Are Asian and Hispanic Transsexuals the Most Racist?

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Your acting as if your bodies are temples............ if they really were than.....you know I don't really have to finish the rest.

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There's a mysogynist line if ever there was one. :roll: We're not acting as if our bodies were temples, we're just reminding you that they are OUR bodies and WE decide who touches them and under what circumstances. No external moral claims (cries of bigotry and whines of racism) have a voice in those decisions.

I know it's hard for you guys to hear that. For millennia women have been regarded are property and possessions. We aren't temples. But we do belong to ourselves alone.

Another thing I noticed is that 99% of the time I call a "escort" she ask me my race but they never ask me for my height,or my weight, or a picture of me....I guess they have no preference over actual looks....just color :roll:.

This topic has been rehashed time and time again and ends up nowhere,seriously there are far more important issues involving race then this.There seems to be more involvement from members about escorts not seeing them then really important threads about race.

Any decisions based solely on race are racist. Period.

If a black girl doesn't see black guys, yes, that's still racist because it's a decision based solely on race.

Now, this is separate from the issue of "shouldn't girls be able to choose who they see?". My answer is "yes, they should have the right to choose". But if their choice is that they won't see a guy based solely on his race, they can't get away with saying that this isn't a racist decision.

We're all prisoners of our life experiences: a cat sits on a hot stove, it never sits on a hot stove again. It doesn't sit on cold stoves, either. It just avoids the kitchen altogether. A girl has a few bad experiences and it's easy to associate these past bad experiences with any group who those guys might have belonged to. The easiest thing to associate anyone with is their race, because it's visually obvious (to some extent). So, if a girl has a few bad experiences with guys who are of the same race, she might easily associate the behaviour with that race. But it doesn't mean it's real, just a knee jerk reaction. This leads to making racist decisions. And since almost no one wants to label themselves as a racist, they don't want to admit to making racist choices, so they want to say "it's not racist, it's just a preference". But it really is racist and they don't want to be tarred with that label.

Real important threads involving race issues do not generate this much attention,its always the escorts ones.

I remember posting the jena 6 and no one seemed to care about it all that much.

All you girls trying to defend this based on preference and "our bodies" nonsense need to sit down and relax for a few minutes. When you're relaxed, imagine a guy calls you for a date. You ask him what nationality he is. He says he's black. Now...
What's the next thing that goes through your mind? What self-talk do you engage in? Honestly?!

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Originally Posted by El_hefe

Well since no one is honest enough to say it.....I will. Many of the experienced girls feel there is more of a chance that they will be hassled, robbed or hit by dating a young black male.
My ex-girlfriend isn't white, wasn't born in the states with it's fucked up racial attitudes & she told me that this is what she learned after living in NYC & LA.
She was robbed by black guys/girls a couple of times & a lot of verbal, & sometimes physical harassment by them in the bar. Not all black guys, not most black guys, just a consistent pattern from the same demographic that she & most of her friends avoided dealing with them after a while unless they were known friends.
Sorry.

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I have to comment on this.
Its quite unfortunate that the only image SOME WHITE PEOPLE HAVE OF BLACKS is the media and what they see in public.
What they generally see in public is NOT NICE.
I will explain.
Most white and NON-BLACKS generally interact with blacks on public transportation or DMV or McDonalds or some other public venue such as malls and whatnot.
These venues are usually populated by the younger generation of black folks and that is where the problem USUALLY lies.
Their behavior is atrocious.
Im on public transit 6HOURS a day 5 days a week and I am a keen observer.
Black peoples behavior and general demeanor is atrocious!
Loud,always using foul language and LIBERAL use of the "N" word.
You all have been there and know I speak the truth.
I have seen blacks(generally the younger ones 15-30) actually use racist terms toward whites and other non-blacks on bart and some even start fights.
I am on there EVERYDAY and I see great fear in the eyes of whites and others when they see blacks.
I see whites IGNORING deviant behavior that would cause fights anywhere else.
I have a picture on my ipod TAKEN MONDAY of this week of a bummy OLDER black male whose seat of his pants where saturated with his own feces go to the doors connecting one train from another and urinate in full view of everyone and then return to his seat.
What was the worst aspect of this mind bending situatiuon was the white woman siting next to him IGNORING his stench and psycopathic ranting.
Ive witness black engaged in impromptu racist rants against whites on BART while the few blacks on the train(me included) looked at this ignorant foul raised negro like he was out of his fucking mind.......all the while the top echelon whites that work in downtown San Francisco in the towers were silent and as docile as monks!
Imagine the situation reversed!?
There would have been blows thrown!
I wish so many blacks didnt behave like this.
I see it EVERYDAY and i have pictures.
WE AS BLACKS MUST CHANGE!!!
I am a 43 year old intelligent black man who has never been in the system and take care of myself and DONT engage in antisocial behavior.
Stop blaming racism for everything!
If RACISM was so prevalent what I see on BART daily would not be.


Have a good night.

You're a straight male. Suppose you're looking for a life partner...someone to marry. A certain guy finds you interesting. He wants to date you in a serious way. You put him off, perhaps diplomatically, but you put him off. After all, you're not interested in dating some one of the same sex. Are you sexist?

Suppose you're a straight male and a gigolo. A male offers you money for sex. You refuse. He accuses you of being sexist...making a decision based solely on gender. Does the accusation apply? Is your only moral choice to take his money and suck his cock?

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Originally Posted by trish

Everything else a girl considers falls under the category of preferences: her preferences. If, for example, I like tumbling in the hay with wonderfully obese men and not with skinny men, that would be a sexual fetish (i.e. a preference) and not a prejudice. Indeed I may have no PREJUDGMENTS concerning lean men. I may realize some are smart and some are stupid. Some are clean and some are filthy. Some are rich and some are poor. Some are great lovers and some are so-so. It may simply be the case that I just don’t want to have sex with bony men. That’s not prejudice, that’s merely catering to one’s own desires, preferences and fetishes even when on the job. I never eat escargot, whether I’m an escort or not. That’s not prejudice against snails. I’ve tried them. I don’t hate them. I can understand why they’re rightly considered a delicacy. But you can’t pay me to eat them either. I’m not going to put them in MY body.

Everyone on these forums knows I’m the first to call out racists and haters. Hostile called me a racist about eight times just last week for defending Obama. But in this case, what you guys don’t see is that it’s not always about YOU. When it comes to our bodies, WE girls decide who’s going to touch it and under what circumstances. You don’t have a voice in that decision.

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'Round and 'round I go... You guys keep comparing apples and oranges. I hope none of you are trial lawyers. Comparing race, ESPECIALLY blacks, to whether a guy is skinny or fat is as senseless as comparing it to prefering Coca Cola over Pepsi. It's not the same thing!
Try to follow this. I'll make it as simple as I can: If I call you and offer you a soda, you may ask what kind. If I say Pepsi, you can say no thanks, I don't like Pepsi. You've tasted Pepsi, you know what it's like. It will always be like that. That's your PREFERENCE.
If I call you for a date and tell you I'm black, YOU KNOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING MORE ABOUT ME THAN YOU DID SECONDS BEFORE, excepting that I identify with the black race. Any decision you make of whether or not I'm "allowed to touch" your body is based on your preconceived notions and perceptions that pop into your head when I say BLACK!
Coca-Cola, fat guys, thin guys, yes that's a preference based on what you KNOW! Black... That's a prejudice based on what you THINK you know.
The fact that you all can't see the difference between race and simple physical traits screams racism. All tall men are tall. All fat men are fat. All coca-cola tastes like coca-cola. All black men are_______?