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Originally Posted by KiraHarden_TS
*hears doorbell*
Damn kira, you run fast :lol:
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thank ya!Quote:
Originally Posted by KiraHarden_TS
*hears doorbell*
Damn kira, you run fast :lol:
I'm starting to wonder if this all comes down to impressing women. If you can find another way to impress a girl, you don't need to be a gentleman. Thats why the guys with nothing to offer are usually the gentlemen.
But if you have a guy with everything and is a gentleman, then he's probably a player, and a dick. Then you don't want him anyways.
Gentlemen exist. Many GG and TG look only for the superficial....thin bodies, handsome faces, rippling muscles, full heads of hair. I have none of that, but I am a gentleman first and foremost. All I would ever ask would be a chance to prove how good of a man I am. Unfortunately, I never get that chance.
I had the same problems back in high school. Until midway through, I was a fat, outta shape kid. I pretty much looked like Bobby Hill with a curly afro...and this was in the mid 90's, BEFORE 'fro's were considered cool again. :P Anyhow, I used to think so long as I was a good person and such, it would not matter....HA! All I got was my ass kicked on a daily basis by the bullies and jocks ( my name given to me by them was BEEFY TITS ), and ignored by the girls. So after my sophmore year in 1996, I trained my ass off in the make-shift gym I made in the basement. Lost 30 or so pounds that summer and while I did some some respect, I only really got respect in my senior year when I hit the weight room when the year began. Also, it helped me got noticed by the girls, and the bullies started to back off once I started getting a bit bigger and stronger. Plus getting rid of the 'fro helped.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaLonelyGuyNJ
Looks plays a BIG part in anything, especially when getting one of the opposite sex, I found out the hard way from experience. Is it correct or not? Who knows.....just that what we look like is what makes a big impression on the opposite sex ( or same sex for some people ). I mean you take 2 guys....both good, decent gentleman.....one of them has a face like Brad Pitt, lean body, wash board abs, nice hair, and so on....the other has a face like Prince Charles, a body like Jim Belushi, hair like Larry Fine, and such......don't matter how nice guy #2 is, because fellow #1 is going to have a better ( and easier ) time getting the girls.
And besides....I myself might be superficial....I want girls with lean bodies, nice hair, who dresses hot, cute faces, etc. I am not attracted to girls who look like Monty Python guys in drag or the cast of the View. But I have worked hard to make myself look better to not only girls and the people around me, but also myself. It did not come easy, and I work hard to make myself presentable to everyone. So therefore, I feel I am sfae to say that I have paid my dues to allow myself to have some sort of standard to what I want from a chick.
Besides, my mother once said to me the reason that marriages and relationships go down the shitter so much these days is that people are not picky enough. And my folks been married 30+ years.
So to DaLonelyGuyNJ, self improvement can be used as a tool to not just make other see you in a better light, but you might feel better yourself. I'll put up some of my own pics like Blckhaze did, once I figure out how to work this new camera I got a few months back. :oops: :lol: :mrgreen:
Yes indeed! And I luv it! LOL ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by KiraHarden_TS
~Kisses.
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That's it!Quote:
Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
*slips on some nutty professor style glasses and starts reading the camera instruction book again and again*
I am a gentleman here at your service Allanah
*Taps fingers..waiting in anticipation..LOL ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Trogdor
~Kisses.
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If a man does akk the gentleman thing in today hip cool society he gets called old fashioned & ancient then so be it it beats callinga woman a ho & treating her as such.
To me i think the womens lib movment went too far that if guy does anything for a women alarm bells go off thinking a guy trying to be a boss on control when all he really doing is being a fine man that respects the woman