Goodbye

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Originally Posted by seanchai

For those who didn't read my "Open Letter" last week, this was was the final paragraph.
I don't have an answer but I'm open to ideas.


"How about we reach a little further?

How about we look at ways to “sponsor” or help girls develop their transitions through support, advice and surgery? How about we encourage even more tgirls to come out – and how about we look at ways to normalize them even further within our society. How about we investigate why so many models have such problems with finance and see if we can do something to help them manage that? Why don’t we look at why so many tgirls have psychological issues – depression and suicidal – and is there anything we can do to try and help them?"

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All boards change over time, however I feel that a year ago HA was more welcoming for the girls than now. I can't place why but there are less posts by the girls. Yes this board is about the Tgirl sex industry, but we need the Tgirls to enjoy being on here. We are probably part of the front lines where we all can improve acceptance one contact at a time.

Some do very well but so many are just scraping by. At the least they should feel appreciated for who they are, not just how hot they look.

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Originally Posted by Rusty Eldora

All boards change over time, however I feel that a year ago HA was more welcoming for the girls than now. I can't place why but there are less posts by the girls. Yes this board is about the Tgirl sex industry, but we need the Tgirls to enjoy being on here. We are probably part of the front lines where we all can improve acceptance one contact at a time.

Some do very well but so many are just scraping by. At the least they should feel appreciated for who they are, not just how hot they look.

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Rusty, I agree: "I can't place why but there are less posts by the girls." And: "... we need the Tgirls to enjoy being on here."

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Originally Posted by Ben

Rusty, I agree: "I can't place why but there are less posts by the girls." And: "... we need the Tgirls to enjoy being on here."

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She hasn't been on HA, lurking without posting, for 22 hours. As someone who was probably closer than most, until or unless I hear something definitive, I remain deeply concerned.

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Originally Posted by Rusty Eldora

All boards change over time, however I feel that a year ago HA was more welcoming for the girls than now. I can't place why but there are less posts by the girls. Yes this board is about the Tgirl sex industry, but we need the Tgirls to enjoy being on here. We are probably part of the front lines where we all can improve acceptance one contact at a time.

Some do very well but so many are just scraping by. At the least they should feel appreciated for who they are, not just how hot they look.

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Actually, I think this site is more welcoming than ever. There are fewer girls because there is less money and more models than normal circulating within the niche right now.

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Originally Posted by Ben

Rusty, I agree: "I can't place why but there are less posts by the girls." And: "... we need the Tgirls to enjoy being on here."

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Maybe it's because guys insist on focusing on the 't' in tgirls. This is a transsexual forum. The redundancy in that term here is quite unnecessarily othering.

~BB~

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

Actually, I think this site is more welcoming than ever. There are fewer girls because there is less money and more models than normal circulating within the niche right now.



Maybe it's because guys insist on focusing on the 't' in tgirls. This is a transsexual forum. The redundancy in that term here is quite unnecessarily othering.

~BB~

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All of these discussions are relevant and worthwhile. However, the silence from Miranda herself continues to be deafening and deeply worrying. Any news?

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Originally Posted by robertlouis

All of these discussions are relevant and worthwhile. However, the silence from Miranda herself continues to be deafening and deeply worrying. Any news?

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Kelly has informed me that she spoke to her and that she's stable for the moment. That's all I know, and I was really hoping you guys could hear it from her, hence I didn't mention it sooner. She must be busy.

~BB~

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

Kelly has informed me that she spoke to her and that she's stable for the moment. That's all I know, and I was really hoping you guys could hear it from her, hence I didn't mention it sooner. She must be busy.

~BB~

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Thanks Bella, that's hopeful news. I am hoping for the best for Miranda. She always seemed like a beautiful person on these Boards.

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

Kelly has informed me that she spoke to her and that she's stable for the moment. That's all I know, and I was really hoping you guys could hear it from her, hence I didn't mention it sooner. She must be busy.

~BB~

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Thanks very much Bella, very much appreciated. I don't know about busy per se. I suspect she's drawing breath and trying to build up her mental strength. But I would love to hear directly from her if that's humanly possible.

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Originally Posted by seanchai

For those who didn't read my "Open Letter" last week, this was was the final paragraph.
I don't have an answer but I'm open to ideas.


"How about we reach a little further?

How about we look at ways to “sponsor” or help girls develop their transitions through support, advice and surgery? How about we encourage even more tgirls to come out – and how about we look at ways to normalize them even further within our society. How about we investigate why so many models have such problems with finance and see if we can do something to help them manage that? Why don’t we look at why so many tgirls have psychological issues – depression and suicidal – and is there anything we can do to try and help them?"

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:iagree:Let's all start to look at our own posts and try to be a little less confrontational and argumentative.
And that is valid for me too...mea culpa!

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Originally Posted by seanchai

Fixed.

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It's still in the quote (post #93).