GGs have the biggest issue with transsexuals

Exactly I love how the men on here tell us what's best for us, but our way has obviously been working.

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

I love how every troll comes out to say "be upfront with them". These are the same guys who post "keep your cock!!!' when a girl talks about getting SRS. 99.9 percent of them would deny knowing you if you ran into them in person and they were with their mother.

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What do expect Julie? You're on a forum populated with guys with an attraction for tgirls. If I met a hot lady at a straight bar on the Island and discovered she was t, I'd feel like I just hit the daily double. This is not exactly the feelings your future husband has right now. But if the guy is all you say he is, he'll want to see you again.

And I would certainly surpress the urge to go ghetto on the bitch who outed you. It'll give you like 10 minutes of satisfaction and buy your chances with the dude you're interested in.

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aww thank u babe........i am going to Starbucks I need to get my ass moving today this whole thing got me all twisted up I been in my pjs all day.

Julie, you are a very attactive woman - the girl must like him and that is why she did it - she was very offended that he was more attracted to a transsexual then for her...

You are gorgeous and you don't need to be anyone but yourself. Hold your chin up and next time you see her " Kill her with kindness " . Don't ever mention it, just let her fall into her misery, because her true reason behind what she did was to hurt you in the long run. Don't give her the satisfaction. I think that every guy you meet now you should go to her and brag! LOL

Cheer up and be honest with people - they will value you alot more!

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

I get so frustrated when every trick comes out from under their rock to "tell it how it is". Myself and other girls have lived it. We know what works and what doesn't. We know how it works because we have been in all kinds of situations many times over. Its like me trying to tell a black lady how to be black.

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Again Julie,

I don't know how it is, and I can't really speak on that.

I can speak of my experiences about honesty.

But I can relay others' experiences as told to me.

And from what you said, you may have lost a "potential good one" because of tendency/philosophy.

Obviously it's up to you to change that or not,
But it does stand to reason.......

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"If you don't like getting what you're getting, stop doing what your doing".

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Julie, you are a very attactive woman - the girl must like him and that is why she did it - she was very offended that he was more attracted to a transsexual then for her...

You are gorgeous and you don't need to be anyone but yourself. Hold your chin up and next time you see her " Kill her with kindness " . Don't ever mention it, just let her fall into her misery, because her true reason behind what she did was to hurt you in the long run. Don't give her the satisfaction. I think that every guy you meet now you should go to her and brag! LOL

Cheer up and be honest with people - they will value you alot more!

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My sister want to go with me and confront her

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

Exactly I love how the men on here tell us what's best for us, but our way has obviously been working.

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Kelly, as long as you're not generalizing then I see your point. If you are generalizing then this quote below, of mine, is not the only one voiced along a similar vein...

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

Who thinks that T girls should tell guys right away?

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Well, I believe you sort of alluded to "your way of doing things." I'm sure lots of guys have lots of different opinions, but in the end, only your opinion really counts, and it's backed up by 13 years of experience. Best-o-luck, Julie.

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My ex's GG girlfriend wrote me an email saying " He is just trying to be a woman and he will never be one because he can't give birth. He wears makeup and he is gay...." All this nasty shit... I wish i still had the letter. Me and my ex are still great friends and she just hates that. She hates that I have more love for him now then when we were dating. She hates that I accomplished everything she ever wish she could even attempt. When he mentions her now he says " I was talking to the woman you hate the other day... " I quickly correct him and say " I don't hate her, I actually love her for teaching me the lessons she did. It was through the pain she imposed on me that I realized a very important lesson. I hate the fact that she fells the way she does about me because all I ever wanted to do is love you. And she told your brother I was a TS which imposed alot of pain on you, her actions are malicious and I feel saddness for her. I hope she gets better... And no... I don't hate her at all - I hate what she did to me, and what you allowed her to do to our relationship "... Danmmmmm that must hit a soft spot! LOL I am sure he tells her everything so.... I get my message across

If you confront her not only will you be showing her you are less of a person but also showing her you are an angry person. Like I said, take a deep breath, go do something that makes you feel good with your sister, go get a pedicure... A new shirt... and just spend the day with yoru sis instead of causing trouble.

A great friend of mine once said " Pick your battles " and that was after I broke a 14 yo girl's cell phone at the movie theater because she would not shut up LOL

That was then... I wish I had the inner balance then I do now. I am actually pretty ashamed of my actions then. But I feel alot better when I handle myself above those who cause other's harm. It's like when you were a kid looking at an ant farm... You start to see the world and people who just populate it as just that...

One example: When in a croud and I am being pushed around, I just sorta stand there and let others go first, as opposed to my old self who would start shit. I now find others who are even watching my actions and we make eye contact and it's sort of a weird mental connection that happends. You will always find similar minds if you just look hard enough.

DO NOT LET HER ACTIONS BUG YOU!

You are gorgeous - that's the only reason why she did what she did.

I guess Rothmann's Steakhouse on Thursday nights is not the Island place I should be hanging at to met hot ladies.