Re: To The Guy's That Won't Pay A TS For Sex " Listen U
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Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
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Originally Posted by Danny partridge
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Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
So true sister!!!!!!!!!!!
As a ts who doesn't need to escort, I continue to escort now for that reason.
MEN treating me like a dirty secret.
Men just fucking and leaving.
Men not wanting to be seen in public with me, yet in private tell me how hott I am and how good I look.
Men not caring about anything in my life but the sexual.
Men not seeing me as a woman who has feelings and wants to be loved, or at best cared for, just seeing me as a nice hard cock and the best ass on the planet.
So I continue to escort.
It numbs the feelings factor.
I met nice guys, who I would date at times, and its sad.
Guys who are afraid of what other people think, guys insecure with themselves.
So I charge. Not out of necissity, but as a reminder.
Men will no longer use me. I will get mine first.
As long as you pay me, I will be that secret.
True I spend the money alone. but I enjoy every penny to a point.
I will enjoy all the material things you guys money as long as I can. I will see the world, I will dress in the best, I will do whatever the mood strikes me to do with you guys money. One day I may meet a man who will love me and appreciate me for the woman I am. Until then, my time is money.
How about if you met a guy who you liked and who liked you back.
Who wasn't afraid to be seen with you in public. A guy who held your hand in public, all during movies, at dinner in restaurants. A guy who kissed you goodnite in front of his friends and yours.
A guy who always listened to your problems - not just nodded while watching football, but really listened, sympathized, gave advice and said "poor baby" when your feelings were hurt by anything. A guy who you talked to about business and took you seriously and had meaningful business conversations with. A guy who's advice actually meant something to you and whenever you asked for his help, he was there for you giving it.
A guy who told you you didn't need any of the 100 things you were wanting to do to change your body because he said you looked fine the way you were (and meant it).
A guy who when you went out, sometimes paid for you and you sometimes paid for him - at random. Not taking turns or
quid pro quo, just whatever, whenever. A guy who has never paid you anything or paid for "your anything" (boobs, pumping, etc.).
A guy who snuggled with you in bed watching TV.
But a guy who you knew it wasn't all about sex - because you weren't having sex.
What would you say then? What nasty things would you have to say about this guy?
When I find him, I would love and respect him. I am 35 years old, I have been living and struggling in this lifestyle for 14 years. I have loved, taken care of and looked after guys who just used me. The only things I have to show for the hell I live is money, designer clothes and shoes and a cold broken heart. I can't lie and say good men don't exsist. I was in 2 long term loving relationships. So I know it can happen Just rare. Yet I still give a few guys a fair chance. The guy you described, I met him once, and was with him 2 years. But due to his family and their living situation in this country, and such, he had to go. So yes, I know he exsists, and no there would be nothing nasty to say. It is what it is
TsVanessa69,
First off good evening.
There are a few guys in this forum, like myself would give a tgirl the same chance as a genetic girl, if they would give us a chance to prove it. The guys who posted that they won't pay, or just use the tgirls as sex objects, makes you & the other tgirls feel bitter. I can understand why you feel the way you do. I feel bad that you feel this way, but there is always someone out there for somebody. I really believe that. See my quotes below that I wrote to Felicia recently on this topic a few pages back & you will get an understanding about me & how I feel about tgirls in general. I am a guy that wants to develop a relationship with a tgirl or genetic girl, but my shyness makes me lose out. I want to say so much when I meet her, but the words never come out the way I want them to.
Like I said, there are many great guys here in this forum like myself, are willing to date a tgirl & are not afraid to take them out in public. We want to shower love & respect to our woman, take them to a nice quiet dinner, give them gifts to show our affection to say that "I care", & telling her you love her. I'm a hopeless romantic, you can say. :)
I wanted to express this in my reply to you because I want to be completely honest. Yes, Charlie is my real name too.... :)
Take care.
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Originally Posted by Charlie31
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Originally Posted by Felicia Katt
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Originally Posted by desolationangel
Just for the record: I'm 25, single, a college graduate, employed full-time, and I live about 30 minutes from NYC.
If any transsexual girl out there wants a real boyfriend, here I am.
I don't need to hide anything from anyone. If people have a problem with my sexuality, then I don't want those people in my life anyway. Why would I want friends who are that judgmental?
So maybe all you've written is true of most t-girl admirers, but not this one. Not at all.
That would ring a little more true if you had your own pic as your avatar, disclosed even your first name or an email address in your profile, or if your AIM profile, in a different screen name no less, wasn't also empty.
FK
Felicia,
How are you? Hopefully everything is ok with you today.
Recently, I tried to talk to a tgirl & tried to develop a friendship with her before pursuing a relationship. Unfortunately, it did not turn out either way with me. I found out in a not so subtle way that she didn't want to have anything to do with me. This was my first experience ever talking to a tgirl to try to see if a relationship was possible, but I treated her with nothing but respect & did not get the same in return. :(
The next tgirl I meet & if she is really nice, will get the same chance as I would give a genetic girl on pursuing a relationship. I tried to do that with that tgirl, but at least I know in my heart that I tried my best & feel good knowing I gave her nothing but my kindness from my heart. That's the type of guy that I am, showing respect when you meet a tgirl or a genetic girl. I am probably one of the few guys in this forum that would date a tgirl & not be ashamed to take her out in public. If you are compatible with someone, why not give it a chance to develop into something special?
I seem to have a hard time meeting anyone & it's probably due to myself being shy at the first contact. When I do open up, I quickly warm up to that person, but maybe my chance was lost due to my initial contact with her.
Your reply to desolationangel is right on target, as he probably has something to hide & wants what most of the guys are seeking with a company of a tgirl. Not me, I'm just a guy with old-fashioned values on treating a woman with respect. I have nothing to hide & met a few of the forum members at one of Sunny D's parties recently. The ladies I met that night were really nice. Below is my pic & this is my proof that I'm one of the few guys that are bold enough to show my actual pic in this forum & again, I have nothing to hide.
Take care.
http://hometown.aol.com/eaglesces4/m...e/mvc-004s.jpg
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Originally Posted by Charlie31
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Originally Posted by Felicia Katt
Charlie: thanks for reply. Its great that you are so open, but I recognize its not for everyone yet. My only problem with Desolation Angel was that his deeds didn't match his brave words.
If more guys would walk the walk they talk, like you, then this life would lose its secrecy and its stigma. People don't fear things when they become familar with them. But until society is more accepting, people will naturally avoid rejection. Its a catch 22 for now, but hopefully more people will catch up to you, or at least follow in your footprints. :)
FK
Felicia,
Good evening & thanks for the reply back to me. It's a shame that society in general isn't more accepting tgirls as of yet, but I personally think it's due to several factors, fear of the unknown & misunderstanding of what a tgirl is all about. If society was educated on acceptance, you will see many more people open up & accept you the way you are. I really do believe that in my heart. I am a man that accepts anyone no matter what because I was taught about accepting people of different cultures, color, religion, & sexual preference. My parents values are instilled in me & I thank them in making me a well rounded person that I am today. This is why outside of this forum I have many friends & acquaintances of many different social circles & also why I am successful in my employment with my diplomacy skills working for a large firm. Once again, thanks for replying & have a good weekend.
Take care.
