Men who are attracted to transgendered women- Straight, bi, gay?

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Originally Posted by my my my!

I agree, it SHOULDN'T MATTER. Consenting adults can be with anyone they want.

but unfortunately it does MATTER to the individual.

I've known personally, a gay person that commit suicide, and several trans women as well.

The "am i gay" thing on this forum might seem comical to some, given the porn nature of this forum. And to some extent, the lighthearted answers of "just shag whoever man, don't worry about it" are ok.

But I still feel, that TRANS ADMIRERS who pursue a relationship with a transwoman have a lot of stuff to contemplate.

Am i gay? deep down am i really just into her because she has a dick? I mean I know she's a woman, but then again, she has a dick, am I secretly gay? If my family finds out, based on what I've heard them say, I will lose them. Is my translove worth it. Or will i be without my family forever?


it's completely valid. in my opinion. lol not trying to offend anyone :)

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If you search this forum you'll probably find 20-50 'am I gay' threads which is why older members think the subject matter is tedious.

We deal with it because inevitably newer members are going to bring up the subject. It's the nature of such things, we aren't all at the same place.

I think most guys need to get their heads wrapped around the idea that being in bed with another penis doesn't mean you lose your man-card.

It doesn't change how you self-identify or process the world.

You're going to be labeled by most folks as gay anyway for liking/loving trans-chicks anyway. You have no power to change that so why worry about it??

I think it's the labeling straight guys into transwomen have the most problem with, which shouldn't be the issue anyway.

If it looks like a fish and swims like a fish, it might be a whale.

If you're a guy with a penis, and you're involved with a girl with a penis, the sexual behavior is homosexual. It just is what it is.

Having said that, most people you encounter will likely not know what's between her legs. You will be seen as a guy and a girl in public, and therefore no one will have a reason to call that anything other than a straight relationship.

Being gay means ONLY preferring to be with someone who identifies as the same sex as you.

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Originally Posted by south09

If you're a guy with a penis, and you're involved with a girl with a penis, the sexual behavior is homosexual. It just is what it is.

Having said that, most people you encounter will likely not know what's between her legs. You will be seen as a guy and a girl in public, and therefore no one will have a reason to call that anything other than a straight relationship.

Being gay means ONLY preferring to be with someone who identifies as the same sex as you.

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Spoken like a man who believes all TS are repressed gay men in extreme drag.

Homosexual is an emotional/sexual attraction to someone of the same gender.

Homosexual sex is by definition what two gay people do sexually in the bed together.

If a GIRL has a penis, when a straight man has sex with her, generously speaking you can't accurately label that as a homosexual relationship.

When Chaz Bono dates Cis women, are those lesbian relationships??

No sex act is either 'gay' or 'straight'. It's just sex.

I think the idea of transgendered women is just too big a reality for most people not experienced with such phenomena to handle.

To say that men attracted to chicks with dicks are completely straight is ridiculous. sure they may be mostly straight but they are at least bi or bi curious. they may not be attracted to masculine looking men but being attracted to extremely feminine looking men who identify as a woman makes you kinda gay. real straight men have no problem watching only straight porn and fucking natural women only. if you like pre op ts girls you like the dick which will never make you completely straight.

I apologize for any offense but i clearly did not say effeminate men. i am actually fully aware that ts women are all girl on the inside, and i don't need a silly degree to know that. Im in a relationship with a ts woman and we are both very much in love but i can admit i was first attracted to her because Im bi curious and she told me she was a pre op tgirl

My biological sex is male, your biological sex is male. Bam. Homosexual. Nothing about the term speaks to gender or romantic feelings. Ergo, if you have a dick and you touch my dick - and you like it... you're the gay. It's kinda what homosexuality is exactly. If we were talking about heterogenderality then none of this would even be an issue, but since that isn't even a word ya'll will just have to knit yourselves a little rainbow flag and start rocking that fucker with at least a modicum of queery eyed pride.

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Originally Posted by Jamie French

My biological sex is male, your biological sex is male. Bam. Homosexual. Nothing about the term speaks to gender or romantic feelings. Ergo, if you have a dick and you touch my dick - and you like it... you're the gay. It's kinda what homosexuality is exactly. If we were talking about heterogenderality then none of this would even be an issue, but since that isn't even a word ya'll will just have to knit yourselves a little rainbow flag and start rocking that fucker with at least a modicum of queery eyed pride.

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Thanks for clearing things up.

Being trans-attracted is just another variation on the homo scale.:geek:

This is a Fag's Only party, you know who you are.

Straight dudes need not apply.

"heterogenderality" I say we put it in the dictionary.

Alfonse: Homo?
Bruce: Homosexual, but not homogenderal?
Alfonse: Too bad! Later than.

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