Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
Marie Thorne
The issue with chasers is that most trans women want to be treated and wanted as women, not as trans women. Why the hell would any want to be with someone who wants them for the part of them they're trying to fix / get past.
That's a bit of a catch 22 as well and from the outside looking in could be a set up for some real heartache. I understand it but really if someone wants to be with you it's on an emotional level or they just won't hang around. I do understand what you are saying though. I am not sure of the difference between how you treat someone both with the right biology and someone not unless you are talking about fetish behavior and objectification. In my experience no sex is worth unwanted company for any period of time. i have broken off with women I was having good sex with it's just not enough to sustain anything real. It gets stale without a connection on another level and the sex really the brain is by far the most important sex organ and the one that dictates gender identity not the penis ....i understand why you feel that way and understand how frustrating people like me that don't see it as a defect must be. Sorry :( I understand your pov but it doesnt make you less attractive to many people.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
No or you don't want to put work in meaningful relationship...
Don't turn a relationship into business, it will never work out. Love comes from the heart (I know it sounds cheesy) but business looks at things as a cold caluclated factor. If you love someone you will make it work. If it is business you will only work on as long as the person serves a purpose.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
Please show a girl who wants to ever get caught up with a chaser? please do.
A girl to be with a chaser is just retarded... Why go trough all that, when you can be happier alone than with some guy who treats you like shit?
I have not treated anyone unjustly for me to be labeled a she male
A chaser on the other hand....
If your a proud chaser then good for you, But Not my cup of tea.
Chasers and ignorant tards label us she males... Never had I had a person with respect call me that man or woman.
Just to understand then you don't bunch all men who find you attractive into the chasers who treat you like an object catagory right? If not i think you may of let the assholes of the world jade you to much.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
bluesoul
unfortunately, that term (in reference to sex) is indicative of escort vocabulary- which is in conflict at some of the earlier statements about how they can put to rest their escorting persona and be regular civilians again.
Yeah well they know who to feed that to and who not to.
To me paying for an escort is like saying "My bedroom skills are terrible." That's pretty much what an escort is telling you when they say their not getting anything out of the deal.
Last time I checked when two intimate people climax that's called "equal exchange". So who's losing out?
A men (not chasers) some of us need to reevaluate our self worth while they're putting price tags on there's.
I do alright.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
Please show a girl who wants to ever get caught up with a chaser? please do.
A girl to be with a chaser is just retarded... Why go trough all that, when you can be happier alone than with some guy who treats you like shit?
I have not treated anyone unjustly for me to be labeled a she male
A chaser on the other hand....
If your a proud chaser then good for you, But Not my cup of tea.
Chasers and ignorant tards label us she males... Never had I had a person with respect call me that man or woman.
To me, I don't care if a guy has been with 578 ts's or 0, as long as he treats me the way I expect to be treated. The problem is, all men "chasers" or not don't live up to those expectations.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
Chase_Mcthirsty
Yeah well they know who to feed that to and who not to.
To me paying for an escort is like saying "My bedroom skills are terrible." That's pretty much what an escort is telling you when they say their not getting anything out of the deal.
Last time I checked when two intimate people climax that's called "equal exchange". So who's losing out?
A men (not chasers) some of us need to reevaluate our self worth while they're putting price tags on there's.
I do alright.
Not necessary...
I have many clients who have excellent skills, just maybe us dating to get there may not be flexible due to age difference, or whatever reasons...
If I am going to date a man, I want him to be my ideal type. Some guys think they are god's gift to women, but it's just does not do anything for me. i have certain types I really go for.
Also as a dominatrix, its logical for a man to pay for that service because special requests are harder to get out of the business...
Re: Men on dating ts women
Is a chaser a guy only in it for the sex/dick???
No one to my knowledge has ever given an example of a 'chaser' that I can understand.
I feel like being sexually turned on by tgirls makes a man a CHASER.
Can someone give an example of 'chaser' behavior???
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
giovanni_hotel
Is a chaser a guy only in it for the sex/dick???
No one to my knowledge has ever given an example of a 'chaser' that I can understand.
I feel like being sexually turned on by tgirls makes a man a CHASER.
Can someone give an example of 'chaser' behavior???
Exactly...
Or let's say for example i am in a relationship with a guy, one day i get my sex change then he leaves me, or he tries to not make me get it... That is a chaser too... Everything is dick motivated. But liking a ts does not make one a chaser.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
No or you don't want to put work in meaningful relationship...
Fyi I dont date American men... Girl I suggest you date European(not from uk) men or asian Men. lol... jk.
You've broken my heart, Evon. But seriously. I've had relationships with gg's, pre-op transexuals and post-op transexuals. And in every case the genitalia have been irrelevant. It's the person and their personality that attracts me. Sure, looks are the start, but they're not what keeps you there in the longer term. That comes down to personality, trust and affection.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
No or you don't want to put work in meaningful relationship...
Fyi I dont date American men... Girl I suggest you date European(not from uk) men or asian Men. lol... jk.
How meaningful can a relationship be when the tranny in question is willing to give herself to any random slob with enough $$$ to cover a half hour?
See things for what there are people, the "tranny chaser" label is just to counter the negativity that many tgirls resonate.
So call it what you want but chasers have sex with those that there "attracted to".
Escorts tend have sex with anything as long as the money's right. And in most cases bragging about "getting dough" when all else is failing is just another false security net.
And saying that I'm a "escort" because chaser's made me that way is absurd.
So why do chaser's have the bad rep in the equation again?
