GGs have the biggest issue with transsexuals

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Originally Posted by Bing147

Seems fair, assuming you don't let it go too far on the first date, lol. As a guy, I'd personally rather know on the first... but obviously its easier to wait a bit longer.

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The only time it goes to far on the first date, is if the guys a client and paying.

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Originally Posted by Bing147

Seems fair, assuming you don't let it go too far on the first date, lol. As a guy, I'd personally rather know on the first... but obviously its easier to wait a bit longer.

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I can Understand that but if hes a creep or you dont click, why tell guy you will never see again

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Originally Posted by Bing147

I'd want to know. Just saying. Wouldn't necessarily change wether I'd go for the person, but I'd want to know.

I agree that if you're just at the club having fun, or you're just talking, no need to bring it up. But once it gets romantic in anyway, it really isn't fair to keep it from the guy. Because honestly, for 80% (at least) of 'straight' guys, your having a penis is going to be a complete deal breaker. Not for all. There will be exceptions. Most of the ones who are exceptions will want nothing to do with your 7 inches, lol, but they are out there. However for most, the idea of dating someone with the same genitals is not something they're into. Yes, for some, its downright gross. For many, having even kissed you would gross them out. You're beautiful but you aren't genetically female and even if you get SRS, that will always matter to the majority. To hide that from someone and waste both of your time is counter-productive.

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This would argue for not telling the guy until far later into the relationship. If 80% of guys will get turned off automatically, then she won't want to tell guys right off the bat. Why would she want to endure negative reactions from 80% of the guys she dates? Most of those 80% can be weeded out by the girl on the 1st date, 2nd date, etc., until she is left with a guy who she knows is pretty liberal, not a homophobe, accepting of all types of people, and not some Romeo looking for a one night stand.

By that point there's probably only a 5% chance of a negative reaction.

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Originally Posted by peggygee

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

I get so frustrated when every trick comes out from under their rock to "tell it how it is". Myself and other girls have lived it. We know what works and what doesn't. We know how it works because we have been in all kinds of situations many times over. Its like me trying to tell a black lady how to be black.

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If you haven't walked the walk, you shouldn't talk the talk. :smh

Sorry guys the information and experience that you have picked up
from TS porn sites, and escort experiences, do not qualify you as
experts or qualified to make informed comments.

For us, as women this is our life 24/7/365.

For many of you, you haven't even met a transwoman, let alone been
in a relationship with one.

And on the SRS tip, I distinctly recall that only a handful of you have
stated that you have been with a post op, so again I will assert that
you do not know wherof you speak.

Finally, Julie, by no means would I get violent with the woman in question,
but I would explain to her in no uncertain terms why what she did wasn't
cool, and to keep my name and my business out of her mouth.

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Hi Peggygee,

I understand what you're saying here, and I agree, to at least some extent.

But where I disagree, are on the basic principles of right and wrong, honesty and dishonesty, truth and lies.

I consider myself a reasonable thinker, with a reasonable sense of right and wrong, and in this case, dealing in the terms of what were given here, Julie's "mode of operation" (Modus operandi), is dishonest at best.

I'm not saying she doesn't have her own personal reasons or rationale for doing "her thing" this way, and I'm not saying that it works or doesn't work for her most of the time or otherwise, but what I am saying is it clearly didn't work this time, and her way may have cost her THE TIME.






But, of course,

What do silly tricks know.

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Originally Posted by Odelay

This would argue for not telling the guy until far later into the relationship. If 80% of guys will get turned off automatically, then she won't want to tell guys right off the bat. Why would she want to endure negative reactions from 80% of the guys she dates? Most of those 80% can be weeded out by the girl on the 1st date, 2nd date, etc., until she is left with a guy who she knows is pretty liberal, not a homophobe, accepting of all types of people, and not some Romeo looking for a one night stand.

By that point there's probably only a 5% chance of a negative reaction.

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That's my point exactly. The guys that get "weeded out" for whatever reason (bad personality, nothing in common, whatever) aren't being wronged by not being told because- it wouldn't have worked even IF they were cool with it.

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Originally Posted by peggygee

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

I get so frustrated when every trick comes out from under their rock to "tell it how it is". Myself and other girls have lived it. We know what works and what doesn't. We know how it works because we have been in all kinds of situations many times over. Its like me trying to tell a black lady how to be black.

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If you haven't walked the walk, you shouldn't talk the talk. :smh

Sorry guys the information and experience that you have picked up
from TS porn sites, and escort experiences, do not qualify you as
experts or qualified to make informed comments.

For us, as women this is our life 24/7/365.

For many of you, you haven't even met a transwoman, let alone been
in a relationship with one.

And on the SRS tip, I distinctly recall that only a handful of you have
stated that you have been with a post op, so again I will assert that
you do not know wherof you speak.

Finally, Julie, by no means would I get violent with the woman in question,
but I would explain to her in no uncertain terms why what she did wasn't
cool, and to keep my name and my business out of her mouth.

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After sleeping on it I decided that I am not going to beat the piss out of her, but I do feel that i MUST say something. The question is should I call her, or go into the bar and speak with her there, or wait outside for when she gets off work. I feel I need to be effective because I frequent this place often and I do not need her telling anyone else.

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

After sleeping on it I decided that I am not going to beat the piss out of her, but I do feel that i MUST say something. The question is should I call her, or go into the bar and speak with her there, or wait outside for when she gets off work. I feel I need to be effective because I frequent this place often and I do not need her telling anyone else.

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Good luck, I've never been in this situation, but I easily could be. Please keep the board updated.

Also something to keep in mind is that she may not have done it maliciously? People can be real ignorant - if you've continued to be an acquaintance of hers for a few years since telling her and this is the first issue, then it might not be a huge deal?

UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE............I just got a text form the guy saying........."sorry I haven't called I wasn't blowing you off I have been sick with strep-throat". I will wait 1 hour then text him back saying "hope you feel better". I will wait the hour so he don't think he is too important lol. I will also just text him back "I hope you feel better". I have learned you cant seem over anxious, if you act less interested they want you more.

Think GG have no issue with transexuals, they do not aspire to be a TS whereas transexuals have a desire to be a GG. Who has the biggest issue?

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Originally Posted by CaliGuy

Think GG have no issue with transexuals, they do not aspire to be a TS whereas transexuals have a desire to be a GG. Who has the biggest issue?

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Your so dumb, they have issue if we look better then them and get more attention. I know they dont aspire to be ts, your a fool.