How many guys here would actually DATE a TS?

The discussion in this thread is so odd to me. I get that if you're not looking for a relationship, then avoiding attachments is a no brainer. But if you're attracted to transgender women, and simultaneously seek a meaningful, interpersonal-romantic relationship, why on earth would you not date a transgender women? Again, I understand there is a certain social stigma to being an out trans-attracted male; but I can tell you from experience, transgender women are attracted to men who have the confidence to not let that toxic BS effect them. In fact, that's why I, a solidly average-looking guy, have been able to date many transgender women who were completely out of my league . . . including a few Grooby Girls ;)

yes

back in the day I used OKcpid and just so happened to meet two amazing ts women on it.
I recently signed up for grinder and I'll be honest I've fucked it up but I even got a date....

I would.

I would if I was single again. I already have my kids and don’t want any more. Nowa days I’m more interested if she has the same values and interests as me. Of course looks are important also to some degree.

She could super hot, but with a shitty immature attitude that I see alot of younger girls having, I would not even be vaguely interested. Not for dating. Also if she’s escorting or making flicks that’s a deal breaker.

I have.

I think I would date Kayleigh Coxx, and maybe one or two others. But that's never going to happen.

Sounds reasonable. Good looking would be important to me. Shallow I guess but it wouldn't trump companionship.

I actually would like to date a transgender female long term, I just have no idea where to even look or find a girl looking for the same. Any advice where to look would be great, I couldn't care less if someone had an issue with it. Life is short, do whatever makes you happy

I would love to date a transgender girl. I’m married and I think I would most likely tell my wife at that point. But I would need a serious relationship for that. I think the majority of the people on here who want to have the same problem. Where do you meet girls like that. But I would be 100% into it

Hell, Im engaged to one. As long she's not an addict, bigot or a gun nut i don't mind dating one

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Originally Posted by Dudedude12345

Hell, Im engaged to one. As long she's not an addict, bigot or a gun nut i don't mind dating one

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Is she a good looking girl??? Pre or post op??? And how does ur family feel about her???

Shes pre op and whats between her legs is not a concern to my family or anyone else. The only thing that matters is that i love her

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Originally Posted by Wethole6969

Is she a good looking girl??? Pre or post op??? And how does ur family feel about her???

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WTF kind of questions are those?

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Originally Posted by Fitzcarraldo

WTF kind of questions are those?

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Jeez. I was just curious

As long as they're 100% passable with a feminine voice. A Bailey Jay type in other words.

If the personalities/values are a match and there's a reasonable level of attraction, of course.

If faced with the option of a TS girl or a genetic girl who met that criteria, I'd probably go with the TS girl. I wouldn't rule out a guy either if there was some crazy connection/attraction.

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Originally Posted by RubyTS

Don't get your hopes up boys im not in the market 4 a man :P
BUT I AM curious to see who here would consider being in a serious long term committed relationship with a TS! Post your pictures... maybe some girls on here ARE looking for someone. And fot those of you who would NOT date a TS, post your reasons!

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I would, I have, and I am at the moment. Funny thing is this relationship is a Poly relationship. And it's sexy as a mother fuck! We do all the nastiest fucking we want to each other and we chill and have fun together. What I love is how she force me to my knees and beat my face with her big ass cock, that shit is sexy as a mother fuck! We are open and we try new nasty shit all the time. So I don't see me breaking up with her no time soon. We were even talking about getting married, not under the United States law under our own. She is part of a TGirl society and I was initiated. Boy oh boy when I tell you I had my dreams come true that shit turned me out and she told me she was going to turn me out and I would fall in love with her cock. And I did, no denying it.

Never play XBox with a TGirl, they will kick your ass LOL My TGirl Mama KK beat my ass so bad I was angry at her for a week LOL When she got me she did what we call a "Rip" on my ass where she shoves her cock in my ass with one Push. and she spanked my ass and fucked me real good. My ass was sore and we laughed about that shit and her other TGirl friend laughed also. But we have fun, I am sick of chicks these days, there are only a few that are Dommes that I like and we hall have what we call "Fuck Parties" I tell ya it's off the hook.
Funny thing is she is femme and guys wanna fuck her LOL But she don't waste her time because when she tells them she has a bigger dick and she will rip their assholes open they just be like "Oooooooh shit wtf" lol She is packing 9 inches of pure African Meatage LOL hahahahah

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Originally Posted by Dudedude12345

Hell, Im engaged to one. As long she's not an addict, bigot or a gun nut i don't mind dating one

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LOL speaking of guns, my TGirl I am with now, has a TGirl that carries a gun for protection, plus she worked for the state. My TGirl Mama KK made me sit on her cock and lay back on her chest while her TGirl Friend beat my balls with the but of her gun. I ain't going to lie the pain of the hits while Mama KK was fucking me in the ass put me in heaven. She thought I wouldn't like it, and now we add that in some times. I take every inch of her cock in my ass and the rush from the pain of it drives me crazy. So with me a lil gun play won't hurt. One time she left one bullet in the chamber I said "Bitch are you crazy?" Why in the fuck did I say that, they both grabbed me by the neck slapped my face and told me to kneel my bitch and she told me " You bitch ass whore, I will blow your fucking head off, suck my dick bitch" while the gun was at my temple. Mama KK standing behind me jacking her dick off on my neck then leaning down saying "suck that dick you son of a bitch, spit all over and suck that motha fucking dick, you're our bitch, get nasty with that shit". They make me suck a lot of dick and tell you the truth I love that shit.
Now how come I loved that shit? LOL Why is my dick hard right now thinking about that shit LOL I have come to terms with myself IMA CRAZY MOTHA FUCKA lol lol lmao

im half tempted to restart my okcupid profile just to maybe give it another chance....
dont try grinder to meet trans women it just doesn't work

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Originally Posted by crystalsopen

If a guy has actually dated one of us, then it probably does seem a little silly. I've been several guys first t-girl (I use the phrase training wheels tranny), and at first they as questions like this. A better question is: would you date a T-girl sex worker. That adds another level of complication to a relationship.

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This post is four years old, but is worth a response. When I was in my early 20's, I dated transwomen for about a year who was a full-time sex worker, meaning escorting, a few shoots with Grooby, and occasional HC scenes. What's crucial to remember is that sex workers have emotional needs, just like everyone else, and the person you meet as a trick or consumer of porn is (usually) a manufactured persona.

We met completely outside of her professional world (she replied to a M4T personal add I'd posted in Craigslist's "Miscellaneous Romance" section). She was upfront about her work, which she disclosed after two or three dates, and I got to know her as a complicated, three dimensional person with strengths, weaknesses and insecurities, who was very different from her up-for-anything, barely legal, sex kitten persona.

To sustain such a relationship, ground rules are important. For example, I made it clear that I didn't want to be part of her professional life. She was adamant that, since she'd been upfront about her work, I had no right be jealous or possessive about her interactions with clients. And, we mutually agreed that, other than her seeing clients and shooting scenes, neither of us would sleep with other people. Finally, even though she had a strict policy with clients that she never did bareback sessions, we always used condoms together.

From my perspective, the hardest aspect of the relationship was worrying about her safety because, no matter how many precautions a working girl takes, there is always an element of danger in escorting, and she had a few close calls before and while we were together.

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Originally Posted by RubyTS

Don't get your hopes up boys im not in the market 4 a man :P
BUT I AM curious to see who here would consider being in a serious long term committed relationship with a TS! Post your pictures... maybe some girls on here ARE looking for someone. And fot those of you who would NOT date a TS, post your reasons!

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RIP Ruby TS. :(

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Originally Posted by jamesedwards

LOL speaking of guns, my TGirl I am with now, has a TGirl that carries a gun for protection, plus she worked for the state. My TGirl Mama KK made me sit on her cock and lay back on her chest while her TGirl Friend beat my balls with the but of her gun. I ain't going to lie the pain of the hits while Mama KK was fucking me in the ass put me in heaven. She thought I wouldn't like it, and now we add that in some times. I take every inch of her cock in my ass and the rush from the pain of it drives me crazy. So with me a lil gun play won't hurt. One time she left one bullet in the chamber I said "Bitch are you crazy?" Why in the fuck did I say that, they both grabbed me by the neck slapped my face and told me to kneel my bitch and she told me " You bitch ass whore, I will blow your fucking head off, suck my dick bitch" while the gun was at my temple. Mama KK standing behind me jacking her dick off on my neck then leaning down saying "suck that dick you son of a bitch, spit all over and suck that motha fucking dick, you're our bitch, get nasty with that shit". They make me suck a lot of dick and tell you the truth I love that shit.
Now how come I loved that shit? LOL Why is my dick hard right now thinking about that shit LOL I have come to terms with myself IMA CRAZY MOTHA FUCKA lol lol lmao

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So now u like gettin ya balls busted?

I have dated and lived with the same TS woman for five years

If she were a top I certainly would.

It definitely would be an option if I was in the position to date again.

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Originally Posted by Dudedude12345

Shes pre op and whats between her legs is not a concern to my family or anyone else. The only thing that matters is that i love her

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I definitely would date a TS woman however I just wouldn't know where to look. I live in NJ, I am never in the city and I never ever meet trans women when I am out. Anyone have any ideas on where to go or if there are any good dating sites? Im all ears haha

RIP Ruby i would have been with you i thought you were cool and beautiful you are missed
hugs

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Originally Posted by Niko166

I definitely would date a TS woman however I just wouldn't know where to look. I live in NJ, I am never in the city and I never ever meet trans women when I am out. Anyone have any ideas on where to go or if there are any good dating sites? Im all ears haha

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Try OkCupid, Grindr, maybe Tinder; they have filers that will help you find someone. If you're in North Jersey there are lots of transwomen near you: Newark, Jersey City, Brooklyn, even Staten Island.

Definitely!

Been in a few LT relationships with TS women. Sadly, they didn't work out for various reasons (alcoholism, drug use, distance).

Don't even bump this thread folks Ruby was a terrible stain on the TS community. She's gone so I'll say no more but those who knew know.

I did, a good number actually but never more

I dont want give any advice or influence anyone, its a personal decision i took to my life only

I would :-)

No shame in being with a trans girl, long-term is the same. Everything is possible now a'days :pumped:

Yes!

...I am back on the market and looking. Unfortunately - I have been on most of the dating platforms and it's hard (not impossible) to find someone. I was in a LTR and looking to get into another, soon...maybe I'm getting old and the girls are getting younger...some are 'working girls', some aren't...I'm not giving up - just not as easy as it was before here in L.A.

I never had a problem with the whole "dating a trans" stigma...I was proud to be with my partner with friends and family---just like dating in a hetero situation...look forward to meeting someone again

One of the trans girls I dated when I lived in LA, I met on an internet dating site.

We exchanged phone numbers and chatted a little before our first date. On that first phone call she told me she was "narcissistic." I remember laughing after she said it because it had to be a joke (right?). I thought who the hell would tell you they were narcissistic on a first phone call.

Long story short, she wasn't joking.

I wouldn't

I have a couple reasons why.

First and foremost our social world is still not very accepting of male queerness or fluidity of any kind(especially in my community). And to be open and dating a translady that isn't super passable would really hurt my opportunities dating cis-women. Which is 99.9% of my dating pool so it wouldn't make sense to possibly alienate myself from the majority of my dating pool for just a small fraction of people.

Second, there is a difference between dating trans and cis-women. I don't intend on offending any translady this is just my experience. I think transwomen come with a lot of mental baggage that I personally can't help or support with. Dating cis-women is already A LOT of work and I am kind of an impatient person so dealing with them is hard enough and I get impatient with them. Dating a trans-women is like doing double time and I am not built for it.

Third, call this crass if you want, but I just LOVE pussy. I want to come home to it, wake up to it, and leave my home knowing it will be there when I come back after a long day. Don't get me wrong, I am very fluid. I love dick and balls as well but pussy is where home is. And no I don't like SRS pussy. I it actually freaks me out. But I prefer pussy over dick.

Fourth I have yet to do anything with a transwoman in person. So I am still am not sure if it's something I actually will like.

In a world that is more accepting I would probably be open to having a poly relationship with a transwoman or having a transgf who is a side girl but in my city and in my community it's just not happening.

I don't mean to offend any one. Mature and respectful discourse welcome.

I have my fair share of online/over the phone encounters with trans-women who have similar bizzare traits. It's not uncommon, there usually some weird set of baggage they come with.