My husband cheated on me with TS/TV

I wouldnt agree with such adultety

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

I'm so upset to see my husband has commented on this post:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...nd-ts-Amandada

and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like but when a man who claims he loves his wife and has regular sex (so can't say it's a lack of sex in the relationship) goes and pays for sex it ruins lives. It would be hard enough to deal with just knowing it's other females he's been cheating with but to find out he's been with other men (tv's are still men as they still have a dick!!!) And really enjoyed it!! I dont know how to deal with this :-( I can not compete with another man

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infidelity is never good, naturally. i'm sorry you have to go through this.

but then with respect, escorts won't stop because they cannot verify that their clients are married. most dont' care, since they want the money.

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Originally Posted by holzz

infidelity is never good, naturally. i'm sorry you have to go through this.

but then with respect, escorts won't stop because they cannot verify that their clients are married. most dont' care, since they want the money.

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Oh I know they wouldn't and at the end of the day they are just in it for the money or I'm guessing most of them are anyway
I'm not blaming the escorts although I don't agree with what they are doing it's non of my business what someone does with their body, it's their choice. It's the married men who do this that are in the wrong, if your single then you can please yourself, if your married then you took vows to stay faithful, simple in my eyes

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

... and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like ...

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

...I'm not blaming the escorts although I don't agree with what they are doing it's non of my business what someone does with their body, it's their choice.

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Consistent, not

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Originally Posted by rodinuk

Consistent, not

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I don't have anything personal against the escorts and just because I don't agree with ie it's not for me that doesn't mean I don't think tgey have the right to do what they want so how is that inconsistent?

i think in a little while, u will become an expert in escorts, lol! kisses sweet lady!

I'm not being harsh to you OP. But then are you here to just vent? This is an issue you should take up with your spouse. Clearly he likes trans women on some level,

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Originally Posted by holzz

I'm not being harsh to you OP. But then are you here to just vent? This is an issue you should take up with your spouse. Clearly he likes trans women on some level,

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I was here initially to vent as I didn't know what to do, never had yo deal with anything like before and life unfortunately doesn't come with an instruction manual, but now I find myself talking to some really lovely people and I have learnt quite a bit
Obviously still not happy that he cheated and doesn't seem like he is going to admit to anything and tbh I'm not surprised. I know it would be so hard for him to tell me what he's done and probably feels ashamed but we have spoken about other stuff in length over the last 2 days and we are experimenting more, joined a swingers club just waiting for the approval for membership then we will arrange a visit to the club one eve and see how we feel when we are there. Plus last night was amazing 😜 lol

I have made it quite clear to him that what ever has already happened we will leave in the past but he knows now I'm not happy with any sexual activity either in person with someone or via phone/text or internet chat as I class that as cheating. We can watch porn together and experiment between ourselves and be open about it then that's gotta be better than the sneaking about and worrying about getting caught and he totally agreed so we will just have yo see how it goes. He's very very happy about the swingers club but said just us and no one else joining in to start at least as he thinks that having other people watch us have sex will be a huge turn on for him and I have to agree altho I am very nervous naturally

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Originally Posted by holzz

I'm not being harsh to you OP. But then are you here to just vent? This is an issue you should take up with your spouse. Clearly he likes trans women on some level,

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I have offered him to invite a ts to join us but he declined saying he couldn't do that. Not sure if all his comments on here were just provardo and he hadn't actually gone through with any of it or he just too ashamed to admit it to me but 1 thing he said last night was he thinks that fantasies should stay as just that as in reality it's never as good as you imagine so maybe the whole ts thing was a fantasy of his and it's now out of his system