What if you're a poor guy? Would it be in the ,"would you date category...", or do we need a new criteria? It seems to me , tgirl dating and gg dating aren't that different.
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What if you're a poor guy? Would it be in the ,"would you date category...", or do we need a new criteria? It seems to me , tgirl dating and gg dating aren't that different.
I absolutely would. My real issue is that I find it difficult to connect with most girls(cis or trans) on an intellectual level, and am very introverted.
Yeah, good question. But as mentioned previously, a lot of guys here have abounding preconceptions about what dating a trans woman actually entails, and I imagine that can be extremely annoying.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrFanti
I've noticed guys (at least here) are notorious for only being interested in a TS who looks like a supermodel. I guess I'm a solid example. I've never been hit on by, well, any guy. Maybe it's because I'm not passable, I don't know.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
RubyTS, are you serious with that question?
Date a TS?? Does having a live-in TS common law wife/GF/ lover mean I qualifiy?
Does it count that I learned after the fact that a guy I dated briefly before getting into adult entertainment frequents here?Quote:
Originally Posted by MrFanti
I have one thing to say to that: :banana::banana::banana:Quote:
Originally Posted by kdrob07
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4m1EFMoRFvY
I've been thinking about this topic a lot lately since I've been with only TS over the last 5 years. I think I'm open to the idea with some caveats:
1. She has to have a day job so prostitution isn't her source of income.
2. She has to be full-time TS.
3. She has to have a nice cock.
Beyond that, the same rules of dating a gg apply to dating a ts. Do we get along, have common values, etc.
One question I've discussed with several ts is when will a celebrity come out as having a relationship with a ts? That is the last frontier to be crossed. For the nation to admit not just that ts exist, but that it is ok to be public with your feelings for a ts.
Kris Jenner? :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Huevos_Rancheros
I would not hesitate to date or be in a long-term relationship with a transsexual. In fact, I'd welcome it!
I have issues with dating in general due to my high standards especially for personality and habits(Don't get me wrong I'm shallow too). Generally I'm pretty attracted to trans women even some that don't pass that well to some people.
Pretty popular with the (cis) ladies but i think due to my height(5'3) I'm not really what most trans women are look for, plus i'm a college student who works a minimum wage job probably not the type of boyfriend most trans girls are looking for either even the transgirls my age seem to be a lot more picky on that front.
Also not white so that's probably a big no for a lot of girls
Just depends on if i'm compatible I'm not an easy person to date but I'm pro-lgbt, smart and open about my attraction so I feel i'll get lucky someday.
Have done it and would do it again. Not available for dating right now but would not hesitate to date a TS seriously. Back in my dating years I contemplated what it would feel like to make the introduction to my parents but because I am such an assertive hardcore alpha male my parents would never, ever have the guts to question my judgment about something like this. Certainly not to my face at least. They know I would be perfectly comfortable cutting cut out anyone in my life who couldn't keep up -- yes, family included. One awkward showing and that'd be it. I never actually got far enough into a relationship to do this in my dating years (and at that time I had a lousy relationship with my parents anyway) but I wondered if I would be nervous, scared to have that conversation, and yes, maybe at one time. But then I quickly realized I don't need people to agree with me to enjoy myself and even enjoy them and I think that socialization is really the thrust of your question, right?
One thing to add. I have a Brazilian colleague at the office who, after a round or two of drinks, will start evangelizing the joys of TS sex in a totally, admirably un-self-conscious way. As in, topic 1 is Obamacare and he somehow finds a way for topic 2 to become graphic TS sex anecdotes. The first time or two people teased him and it was a little uncomfortable / weird because how are you supposed to respond to that in a mixed social setting around people you know professionally for the most part (that is, the group may be half work friends and half just people you see at work)? I'm surprised to say that in a rather conservative, male dominated industry after a time or two people just laughed it off and indulged him and chalked it up to his being an all around horndog and eccentric to begin with.
Yes i would as im very open with my family bout all things in my life, i have had serious relationships with a t-girls before and had several visits to there and my parents homes, was awkward first time when i started sucking one of my ex's cock she was rock hard and starting to shoot when her dad knocked on door and was about to walk in, luckily she locked the door, reckon he may have freaked out at that sight haha, plus when i get fucked i tend to moan very loudly apparently, any way im off the point a bit, but yeah no probs dating a t-girl :)
I think lotta guys would but the question is would the girl date the guy ? From what I seen lotta girls are picky and lotta guys play games so either way it's a tough situation
i know i might get flammed for saying this but i'll be honest
i wouldnt steady date a ts maybe a post op but that's a big maybe
I would. I'm not getting my hopes up though, it seems like transgirls are more interested in each other than in us guys.
I would, if she is not manly, crossdresser or transvestite or Cathyn Jenner. Actually if she is feminine and looks good I would love to take such transgirl gently, while milking her during giving a prostate massage.
Hi all, I'm new here, but just wanted to add my 2 cents...
For me, I'd love to date a TS. I had a short fling when I was much younger with a wonderful transgirl. We still catch up every so often, and have stayed friends since. It couldn't have worked back then because I was young, dumb and insecure. Now that I've matured somewhat, I think I have another roadblock to dating a TS: I'm a crossdresser and I love to bottom. I dated a precious few cis women that were cool with it (my current gf uses dildos on me, but XDing is a no-go...). Most of the TS ladies I've come across over the years didn't seem to want anything to do with either. My friend to me she had tried topping in the past but didn't care for it. She then said that while she would be willing to do it if her partner wanted it, but she was worried then he wouldn't think of her as a woman. I understand both points. Hell, I don't much care for topping male partners (though I fully enjoy it with women!). IMHO, I think some TS ladies see topping as a "male activity," and like my friend, think that by topping a male it makes them less feminine. I'm sure many are completely comfortable with it, but I just haven't been fortunate enough to come across them.
Ok, that was more long-winded than I meant. lol
TL;DR: I've got my own kinks, and getting it in the butt is a big one, so anyone I date has to be into it, whether they come factory equipped with a dick or have to strap one on. It limits the dating pool somewhat, but there's no sense in pursuing a relationship with someone you're not compatible with sex-wise.
If you read this far, you're a trooper :D
I would ... and did ... date a t-gurl for a year until she moved back to her native country. Tender, kind and loving and maybe due to her Asian heritage - who knows. Since she wasn't lucky enuff to be born female, she always embraced a woman's femininity and culture to the extreme. Met her sister (GG), but all other family outside of the US. A rare find, for sure.
I was almost married to a TGirl. Didn't work out in the end. That's how I got into this world.
I honestly want to but I don't know of any that live up by me... :(
I wouldn't have any problem with dating a ts but I live in southeast new mexico and as far as I know theres only about a one in a million chance of meeting one around here.
I would. I am not ashamed of my sexual interests. I can't help what I like. I don't really see myself dating anyone in the foreseeable future, either GG or TG. I am getting my business life together these days and honestly don't need the distraction. But, I would honestly love to have a special someone in my life. The problem is, I don't trust relationships and don't particularly trust people, so that can be a problem.
I'll admit i could only do it in secret.... I'm ashamed of my sex pref but i would not hesitate a min to get intimate with one if it was discreet :P
You're a sad person. Why be ashamed of your sexual preferences, it's no-one else's business
ashamed because of his family & friends reaction & i would be too...Quote:
Originally Posted by gaiseric
dating a TS is a difficult thing to do on a daily basis , u gotta assume the circumstances that come along with it
its not the usual gay Relationship
Surely if his 'friends' react against him, then they were never true friends. Does it really matter what your family think - you don't choose your family but you do choose your friends - choose new ones.
I was possibly lucky. My parents were fanatical Jehovah's Witnesses so I got the full extent of their bigotry and ignored it. I told my lady and she thought it was hilarious. Also all of my close friends, plus most of the people I worked with before I retired, know about my preferences and they couldn't care less - many have been totally supportive.
The alternative is to keep it a big dark secret which will eventually screw you up even more than if you were open about it.
I also see that the forum is still full of people who live their lives carrying around a big dark secret and trying to keep it hidden from everyone. What a waste!
If you lived closer to me, I would TOTALLY hit on you. You're a cutie!Quote:
Originally Posted by Skye
I would , love to.
Where in the best place to meet a TS?
Any TS interested in chatting please send a private message.
I live in London , single , early 40s , attractive , warm , considerate and love enjoying life.
The benefts of dating a TS, get tested out and be able to bareback safely...Imagine dating Suzanna Holms and been able to take and receive without a condom?
This is by far the dumbest thread ever! I was just out last night with my TG GF....ok we've been only together for like a few weeks so i wouldn't call her my GF yet but...yeah so what...we went out to the movies cuddled in for a nice show and then went out for dinner and drinks......so what? i enjoy holding her hand when we walk around and i love it when she runs her fingers around my shaved head when we are sitting and watching movies be it at my house or in the theater.
Be happy and accept your wants and needs. And respect others for who and what they are.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KX5jNnDMfxAQuote:
Originally Posted by Wendy Summers
The basic rule of compatible outside of the bedroom is universally applicable - regardless of age or sex.....
I would.
Would and will and I see no problem in marriage either if everything goes great. In my opinion it's like asking if you'd date a woman. :)
Happy New Year to everyone.
Sounds fun, but actually liking someone as a person is essential to a happy long term relationship.Quote:
Originally Posted by brackus
If a guy has actually dated one of us, then it probably does seem a little silly. I've been several guys first t-girl (I use the phrase training wheels tranny), and at first they as questions like this. A better question is: would you date a T-girl sex worker. That adds another level of complication to a relationship.