What the f*ck is up with some girls?!? Only date straight?

I love women who only date straight..it's the only ones I like

Re: confession & statement

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Originally Posted by mbf

ok here we go

this is a statement as well as a confession rolled into one.

first the confession part: I initially got interested in TS because of my sexual preference. I like anal-sex, on the active part (a "bunghole-buddy" - prpbably as bad as the "cock-bandit"...). with natural born women its very often a hassle to knock on her backdoor.

but, beeing a good boy (or trying to appear as one) I did my homework, and since I ve been always into outsiders of our beloved "mainstream" culture, that was another factor i steered towards the "T-community" (whatever that is....but i know it exists).yes, i am aware that there are many TS that want to blend in with mainstream. kudos to them. but the mainstream can live without me very well...

but my affection with the t-realm has nothing to do with sympathy, or fantasy. its what i learned to enjoy and like, with all its downsides and sources of enjoyment. and heck, i like those contradictions that come with it.

and I realized that is what i like. call it "the life" ....

I know where you are coing from Whatsupwithat. if you are candid with the fact you like TS, you are easily labelled "chaser", even if you - which i am sure are sincere as it can get - but i am so damn sure as well the girls KNOW that you arent one of the creepy chaser types. for a sincere guy the ladies hearts are BIG, BIG, BIG.

as for the sex-part:
I have been intimate with two TS so far, and in both cases i never touched their plumbing. Oral was me diving into her backdoor toungue-wise. I dont state that to appear "better" than others who are versatile or bottoms. thats just my preference and experience.

as for my current status:
i recently moved to a rural area and left big city life behind me. so, the "scene" is no option for me any longer.

I would not be reluctant to tell a TS that ive been with some before. why shouldnt I - if she asks. I assume that if more guys would cut the crap and dump the "dirty little secret" thing, be out and about with TS without shame, yeah that would be great. I am afraid it wont happen too soon tho. It takes sacrifice for anybody involved within the "community" but its worth it.

you dont have to be an activist to support "the community" (as diverse as it is, yet there IS a common ground) you can achieve this simply by standing up for your girls. you dont have to scream it into anybodys face, just pls dont deny what you like.

If youre a NoBullshitGuy, youll get no Bullshit from others....

We have something in common...

My number one reason for wanting to be involved with a TS is I am a lover of anal sex and getting it from GG's is like pulling teeth.

I'm not looking for some T girl to drill me in the backdoor, that's off limits, I am not DOWN for that one bit.

Oral I look at it as well: I eat pussy, so what's the difference???

I don't want to get deeply involved in "the life" its just not me, but where else am I suppose to meet these women???

Personal Sites are way too hit and miss, so like with anything you have to attack from all directions, I'm just not focusing on it.

Its just nice to see I'm not alone out here.....

I haven't read all of this. But I will do my best to explain the reasoning.

A transsexual, even if they currently have no desier for SRS knows it is always possible they will change their mind. Anyone who is really honest with themselves recognizes this.

Say they are with a man who is only into "chicks-with-dicks", they get all involved with him, date him, or even marry/domestic partner with him.... What happens if she decides latter on to have SRS? The man will leave her.

Argue all you want but I have heard the stories of that happening enough times to know how that works.

So most of us protect our emotions by only getting invested in men who will love us for WHO WE ARE. Get it? We are who we are regardless of whatever apendages we have.

I personally have not heard of a TS who found a man who loved her for who she was who knew she was a transsexual from the start. Every married TS I know of who is married to a man hid the fact she was TS from him for some time.

Understand?