Thanks for being truthful in your post. There is some serious white knighting going on in this thread, and I believe the majority of answers from the guys here are less than honest.Quote:
Originally Posted by artemis2085
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Thanks for being truthful in your post. There is some serious white knighting going on in this thread, and I believe the majority of answers from the guys here are less than honest.Quote:
Originally Posted by artemis2085
Probably NOT, most I have encountered which is slim to none seem like they are far from wifey material. I stick to GG's maybe a post-op if they have dealt with their issues with trust lol.
It would have to be fate for me to date a transexual woman. In all honesty, I would not date a TS woman because it would only complicate my life. There is no way I can handle dating someone that works as an escort. With close to 95% of TS women working as escorts, finding the 5% that do not escort would be highly unlikely. It's much easier sticking to GG's that live traditional lives and appear to have less issues.
I didn't bother with the rest of the forum but my response is yes I would.
I'm not planning settling down at all unless I can get that special girl that I can bring home to my parents. I just have a feeling it wont be happening for me. So woo hoo I can be a bachelor. But seriously, I'm down for a serious relationship. I just have to know you're not crazy first.
The 'Carta' statement raised my eyebrows too. LOL
I've been in serious multi-year relationships with "ts" before, even some that escorted. I think the main reason they failed each time was their very "urban lifestyle" which I personally don't get into and they tend not to get into my "dark and moody Rock&Roll" lifestyle. Because of our initial physical attraction it worked but over time, I was too boring for them and the things I did like to do were too crazy. (I'm a book reading, motorcycle riding, hiking, and Rock shows) kind of guy, and the girls I invarible attract are the "hip-hop" club hoppers and drama creators, that get mad because I'd rather work than party all the time. If I do pop into a club it's to recruit new models not get wasted, so even then the business mindset is online. lol
I've been in the gay community since my 1st "ts" relationship, over 10 years now. She was in the House of Revlon, so I use to accompany her to all the various functions and events in the Mid-Atlantic area. Was even invited to join a few "Houses" but overall I found that particular aspect (Houses, Balls, etc) far too dramatic and unproductive (I'm big on Karma) for my taste so I separated myself from that stuff. I've gotten some "grief" from friends that are "tg admriers" claiming that my relationships fail cause they are "escorts" or because "they're looking for some guy to take care of them" but that was never the specific reason for any of my failed relationships. I was talking to one t-girl who escorted who couldn't put up with me doing photoshoots of models, yet I never made an issue of her escorting, so jealousy I guess can also creep in, thus making communication very critical for a relationship to work.
After a couple months of dating I introduce my "GF" be they "TG or GG" to the family. My mom is kind of a "fag hag" so she's always welcoming and understanding.
I've met a great majority of "TG's" that want that young, urban dude, that's always in the streets and getting into "shit". I'm most certainly not that dude, but that's what they use to tend to see in me in their first meeting me. You don't know how many Snoop Dogg, Katt Williams, Ludacris, references I get, especailly when I wear my hair down, and I am WAY taller (6'4") than the latter two. So I always make sure I'm being as outlandishly non hip-hop as possible, by rocking my 'weird' piercings, band shirts, and such. Im willing to give another relationship a shot (TG or GG as both have an equal chance) but we would absolutely have to have lots of things in common and understanding. My 'partner' mindset is what is most important to me, oh and a pretty face!! 8) Good luck in your relationship Ruby I hope the best for you and us all! Remember folks Positivity is Prosperity, Negativity is 360 and it comes back eventually.
I would seriously date a ts, but not for the reason that she's a ts. I would have the same expectations for dating a ts as I would dating a gg. If she were intelligent, funny, caring, and had a beautiful soul, I would date her, it wouldn't matter if she's ts or gg. Now, if the dating is only because of the sex, then those relationships never last no matter who you date. As someone posted on the first page, love is love; if the chemistry, love, and compassion for one another is there, then who you love should not matter. As for the parents thing, I would not be ashamed. It might be a little awkward at first, but I know that my parents would want me to be happy, first and foremost. Now, I'm not saying that all parents would accept it, most older folk can be very stubborn in their ways, but all parents want their children to lead happy lives. I know my parents would accept anyone I loved because they raised me with that same love.
Wait a sec...intelligent, funny, caring, beautiful soul...why, that describes...Alyssa!! So, whatta ya say, hmmm?
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lol, just kidding...well, maybe not... :lol:
It's been many years since I dated someone who wasn't a TS.
Just another reason to envy you Bob!! You lucky SOB!! :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Bob's Tgirls
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Originally Posted by RubyTS
damn that is a lot of ass in your avatar....wouldn't mind being stuck in between u2 :lol:
I am ts andd would date a Ts no problem and wouldnt have any problem introducing them to friends and family. But this is aim at the men on the board. I live in alabama in a very conservative environment where being passable and stealthy is a matter of survival. I personally am attracted to common sense conservative yet open minded men. I am not attracted to their friends and family but I do want who ever I date to be as forthcoming to them as they would a GG. And actually Id prefer that their family didnt know about our sex life of the length of my genitalia. I often tell my friends and clients that the donations I am given are definitely not for sex or even my time, they are so I dont get attached personally which allows me to be a bit more discreet. I think it is only natural for a girl to want to be with a man that pleases her. Its an odd situation, the men wouldn't have been intrigued if I was a GG but they wont get close and and introduce me to friends and family for fear of being slandered by being called gay. Now if you are a man being Gay means you refuse to have sex with women. I seriously doubt any of the guys Ive seen would refuse to be with a beautiful woman and Id hope they were attracted to me for my feminine attributes rather than how big my girlcock is.
I am amused to hear how many guys make drug use the big issue as to wether theyd be with them. Well in my case I will have to take hormones everyday of my life for the rest of my life probably. Perhaps that is why I have heard that drug use is so prevalent with transwomen. I have seen alot of people lose themselves to drug use and have used drugs to comfort myself from the apathy and depression of when I had to pretend I was a boy to not be heckled, beaten up or worse. Now that I am able to live life on lifes terms as the woman I should have been I don't need to medicate from emotional pain . I rarely drink but do hit a joint if its passed to me as it helps deal with the nausea that accompanies stupid people in the south. I mention this because drug use should not be a dealbreaker for love. Though such things like the lack of honesty,respect and the ability to trust someone very much are reason to stop something in its tracks. While I say this I am sure their are those guys who have been used, abused , robbed, blackmailed, and manipulated by overemotional drama queens who are true emotional sadists. GGs and Ts women can both be evil and ruin it for funloving honest girls who want a true gentleman as a lover and partner. I am sure their are guys out there that one day would be proud of their girlfriend enough to integrate them in the rest of their lives, but this is something both persons must do. First see if he is willing to meet your friends and is willing to hang out with you and them together. Then tell him youd like his friends to hang out as well. If you cant make that happen then I think that is a dealbreaker in long term relationship. It is so refereshing to know that you are more than some booty sometimes. Hugs to all of you I hope some part of this made sense Mwah Janey