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You are welcome Dkg. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Dkg
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Well I am also a very demanding lover sexually. I don't think most men would have any stamina to go find many women while in a relationship with me. I prefer getting fucked at least twice a day.
But yes I totally feel that while I am escorting and having sex on camera, I cannot demand faithfulness from my partner. It's like a stripper telling her boyfriend that he can't go to strip clubs.
For those of you saying this is odd or strange, think about swingers. There are guys who are swingers who love seeing their spouse get fucked by groups of men. There are swingers who love only each other, but fuck a lot of different people. I am just saying fuck who you want, but come home to me, love only me, and give me what I need when I need it.
I don't like seeing guys take dick from guys. I feel that a lot of guys, perhaps more so on the bottom guy side, use TS as training wheels for gay sex. There are some who might settle for GG's with strap on's, but many guys will graduate to gay sex because of their pressing need for cock in their mouth and ass and the fact that TS cost too much to get it at the frequency they need. I receive 5-10 emails a week from guys professing they want to be my slave and want to be feminized to pleasure whomever I want. These guys are looking for an excuse to take cock... not just my girl cock, but any cock. This is a healthy fantasy, but it isn't what I want in a relationship.
I think most TS women (or real women) want a man who is mostly or completely "all man" from a societal norm perspective. This should be obvious, but the adult industry makes it appear otherwise. (again, I say MOST, not all).
And the most unqualified poster of the day is,... me.
But here goes anyway.
I’ve never dated a t-girl much less had sex with one. This is for several reasons which, I hope by the end of this post, will have something to do with the topic.
First off, I don’t really meet all that many (that I am aware of). I don’t live in Manhatten or frequent any place where t-girls tend to congregate.
Of the few that I have met, there have been some issues. First off, as a couple of the ladies replied, they are in the sex business. I wouldn’t date anyone in the sex business whether she was GG ( a term I just figured out from the context about 15 minutes ago ) or Ts, or Martian. I have this weird hangup about my woman fucking other people. I don’t know what percentage of Ts woman are into that sort of thing, but it does weigh on my mind
Another thing I have noticed is the distinct lack of Ts girls who wear sneakers and T-shirts. I’m a simple meat-and-potatoes kind of guy. When I say “Hey, you wanna go catch a movie?” I prefer not to wait 4 hours for her to get ready. I looked at some of the pictures of girls from the “Tranny Tuesdays” posts and man,... they look mighty nice. But this is how I’m used to seeing T-girls dress, and it all looks very high maintenance. If someone were to come to my apartment looking like that, the neighbors would think I called an escort service.
The other thing is this whole “community”. I just don’t feel the need to support or be involved in much outside of the well being of my family and loved ones. I figure as long as I’m not bashing anyone or getting down on them, I don’t owe anyone. After all, we would never have needed a civil rights movement if there was no prejudice in the first place. I don’t understand all of this terminology and don’t know why I would have to. Every relationship is going to have it’s problems, no matter what kind of relationship it is. God knows I’ve been through my fair share of nonsense with so called “normal” women. Is it not enough to like the person that I am with and just care about what she wants personally? Must I also have some intimate knowledge of the community she is in and all of it’s idiosyncracies? A community is after all - other people- and I’m of the mind that other people have nothing to do with my personal relationships. The highs and lows of my relationships are between me and her.
Now, as far as Ts women looking for straight guys or “tops” (another term I learned today) From my perspective it makes perfect sense. I don’t like men. I’m a guy, and I’m straight. My brain is wired in such a way that I like women. There’s no changing that, I am what I am. This applies to more than just the way someone looks, although, looks are important in that regard. Women walk a ceratin way, talk a certain way, and think a certain way. I am attracted not only to the curves of a woman’s body, but to the feminine nature of her mind. So, if what I have read through a lot of these boards is right,.. Ts women have brains that are wired as women. Naturally then, many would be looking for a man who walks, talks, and thinks like a man. Not that gay men aren’t men, just that a Ts may very well have the mindset of a straight woman, and straight men do not act the same way as gay men.
Everyone seems to be hung up on the word preference. I don’t think that’s the issue. If you are gay, you’re gay. It’s not like you flipped a coin and chose it. It’s who you are. A ts woman who feels as a straight woman is no different. We do not choose what we are. The most we can do is be the best of who we are.
Sorry this was so long.
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This thread ties with Ladies, What Do You Consider "Gay"?
wow, now even you peggygee ! have fallen victim of the new HA-trend of resurrecting (relatively) dromant threads!Quote:
Originally Posted by peggygee
well, i ve been guitly of that myself so :P
If I would be given a dollar each time I heard someone say that, especially from girls, I'd have an entire army of gold robots by now. :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Darkwing Duck
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Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
~Butt-head voice~ I love you....uh huh huh huh....uh...huh huh huh.
I think most of us guys that like TS girls enjoy that they or are turned on by the fact they have a dick. If you don't like dick, you would want a genetic woman--stop kidding yourselfs. A guy has to pretty dumb not to know he is dating a TS. Props to all of you beautiful TS girls.
ok here we go
this is a statement as well as a confession rolled into one.
first the confession part: I initially got interested in TS because of my sexual preference. I like anal-sex, on the active part (a "bunghole-buddy" - prpbably as bad as the "cock-bandit"...). with natural born women its very often a hassle to knock on her backdoor.
but, beeing a good boy (or trying to appear as one) I did my homework, and since I ve been always into outsiders of our beloved "mainstream" culture, that was another factor i steered towards the "T-community" (whatever that is....but i know it exists).yes, i am aware that there are many TS that want to blend in with mainstream. kudos to them. but the mainstream can live without me very well...
but my affection with the t-realm has nothing to do with sympathy, or fantasy. its what i learned to enjoy and like, with all its downsides and sources of enjoyment. and heck, i like those contradictions that come with it.
and I realized that is what i like. call it "the life" ....
I know where you are coing from Whatsupwithat. if you are candid with the fact you like TS, you are easily labelled "chaser", even if you - which i am sure are sincere as it can get - but i am so damn sure as well the girls KNOW that you arent one of the creepy chaser types. for a sincere guy the ladies hearts are BIG, BIG, BIG.
as for the sex-part:
I have been intimate with two TS so far, and in both cases i never touched their plumbing. Oral was me diving into her backdoor toungue-wise. I dont state that to appear "better" than others who are versatile or bottoms. thats just my preference and experience.
as for my current status:
i recently moved to a rural area and left big city life behind me. so, the "scene" is no option for me any longer.
I would not be reluctant to tell a TS that ive been with some before. why shouldnt I - if she asks. I assume that if more guys would cut the crap and dump the "dirty little secret" thing, be out and about with TS without shame, yeah that would be great. I am afraid it wont happen too soon tho. It takes sacrifice for anybody involved within the "community" but its worth it.
you dont have to be an activist to support "the community" (as diverse as it is, yet there IS a common ground) you can achieve this simply by standing up for your girls. you dont have to scream it into anybodys face, just pls dont deny what you like.
If youre a NoBullshitGuy, youll get no Bullshit from others....
Why should it be anyone elses business? Why cast that burden upon ourselves? I don't see the need to do it openly unless you're in a relationship. Its no different to me than a guy being open to everybody about details about his sex life. Some things are meant to be kept private. Just like one-night-stands with women.