I would.It would depend on personality and chemistry for me.Pretty much just like dating a genetic girl.Now as to dating a T-girl sex worker I don't know about that I don't like to share.
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I would.It would depend on personality and chemistry for me.Pretty much just like dating a genetic girl.Now as to dating a T-girl sex worker I don't know about that I don't like to share.
Absolutely! Just depends on the chemistry.
hum....like a cam girl or a "working girl"Quote:
Originally Posted by crystalsopen
cam girl i'm 10000% ok with.
a girl who even did porn i would be ok with.
A "working girl" hum......i don't think so
I would.Quote:
Originally Posted by crystalsopen
I think imho all men into TSs should seriously consider it. If at the very least an FWB, or some other non-paid/escort relationship.
Just seems dishonest to only use TSs for sex, no group of humans should be imho, best to go the full hog, and date one.
I would definitely date a TG (TS). And I can honestly say, that its not because some fetish (extra private part, no offense) or trying for new kicks or anything. If i can or will date a TG, it would be because we 'click'. Because we both make each other feels loved and comfortable.
FWB does involve cash...what else would the benefits be.Quote:
Originally Posted by holzz
Two things you want to watch out for when you're considering getting involved:
If they're on prescription hormones as well as self medicating, you're going to be facing some very wild mood swings and unpleasant episodes.
Some of them are obsessed with "fixing" themselves even if they look gorgeous already...in all probability that girl is never gonna be happy with herself, and it can potentially end up costing you some major dollars.
The benefits are sex. nothing more than that.....why should it be money?Quote:
Originally Posted by nysprod
that said, this requires some commitment on some level, not just looking on an escort site or reading a classifieds papers, and seeing an escort once a month/week.
@crystalsopen I wouldn't date an escort. seems even hypocritical, but i wouldn't like it/would want more exclusivity (well yeah...it's not sex for love on her part, but meh..)
Cuz they don't need your sex benefits foolQuote:
Originally Posted by holzz
Fuck, that's hilarious. Even though it's wrong to bust his fantasy.............maybe he's packing sexual dynamite and can deliver the benefits part.Quote:
Originally Posted by nysprod
I'd date a TS woman - not an issue for me. I would date a sex worker, casually. Nothing serious though unless she had a planned path out of that line of work as i think sex as a job should just be a means to an end. To keep the work emotions segregated from the non-work emotions has got to be tremendously complicated or at least it SHOULD be complicated. The type of person I'd want a long-term relationship with shouldn't be burdened with those types of complications.
The bf's benefits are gonna be the planned path out that line of work lolQuote:
Originally Posted by runningdownthatdream
Shhhhhhh.......don't let Holzz hear you......Quote:
Originally Posted by nysprod
I would, but it would have to depend on our chemistry together, her personality, etc. Basically, it's not something I'm going to seek out though, because, honestly, a girl with a penis is something of a fetish for me. I wouldn't be here otherwise. And I feel like that would be unfair to someone who dislikes that part of themselves, and me being turned on by it... yeah, not the healthiest foundation for a relationship. If I just happen to meet a Trans individual though, and we hit it off, why not?
How, exactly, do you reconcile these two statements together?
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Originally Posted by holzz
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Originally Posted by holzz
i don't see a contradiction. you realise friendships are not inherently about sex, and it's always been this way? i don't see FWB as using.Quote:
Originally Posted by dreamon
The point of a friend with benefits is that you'll have sex without a commitment to more.Quote:
Originally Posted by holzz
Dude you are so out of it, it's ridiculous...friends with benefits means no bf-gf...you're fucking her in trade for benefits i.e. moneyQuote:
Originally Posted by holzz
I have had many FWB that did not involve a dime, GG and TS, i always thought thats what the term meant.Quote:
Originally Posted by nysprod
Yeah, prod, you're way off. FWB means sex with no strings attached - no relationship obligations. I'm pretty sure that fucking for trade or financial/material benefits is, and always was, known as whoring.
FWB does have a prerequisite commitment: that of being friends. The 'benefits' are sexual favors; not money, not material gain. In a FWB relationship it is universally understood that the 'benefits' are free of romantic entanglement and material compensation...but you do need to be a friend.
Why would a girl who could easily acquire a lover or just sell her body enter a FWB relationship? Perhaps because she's not ready to commit to a romantic relationship and she either doesn't want to sell her body for sex, or she's tired of one-night stands, or perhaps to her sex with clients is just acting. Perhaps FWB promises just the right amount of intimacy, safety and comfort.
I'm pretty sure there are lots of girls who don't want to see themselves as escorts but trade sex for money and call it fwb as a way of denying reality.Quote:
Originally Posted by maxpower
No, they would call it having a "Sugar Daddy" or "Rinsing". Mind you, often those type of arrangements don't even involve sex...Quote:
Originally Posted by nysprod
and they would be misusing the term as you do in posts #486 and #489. By definition FWB's are free of romantic and material entanglements. The conclusion you really seem to be reaching for is that true FWB's are rare or non-existent. Your argument for that conclusion is that the girl doesn't need sex (she can get plenty) and so her benefit gotta be money rather than sex. I gave a counterargument above which you haven't addressed.Quote:
Originally Posted by nysprod
I won't pretend to know just how many FWB relationships there are in proportion to other sorts of arrangements. You may be correct in assuming they're infrequent. I suspect they're unstable because one party may want the relationship to evolve romantically or one party will find a romantic partner and end the FWB. In any case, what Holzz is referring to in his posts an honest FWB relationship as it's universally understood by most people, except perhaps you.
I'd absolutely love to date a TS.
sounds like you're speaking from uh...experience, Trish?Quote:
Originally Posted by trish
Didn't know there people out there who made FWB sound more complicated than it actually was.
Yeah, been there; done that. Seen a few friends give it a whirl; have a few friends who are making it work. It requires a certain amount of openness, trust and honesty: especially if one or both parties are seeking romantic satisfaction, just not with each other.Quote:
Originally Posted by runningdownthatdream
It's a difficult relationship to sustain over time. I think it requires the rationalization of emotions which is somewhat of an oxymoron. In effect, to have a successful FWB relationship, one may need to subvert the very qualities that are needed in a romantic relationship. If the physical urges are too strong to ignore, it's much less complicated to just see an escort.Quote:
Originally Posted by trish
I would in s heartbeat if feelings are there go with them
i was totally against it a few years ago but now as time progressed i'm more open to dating one
When you start by saying 'don't get your hopes up boys' that just puts me off immediately so up your self or what.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
That was 8 years ago and she's unlikely to read that anyway since she hasn't been on here for the best part of 18 months
I ll never date a tgirl because my friends and my familly they gonna see me as a gay man , and yes i care about what people think and say :)Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
Would love to date a passable TS.
If I like her and she likes me, absolutely. I would also have no qualms dating someone who does porn.
That's so sad. I've started to notice that. In my case it really sucks cause I haven't started transitioning yet so I'm stuck in a limbo. I have to do it all on my own. But I guess that's why so many girls complain about how guys are asshole blah blah. I have met some nice guys though that understand and don't care so they're out there.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrsKellyPierce
I have dated a couple of girls, was deeply in love with one of them. So yes,,,,,
I have date TS woman, its not an issue for me. Now in terms of a serious relationship the only way for me to work, is not to be a sex worker, the problem is that most of TS do sex as a way of living, some did it for awhile and now run their own business, witch is ok with me, i even wouldn't mind if she did some solo scenes in porn, or work at a cam site, but definitely not while escorting, knowing what i know now and lived, it just wouldn't work for me, but i do know some guys that are ok with that and does not affect them, or their relationship, that his Ts Woman has sex with other men, i guess they see it as normal job, well i don't see it that way, and for experience that i had with some of those TS woman with boyfriends/husbands while escorting, i wouldn't like to be on their shoes.
You don't date a gender, you date an individual human being.
So, yeah, if I met the right individual human being, and we connected, and she happened to be TS, no big deal.