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It does suck what happenend and I understand your anger, but at the end of the day if this guy wasn't cool about who you are, then he isn't really a long term prospect.
It prehaps would have been nice if you had more a chance to get to know each other as a person, then prehaps that would have made for a different outcome.
Plenty more fish in the sea, all you have to do is swing your bait around. :peanutbutter
Truth hurt Julie? lol
Women are lot of the times there worse enemies when guys online its real shame
The only time it is a tie is a good looking TS vs an average to less than average GG. A good looking GG is no competition to any TS. Sorry Julie, that is the way it is as much as you might hate to admit it. You always have your dreams to think otherwise. lol
You're so dumb and offensive. Why did you even sign up?Quote:
Originally Posted by CaliGuy
Actually, after thinking about it, my roommate only really started bashing on me when she realized I liked her boyfriend and kept trying to mess with his head. Haha, I even told her one time this summer that if they ever break up, he's fair-game. She was all, "You can't go after your friends' ex-boyfriend!" I totally would though. I guess this town has twisted me into driving myself crazy over a younger passive dirty hippie boy.
She has been trying to curb the whole thing ~ warning him about extraneous touching and hanging out too much. I liked it better when it had the air of a triad. Now they're engaged after only a year together (he's 21, she's 20) but I'll bet dollars to donuts they'll break up before they go through with it.
Anyway, not to go into too much detail but I think she attacks me when she feels threatened. She also feels awkward about the fact that he likes boys (bi-curious, never even kissed a guy, this is the first girl he's had sex with). He swears he likes pussy ~ soft and warm, intricate and the gateway to the world. His dad warned him to not marry the first girl that comes along, but I think he needs to experience being with a man before he gets married.
I think that guys who date tgirls have thought about it before, even if they assume a girl is a GG. My first straight BB boyfriend admitted some curiosity about penises, even though he said he'd never touch a man (he didn't particularly have any male friends either, only females). I got to teach him and that was nice but he mainly was just into anal (which he had done with GGs before).
Since he texted you, he's probably been rolling it around in his head for the past few days (whether he actually had strep or not). My guess is that he's intrigued. If he doesn't chicken out, I think you're in.
As for telling, one young, post-op girl told me that she didn't break the news until after they started sleeping together. She said this way he isn't freaked about the sexual aspect. She also had introduced him to a friend who was earlier in her transition and he had reacted well to her. She suggested this plan.
Of course you have to tell at some point (although there are stories about women in years past never revealing their secret to their husbands) but I'd be less nervous if I was post-op. I think phobic guys are more freaked out that a girl has a penis than just if she used to. Then the sterile issue is a big problem.
Zoe - putting up with people shitting on you is one thing,
Shitting on your own doorstep, thats something else entirely
@calieguy
Go jump off a bridge asshole.
@Kelly
As a wise ol TS told me "fish" are the enemy. She said more words but that says it all. You are a threat to them now.
@julie
To hell with him. He will just be loosing out on knowing you.
I consider myself a very honest and forthright person, but if I wereQuote:
Originally Posted by tgirlzoe
just going to have a casual encounter with someone I might not tell
them that I once upon a time had a penis.
Of course if they were relationship material I would share my 'herstory'
Fortunately I don't have alot of casual sex, so I'm not faced with that
conundrum often.
But Zoe you're right guys are more concerned with what you're working
with now, rather than what you used to have.
I've had more than a few tell me that if I still had a penis, it would be a
deal breaker.
But a very interesting aside is that if you mention to men in the
transcommunity, that you are a transwoman, you'd better be very
clear to them that you don't have a dick.
Or else you get treated like a red headed step child. :?
LOL... dating is so much fun.Quote:
Originally Posted by NYTSJulie