GGs have the biggest issue with transsexuals

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Originally Posted by xxxsexyd

Don't be delusional thinking SRS will change things. MOST men will turn you down just out of fear of being "OUTED " even if you do have a pussy. You were still born a man and that will always be part of who you are. A relationship is based on honesty first. That is why alot of people are unhappy in their current relationships, they forget what is the fundemental basis of a healthy living.

There is a big difference between Living and just Surviving

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I tend to agree, to some point. Fact is, that many men will have sex with a pre-op, mainly just out of curiousity, or go with a post-op as well. But having a LTR is a totally different thing. As well as getting married.

I suspect many men will not go that far to marry a TS no matter what plumbing she has just for the reason she is unable to bear children. Possible future children are one of the main reasons for marriage, also on the men´s part. Like it or not, when you reached 30 xou BEGIN to think of the possibility to become a father (unimaginable five, ten yrs ago)

Hmm..have to agree....the biological children issue is extremely thorny for men...Ive wrestled with it back and forth a few times.....when i was in my 20's i was dead set against having children....Now that im in my mid 30's well....its a bit more of a concern...

Well this guy I am sorta seeing now has a 2 yo. I got to spend some time with them today, bought him a toy cop car today and we had lunch at Fridays. He's quite the lady's man already.

Funny the waiter was like " Ohhhh he looks just like mommy" and me and him looked at each other and laughed a bit.

He came about on a drunken night with a GG. Many women have no clue about how to raise kids or even when to have them. I am not sure being able to physically make babies will make a woman better at being a mother at all.

If things work out with me and his dad, I hope to spend more and more time with them.

Ohhh and btw - there are millions of kids in foster homes needing adoption. Prior to procreation one must consider giving one of them a better life.

I think that's one of the reasons Bob Barker tells us " Spay and Neuter your pets "...

i have distinct problems dealing with my own sexuality in regard to the ramifications of living my life as i would like (with a person i care about who happens to be TG) and not have it controlled by the fears that well up inside me when i think about all of this.

i have the utmost admiration for those of you who have been able to make the choice, live as you feel and get on with your lives. your courage and bravery are truly awesome.

i have so many t-friends (very few gg's any more) and at times we talk about this issue of mine, as i am trying to sort out my life and they are the only ones i can confide in and who can relate to what i am going through.

it all boils down to the fact that most people are prejudiced about something, or someone, its basic human insecurity, and until all of that goes away, little else will change on this planet.

sad, but true.

i will end this post the way i end all my phone conversations with my friends.

be safe and know someone cares about you and appreciates you.

but you know that already.

TOTALLY CORRECT, JULIE

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Originally Posted by vman2375

TOTALLY CORRECT, JULIE

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On which part.




Honestly, philosophical shit aside,

as I said before , bartender was a friend of guy of the present, Julie was a friend of bartender of the past.

Since barkeep told guy Julie was born a man, barkeep was being a friend. If my friend didn't tell me what was what, then I would have no business calling that person my friend.

Really nothing more to say than that other than "its a small world".

Women.....some times you just have to fuckem to keep them quiet!
Yeah it's not the best thing to say but women will say and do things to each other that guys won't even consider doing to each other.
They are on a good day borderline evil!
Thank god, god gave them tits!

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

I get so frustrated when every trick comes out from under their rock to "tell it how it is". Myself and other girls have lived it. We know what works and what doesn't. We know how it works because we have been in all kinds of situations many times over. Its like me trying to tell a black lady how to be black.

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If you haven't walked the walk, you shouldn't talk the talk. :smh

Sorry guys the information and experience that you have picked up
from TS porn sites, and escort experiences, do not qualify you as
experts or qualified to make informed comments.

For us, as women this is our life 24/7/365.

For many of you, you haven't even met a transwoman, let alone been
in a relationship with one.

And on the SRS tip, I distinctly recall that only a handful of you have
stated that you have been with a post op, so again I will assert that
you do not know wherof you speak.

Finally, Julie, by no means would I get violent with the woman in question,
but I would explain to her in no uncertain terms why what she did wasn't
cool, and to keep my name and my business out of her mouth.

Me and another t-girl actually just went to a straight club in Boston the other week and I have to say I had lots of fun. But when I go to these places, I make sure that i'm very careful with these kind of situations. There we're a few guys that tried to buy us drinks, wanted to dance with us but I just said no. I was there to have fun for myself and my friend. So we we're dancing and two guys came on to us and started grinding and almost touching to a point where they are actually going to touch my private part.

I SAID "OH HELL NO" , I am not gonna be stupid and act that I have a pussy down there cause I don't (not yet anyway) :lol: So I immediately told my tgirl friend that i'm gonna make an excuse so we can get the hell out of there. I feel so much better when I left and we went down to the bar area and the guys that we're hitting on us started going towards me, and said "what ethnicity are you? and can I ask your number?" and I just said no, I have a bf which is true in my case cause I actually do. And my main purpose in going to that bar is to have fun....a CLEAN FUN!

But the lesson to my story is: if I didn't get out of the situation and was smart enough to save my life then I would probably get in trouble right there and then. Thankfully I wasn't too drunk to have my right judgement blurred out yet. :D

And I agree with NYTSjulie and kelly Shore. If I meet staright guys in a random straight club then I don't tell them my being a T. It's really non of their business or anyones for that matter. I am there to have fun not to "FUCK AROUND" or "SLEEP AROUND" .