How many guys here would actually DATE a TS?

In a heartbeat. If I can ever get out of this dysfunctional marriage of mine I would pursue exclusively a relationship with a pre-op transgender woman, I have learned through time that this is my physical attraction. I still like CIS women but there would always be something I long for more if I went down that path again. I am not attracted to post op trans women though, sorry but that surgery scares the crap out of me, the results are generally not appealing to me and there are way too may horror stories out there of complication. So if the dysphoria is there, then beginning a relationship with a girl who sees that as her destination wouldn't be fair on her.

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In a heartbeat. If I can ever get out of this dysfunctional marriage of mine I would pursue exclusively a relationship with a pre-op transgender woman, I have learned through time that this is my physical attraction. I still like CIS women but there would always be something I long for more if I went down that path again. I am not attracted to post op trans women though, sorry but that surgery scares the crap out of me, the results are generally not appealing to me and there are way too may horror stories out there of complication. So if the dysphoria is there, then beginning a relationship with a girl who sees that as her destination wouldn't be fair on her.

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I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

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I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

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Ah, it moves from special to normal. Been there!

..same here. had that and it was pretty much non-plus after a while...but, it's been so hard to meet someone since most of the folks have an ONLINE-ONLY/VIRTUAL-EXISTENCE...like, you'll never meet them...

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Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

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I think that's normal for most people in long-term relationships of any kind. It's not possible to sustain the same level of sexual excitement indefinitely, so the relationship has to evolve toward something different if it is to last.

Last woman I was with was full SRS.....

I'd marry one.

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I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

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Anyway, you're very lucky to find such a special girl. Well done to both of you!

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I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

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I am happy to hear you have found each other and seem in a great place.

The way I wrote my message makes it sound like the dick is the only thing I'm interested in. That's not really what a meant I was just trying to describe my "type" of girl, and it is only a girl, I don't want to form a relationship with anyone other than a woman.

What comes first and foremost for me is that connection not from a physical perspective but and emotional one, I want to actually like the person I am in a relationship with (which is not the case right now for me), I want to enjoy spending time with them, I want us to share interests and laugh together and make the most of life.

You can't however just dismiss the physical side of things, if you are not sexually attracted to your partner there will always be problems down the line. That's where I was comin from here. I would love to form a relationship with someone that embodies all those attributes I mentioned above but is also someone that turns me on and I of course turn her on. My "type" is most certainly pre-op transwoman.

For the last few months I have been checking out dating sites, facebook groups other online resources (because frankly where I live, the trans community is non existent), for potential partners. But it is a exercise in frustration. I know how difficult it is for a trans woman to find a genuine guy who wants to for a relationship with her rather than just fulfill some kind of sexual fantasy, I really feel for trans women in this regard.

However I have learned that it is also hard for men who have those intentions to find that suitable partner too, most profiles out there are fakes with pictures of famous trans porn stars, you'll get a lot of girls you maybe don't recognise who'll strike up a conversation with you, send you a unsolicited risky picture, then two messages later ask how you want to send her money, paypal or apple pay. Finding a genuine trans woman who is looking for a relationship is next to impossible it appears.

So stories like yours are inspiring where you've both found what you are looking for, thanks for sharing :)

I​'d marry one.

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I am happy to hear you have found each other and seem in a great place.

The way I wrote my message makes it sound like the dick is the only thing I'm interested in. That's not really what a meant I was just trying to describe my "type" of girl, and it is only a girl, I don't want to form a relationship with anyone other than a woman.

What comes first and foremost for me is that connection not from a physical perspective but and emotional one, I want to actually like the person I am in a relationship with (which is not the case right now for me), I want to enjoy spending time with them, I want us to share interests and laugh together and make the most of life.

You can't however just dismiss the physical side of things, if you are not sexually attracted to your partner there will always be problems down the line. That's where I was comin from here. I would love to form a relationship with someone that embodies all those attributes I mentioned above but is also someone that turns me on and I of course turn her on. My "type" is most certainly pre-op transwoman.

For the last few months I have been checking out dating sites, facebook groups other online resources (because frankly where I live, the trans community is non existent), for potential partners. But it is a exercise in frustration. I know how difficult it is for a trans woman to find a genuine guy who wants to for a relationship with her rather than just fulfill some kind of sexual fantasy, I really feel for trans women in this regard.

However I have learned that it is also hard for men who have those intentions to find that suitable partner too, most profiles out there are fakes with pictures of famous trans porn stars, you'll get a lot of girls you maybe don't recognise who'll strike up a conversation with you, send you a unsolicited risky picture, then two messages later ask how you want to send her money, paypal or apple pay. Finding a genuine trans woman who is looking for a relationship is next to impossible it appears.

So stories like yours are inspiring where you've both found what you are looking for, thanks for sharing :)

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Where I live and have lived pretty much my entire life there is no Trans Community or so I thought, if I am completely honest, I always sort of considered Transwomen to be extremely rare, like Porn and Jerry Springer rare. I never expected in my life that I would ever meet a transgendered woman let alone a transgendered woman who happens to live in my hometown.

I am currently 45 and I lost my first wife to cancer about 15 years ago now, it took me a long while before I was ready to enter a new relationship and the first few dates I went on were all complete duds.

That was until I happened to randomly meet this woman online (I cannot remember the website at this point, I want to say it was Match.com, but it could have easily been another one), we talked on the phone a few times before meeting in person. It was amazing how we shared so many of the same likes, F1 (we had both been to a few of the F1 circuits throughout the world), Food and Wine, Travel, Botanic Gardens, Cars (especially E chassis BMWs) and just a number of other topics.

In fact we both got so lost in our conversations that it was only after we agreed to meet that she called me back to tell me that she was Trans and that she hoped I was cool with it. At first, I honestly was taken aback, partly because I did notice that she was Trans from her profile and partly because I did not know how to tell her that I find Transwoman attractive (I did not want her to think that I was a chaser).

So, I said the only thing that I could think of at the time, that we shared so many of the same likes we should at least meet, the worst is that we do not like each other, but being Trans is not a disqualifier at this stage.

She said that was more than fair, we hung up and the next evening we met for a dinner at a favorite Thai place of hers where she knew the owners personally. We ended up talking for the entire two hours and then went to a bar down the road where we ended up closing down the place because we talked so much, it was the most fun that I ever had on a date without question.

The rest is history, we had a number of dates before the Trans topic came up again and that is when she went into great detail about her being Trans, explaining to me what it meant for her and what I should expect if we continued dating.

We have been married for 9 years now (will be 10 in September) and I could not imagine my life without her anymore, we are not just husband/wife, we are also best friends.

My point, is that you might be surprised who lives down the street from you or a town or two away, I never expected to find a Transwoman in my town, it is not exactly a multi-cultural kind of place.

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Where I live and have lived pretty much my entire life there is no Trans Community or so I thought, if I am completely honest, I always sort of considered Transwomen to be extremely rare, like Porn and Jerry Springer rare. I never expected in my life that I would ever meet a transgendered woman let alone a transgendered woman who happens to live in my hometown.

I am currently 45 and I lost my first wife to cancer about 15 years ago now, it took me a long while before I was ready to enter a new relationship and the first few dates I went on were all complete duds.

That was until I happened to randomly meet this woman online (I cannot remember the website at this point, I want to say it was Match.com, but it could have easily been another one), we talked on the phone a few times before meeting in person. It was amazing how we shared so many of the same likes, F1 (we had both been to a few of the F1 circuits throughout the world), Food and Wine, Travel, Botanic Gardens, Cars (especially E chassis BMWs) and just a number of other topics.

In fact we both got so lost in our conversations that it was only after we agreed to meet that she called me back to tell me that she was Trans and that she hoped I was cool with it. At first, I honestly was taken aback, partly because I did notice that she was Trans from her profile and partly because I did not know how to tell her that I find Transwoman attractive (I did not want her to think that I was a chaser).

So, I said the only thing that I could think of at the time, that we shared so many of the same likes we should at least meet, the worst is that we do not like each other, but being Trans is not a disqualifier at this stage.

She said that was more than fair, we hung up and the next evening we met for a dinner at a favorite Thai place of hers where she knew the owners personally. We ended up talking for the entire two hours and then went to a bar down the road where we ended up closing down the place because we talked so much, it was the most fun that I ever had on a date without question.

The rest is history, we had a number of dates before the Trans topic came up again and that is when she went into great detail about her being Trans, explaining to me what it meant for her and what I should expect if we continued dating.

We have been married for 9 years now (will be 10 in September) and I could not imagine my life without her anymore, we are not just husband/wife, we are also best friends.

My point, is that you might be surprised who lives down the street from you or a town or two away, I never expected to find a Transwoman in my town, it is not exactly a multi-cultural kind of place.

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Great to hear, thanks very much.

I'm not sure the truth will reach the minds of the fantasists who like to tell us there are no trans people who live within a hundred miles of them, but those who know, know.

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Where I live and have lived pretty much my entire life there is no Trans Community or so I thought, if I am completely honest, I always sort of considered Transwomen to be extremely rare, like Porn and Jerry Springer rare. I never expected in my life that I would ever meet a transgendered woman let alone a transgendered woman who happens to live in my hometown.

I am currently 45 and I lost my first wife to cancer about 15 years ago now, it took me a long while before I was ready to enter a new relationship and the first few dates I went on were all complete duds.

That was until I happened to randomly meet this woman online (I cannot remember the website at this point, I want to say it was Match.com, but it could have easily been another one), we talked on the phone a few times before meeting in person. It was amazing how we shared so many of the same likes, F1 (we had both been to a few of the F1 circuits throughout the world), Food and Wine, Travel, Botanic Gardens, Cars (especially E chassis BMWs) and just a number of other topics.

In fact we both got so lost in our conversations that it was only after we agreed to meet that she called me back to tell me that she was Trans and that she hoped I was cool with it. At first, I honestly was taken aback, partly because I did notice that she was Trans from her profile and partly because I did not know how to tell her that I find Transwoman attractive (I did not want her to think that I was a chaser).

So, I said the only thing that I could think of at the time, that we shared so many of the same likes we should at least meet, the worst is that we do not like each other, but being Trans is not a disqualifier at this stage.

She said that was more than fair, we hung up and the next evening we met for a dinner at a favorite Thai place of hers where she knew the owners personally. We ended up talking for the entire two hours and then went to a bar down the road where we ended up closing down the place because we talked so much, it was the most fun that I ever had on a date without question.

The rest is history, we had a number of dates before the Trans topic came up again and that is when she went into great detail about her being Trans, explaining to me what it meant for her and what I should expect if we continued dating.

We have been married for 9 years now (will be 10 in September) and I could not imagine my life without her anymore, we are not just husband/wife, we are also best friends.

My point, is that you might be surprised who lives down the street from you or a town or two away, I never expected to find a Transwoman in my town, it is not exactly a multi-cultural kind of place.

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That is a wonderful story, inspirational and inspiring. You are living the dream that we all have really, no matter which way you lean, we all just want to meet someone that is more than just a life partner, someone we are truly in love with. The fact that she is trans is inconsequential, which is perfect. You have found this after tragedy of losing your first wife too, I am so sorry for your loss.

I wish there wasn't such a stigma attached to men who are trans attracted, often just branded "chaser", I understand why it's there, I understand that a lot are just there for the sexual fantasy, but it just makes it hard for those of us that want more than a quick roll in the hay to date. If I ever get out of my dysfunctional marriage I will look to follow a similar route but doubt I would get as lucky as you have.

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The discussion in this thread is so odd to me. I get that if you're not looking for a relationship, then avoiding attachments is a no brainer. But if you're attracted to transgender women, and simultaneously seek a meaningful, interpersonal-romantic relationship, why on earth would you not date a transgender women? Again, I understand there is a certain social stigma to being an out trans-attracted male; but I can tell you from experience, transgender women are attracted to men who have the confidence to not let that toxic BS effect them. In fact, that's why I, a solidly average-looking guy, have been able to date many transgender women who were completely out of my league . . . including a few Grooby Girls ;)

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PS—since posting this in 2018, I married a trans woman.

I did and still do. A pretty girl is a pretty girl to me

My last flame was full SRS.....

Have done for 15 years now. More of my adult life than dating cis girls, currently engaged to my girl

There is a whole thread on here of tips to meeting tgurls .

https://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sh...s-in-Real-Life

It may be helpful

I am sad to say the person that started this thread, RubyTS passed away a few years ago. She used to escort out of RI.

I was told that her semen was NOT good to eat.
She was nice though and liked dogs too. 🐕

I've had 2 Trans girlfriends before. Both were wonderful experiences. I'm not really sure what the issue is.

Not just a transgender woman but I'd date a drag queen.
DQs I'd love to date: Derrick, Courtney Act, Naomi Smalls.
I'd date Sybilla. Who identifies as gender fluid.
I'd date Prince Flackoo too. Porn star.
I'd date Dennis Boer. 4 pics. Gay porn star too.

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Didn't know there people out there who made FWB sound more complicated than it actually was.

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I had that with TS Chriselle Love (Nguyen).

I really had feelings for her. We met on a dating site and after our first date she and I were a thing, sort of. She worked in an Asian Spa and did the hand jobs. She did not cum during her encounters but she was cheating on me. Due to her beauty inside and out, I was okay with it. After all it's hard to find cool and beautiful ts women because there just aren't that many. So it really wasn't cheating after all because I knew she was doing the clean and jerks.

I was really happy with her. We would go out in public. Some people thought she was female, others could tell.

When we left the establishments they knew I was about to be a lucky man and I knew I wasn't going to bed on an empty stomach.

Yeah, I would. I've been on a few dates and had fun so why not? My only hangup is not feeling like I'm really relationship material.

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Yeah, I would. I've been on a few dates and had fun so why not? My only hangup is not feeling like I'm really relationship material.

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I feel that I am. I dated 2 Asian girls and a few others. No matter how many dates I had or money I spent (dinners, drinks entertainment), they always had other guys in the picture. I was the main guy but other guys were also ejaculating with them. Many ts women really do act feminine but in this sense they have all been like men, player men. I feel their brains in this sense are more wired like men than women.

But the semen was good to eat, so I put up with it. Why? Because it would have been back to pussy or pay to play. At least they refrained with cumming with the other guy and I'd get very large sperms loads.

For some reason now it's harder to date ts women than before. I think a handful of years ago, they weren't as main stream. Now far more guys are dating ts women and it's less taboo.

Simply there is more competition now, more men have figured that semen is good to eat!!

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I feel that I am. I dated 2 Asian girls and a few others. No matter how many dates I had or money I spent (dinners, drinks entertainment), they always had other guys in the picture. I was the main guy but other guys were also ejaculating with them. Many ts women really do act feminine but in this sense they have all been like men, player men. I feel their brains in this sense are more wired like men than women.

But the semen was good to eat, so I put up with it. Why? Because it would have been back to pussy or pay to play. At least they refrained with cumming with the other guy and I'd get very large sperms loads.

For some reason now it's harder to date ts women than before. I think a handful of years ago, they weren't as main stream. Now far more guys are dating ts women and it's less taboo.

Simply there is more competition now, more men have figured that semen is good to eat!!

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I would have no problems dating a trans woman, the question is would you date a trans woman that was not very passible? As not all trans look like our favorite porn stars, judge people for who they are.
A lot of girls are fetishized, hence why they may play the field and get what they can out of men. My view treat a trans person like anyone else. It isn't rocket science.

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I would have no problems dating a trans woman, the question is would you date a trans woman that was not very passible? As not all trans look like our favorite porn stars, judge people for who they are.
A lot of girls are fetishized, hence why they may play the field and get what they can out of men. My view treat a trans person like anyone else. It isn't rocket science.

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I am not attracted to the ts girls that aren't passible. It's not society's rules either. If I was stuck on an island with a masculine looking ts, I'm all set.

I try to treat pretty ts women better than cis.

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I am not attracted to the ts girls that aren't passible. It's not society's rules either. If I was stuck on an island with a masculine looking ts, I'm all set.

I try to treat pretty ts women better than cis.

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I hear you B-Man, we all have our tastes in my early days I would only sleep with trans girls that were hyper feminine, had boobies. Over the years my preferences and standards are much looser whereby I can happily fuck a drag queen, let a femboy blow me, or fuck a crossdresser, sometimes if I have had a choice of a feminine young drag queen over a trans that cant get hard or cum,I go off with the DQ whilst not politically correct perhaps I much rather a functional hard cock that can blow rather than a limp noodle.

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I hear you B-Man, we all have our tastes in my early days I would only sleep with trans girls that were hyper feminine, had boobies. Over the years my preferences and standards are much looser whereby I can happily fuck a drag queen, let a femboy blow me, or fuck a crossdresser, sometimes if I have had a choice of a feminine young drag queen over a trans that cant get hard or cum,I go off with the DQ whilst not politically correct perhaps I much rather a functional hard cock that can blow rather than a limp noodle.

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There is definitely varying degrees to this. All of mine have been passible or really close to it.

However they don't have the fake tits.
I don't think I couldn't have sex with a DQ. They are too masculine.

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There is definitely varying degrees to this. All of mine have been passible or really close to it.

However they don't have the fake tits.
I don't think I couldn't have sex with a DQ. They are too masculine.

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Some of the young feminine ones on Ru Paul like Farrah Moan, Gia Gunn, Trinity Tuck and Jada Jolie are all totally fuckable and feminine. Check them out and let me know.

My girl is trans

In my late teens, I started seeing a girl I had been attracted to since we were in primary school. I thought I had finally become a man and all that was left in life was to finish school, get a job, buy a house, and start a family. I was so pleased with myself that I deleted my encrypted TS porn folder on my PC, but I continued fapping to fantasies of transwomen every night. That lasted all but two months and I found myself redownloading trans porn again. After that experience, I had pretty much resigned to the fact that I would never be happy with a cisgender woman and I'll end up cheating on her with transwomen.

I love femininity, but I'm repulsed by vaginas - they look like an axe wound. Every night I fantasise about making love to transwomen, but I would also like to start a family, so she would have to be comfortable with the housewife/mother role too.

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In my late teens, I started seeing a girl I had been attracted to since we were in primary school. I thought I had finally become a man and all that was left in life was to finish school, get a job, buy a house, and start a family. I was so pleased with myself that I deleted my encrypted TS porn folder on my PC, but I continued fapping to fantasies of transwomen every night. That lasted all but two months and I found myself redownloading trans porn again. After that experience, I had pretty much resigned to the fact that I would never be happy with a cisgender woman and I'll end up cheating on her with transwomen.

I love femininity, but I'm repulsed by vaginas - they look like an axe wound. Every night I fantasise about making love to transwomen, but I would also like to start a family, so she would have to be comfortable with the housewife/mother role too.

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Thanks for sharing many men can no doubt relate to your predicament. I think trans porn can be quite addictive and lead to unrealistic expectations when it comes to dating trans women in real life just an observation. Awlways mindful of consuming porn in moderation and having realistic expectations as at the end of the day the performers are human too and it is a job.

Have dated some great gurls and would again. Venues to meet them in NYC are few and far between though.

I have publicly dated several. They all looked like women tho.

It was super hard to tell.

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I have publicly dated several. They all looked like women tho.

It was super hard to tell.

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Question B'Man would you date a girl who wasn't passable in public? For me the easy way is to date a TS that is passable it is dating one in public that isn't so much is the real proof of being open and inclusive rather than discreet.

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Question B'Man would you date a girl who wasn't passable in public? For me the easy way is to date a TS that is passable it is dating one in public that isn't so much is the real proof of being open and inclusive rather than discreet.

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It's not about what others think. I am just more attracted to the fem ts women. So I would date a non-passable ts. A border line ts? Maybe.
I am open and inclusive within the lines of my personal and sexual tastes.

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It's not about what others think. I am just more attracted to the fem ts women. So I would date a non-passable ts. A border line ts? Maybe.
I am open and inclusive within the lines of my personal and sexual tastes.

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Well said B-Man. In my younger years I was with an attractive post op TS but being insecure I took her for A Happy Meal at McDoanlds drive through and was embarrassed. I regret this as I sense the girl I was seeing felt this too. The irony is this girl was unclockable.

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Well said B-Man. In my younger years I was with an attractive post op TS but being insecure I took her for A Happy Meal at McDoanlds drive through and was embarrassed. I regret this as I sense the girl I was seeing felt this too. The irony is this girl was unclockable.

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LMAO, I had a similar experience with a girl from Salem. She wanted me 2 pick her up and fuck. Her pics were all doctored up and when she got in my car, she was too manly for me. I drove to McDonald's we got food then I pretended 2 be sick then I drove her home.

I'd marry one of I had a chance

I've dated a lot of gurls in Los Angeles and I still do. There are a lot here and I have met them at the store, Home Depot, whatever. I don't even care if they're clockable. I've been to the movies, restaurants, etc. with them. Sometimes people stare sometimes they don't. Who cares? It's also about common decency. Would you want to go out with someone who's obviously embarrassed to be with you? The answer is no. So, if you don't think you can afford them that very small courtesy, don't do it.