisphere, in densly populated areas, you will hardly find a guy who is NOT aware of the existance of TS.
Interesting distinction.Quote:
Originally Posted by mbf
Though I think more women are put off by the cock bandit than the ass
bandit.
However I don't think that most women, trans or natal, want to be sought
after only for their pussy or their ass.
For a man to interested in a woman beyond sex is based on so many things besides their sexual organs. Each man has his own unqiue view. But the compatibility issue has to do with being interested in what the other person is about, how they fit into their lifestlye.Quote:
Originally Posted by peggygee
For example I care a lot about the global political scene. If I met a woman to date she would at least have to be interested enough to listen to my views. If she actually knows something about current events or history, then that's a plus.
So basically what is a woman bringing to the table besides her physical self? Does she care enough about him to care about what he cares about. For example, he might spend a lot of time helping his family out. If the woman is jealous of that time, the relationship will not work out.
I was away for night and just got back. I went to spend the night with my friend that lives in Westchester and to see a dear friend in Harlem.Quote:
Originally Posted by PatrickFromNYC
Well I did not hear from him today so who knows if he is still interested? The last thing he said is that he still wants to go out and he will call me when he is felling better.
He isn't a chaser, I been around the block more then once and can spot the game a mile away. I play the game back and take the chasers cash and walk away lol. He hasn't been with a tranny before, I wont date men in my personal life that have been with a tranny.
To answer your question on why he is still interested. He is still interested because to him I am still the hot girl that was in the bar that he and a bunch of other guys were trying to talk to. Its all based on appearances at this point.
co sign, chasers are for cash not husbands lolQuote:
Originally Posted by peggygee
You best option is just to let it go NYTSJulie. Just look at this incident as a true test whether this guy is really into you or not. And if he is, he would be man enough to take your being T like a real man that he is! Being a T for the most part IMO shouldn't be the end of things. I know this because, awhile back when I worked for Lerner's New York as a store manager..a co-worker whom I told about my being T clocked me to this cute and hot mall security guy who drops by at our store every time he see's me. One time, On my day off he went there and asked for me. This fat bitch co-worker of mine said something like "You know she isn't really a ____". The guys response to her was "It doesn't matter"! LOL So when I returned from my day off all my staffs were telling me how he shut her up! :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by NYTSJulie
I have another clocking incident back when I used to work at the Radisson giftshop when this filipina (yes filipina GG) clocked me to one of the chefs. As if I really wanted this chef in the first place. Anyways, we went out for drinks one night and he took me home (nothing happened). I didn't know this filipina gg's got the HOTS for him so she clocked me while they were talking back in the kitchen where they work together. Though the guy still went out with me after that clocking incident! :P And I did it just to further PISS her off!! LOL
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~Kisses.
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