It was Ruby being Ruby..its part of what makes you so damn sexy.
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It was Ruby being Ruby..its part of what makes you so damn sexy.
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RubyTS, LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by SarahG
You are a trip!! A very sexy one, mind you, but still funny as shyt!!
Hrm, I'm a black dude and I'd be into bottoming. *shrug* You figure blacks only make up about 12% of the population anyway, so I suppose it makes sense that there'd be less of them in comparison to whites for any given statistic in most cases.
Even though I participated in the poll, I thought it was a pretty stupid (and probably inherently racist, but not in a mean spirited way) inquiry. On any given day and depending on the circumstances and the particular girl involved, I could go either way (I'm not black, if that matters). It's too simplistic to accept the notion that societal power or "norms" makes it easier for one group to more inclined to bottom than it is for another group to top or to make generalizations that any particular color or culture wants to do anything. For example, for the longest time, there was this notion that black guys didn't eat pussy because it wasn't a masculine thing to do but that white guys did. Well for what its worth, there was the rumor of a rush of black gals dating white guys because they ate pussy and that was pretty much bullshit too. For me, if the mood seems right I'm on top or on the bottom and if it's really right I'm both. Afterall, it's just sex and if it feels good do it. If it feels great do it again!
Maybe there's something in this. Black girls (gg) like white men cos they love having their cunt licked. Apparently black men aren't into this overall, so I've been told :roll:
You're missing my point...they're all bullshit generalizations. Some guys (black and white) do or do not like to (eat pussy, top, bottom, eat cock...whatever!) Some girls (black and white) do or do not like to (eat cock, top, bottom, eat pussy...whatever!). And this is by no means intended to exclude what Latinas or Asian girls do or do not prefer, I'm simply trying to make the argument simplier for people to digest. Becaue we all know that Latinas love to top and asians love to bottom...right? Well that's bullshit too. (sorry couldn't resist)
The generalization is all in your head. I just asked a question. Do you understand the difference between that and asserting as fact? You say no. Others have said yes. That does not make them, or me,racist.
As for "more black men in prison"... to break that down in the way some have misses the point. It is not logical having one race make up 35% of the incarcerated population. When black people are 13.3% of the population? What kind of emotional message does that send. That my friends is real racism, not someone's views on topping or bottoming. :roll:
Isn't that basically what I had said? % ranges of inmates goes as high as 42% depending on whose data you're looking at. Far cry from 13%. Not even close.Quote:
Originally Posted by BrendaQG
However, there are not "more blacks in prison than in college"- by the #'s the reverse is true. There are more black students than inmates, and the amount of black students isn't that far off from what one would expect based on the size of the black population (they make up 11-13% of the country's college student body depending whose data you use or what year you're looking at). I am not convinced by the data that there is no disparagy among race lines with our student population, the census data on that point could be misleading if: Most the blacks go for lesser degrees, Fewer blacks are in masters programs, etc. For all I know, based on the data, most black college students could be going to cheap community colleges for low end blue collar certificate programs.... whereas most white students could be going for 4 year degrees for fast tracked white collar jobs.
By the numbers, the amount of blacks in college in 2006 was roughly identical with the ENTIRE United States prison population of that year (blacks, whites, and everyone else included). In 2000, the amount of black college students was a population GREATER than the country's population of inmates (white, black, and everyone else included).
So unless the census data is inaccurate, the argument that "there are more blacks in prison than in college" falls flat on its face. It also doesn't address who is going for which degrees, whether they are successful at finishing their chosen degrees, or how easily they're hired upon graduating.
Alright,
I'll bite Brenda's topic here.
I'm a masculine young black male.
I've hooked up with several TS chicks here in the Bay Area. Most of the time I go in with the idea that I'm gonna top, but I have hooked up with girls that have wanted to top or do both, and assuming that we're both comfortable with each other, she's cool, she's clean (circumcised too).... I can, have, and will bottom.
I really don't have a problem pleasing who I'm with in that way if that's what she likes. In my opinion, refusing a girl, a TS girl in particular, refusing her needs sexually is kind of selfish.
Edit in:
Some people get the 2 terms confused, so I'll iterate:
Bottoming and Subbing are 2 different things.