Do you feel it's wrong?

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03-13-2007
MrsKellyPierce

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Originally Posted by Luna555

I defintely dont think its wrong. If you are a woman you are a woman. And i agree, alot of times if you just put Transexual on a profile all of a sudden they prejude, they might think you sound manly or are just a freak. I wouldnt want to date a "tranny Chaser" either. I did once but i broke up with him, he treated me like i was his sex object.

On anything I was on before,(myspace, facebook...etc) i neversaid i was transexual or trans anything. Personally i am a woman. Nope im not going to say "i feel like im a woman"...because i dont feel like i am. I am. And thats that. Just because i was born with a penis doesnt mean i have to go around telling everyone.

This is something I have been debateing in my mind for a long time. Ive actually thought of not even telling my husband when i get married, but then i think i might if it gets that far for my sake aswell. If i didnt i would feel like our connection is not complete. But everyone must do what they feel is best for them.

But in the beging, im sure there are things about both parties past that both are not sharing with eachothe

I was dating a guy for a week before i told him, he said that he didnt know anything about me and that if i would have told him in the begining he would have just thought i was a freak. But i changed his perception and thoughts of what a girl like me was like.

Alot of people think girls like me are weird and they only judge from what they see on Jerry Springer or other shows that make girls like me seem.

REAL TALK!!!
03-13-2007
specialk

Re: Do you feel it's wrong?

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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So I am on a few "straight sites"...and I put my status as female. And I talk to the guys for awhile to let them get to know me, then if I want to meet them I tell them. It usually works out in my favor, but there's always that small percent that get mad. Do you think I am wrong for doing it this way? Should I tell them flat out?

Your a funny girl Kelly Shore. You start out mentioning some guys (small%) get mad, and you solicited an opinion from other members what they think.

Then you say Quote:Can one of the individuals that answered to yes its wrong..give their insight. I'd like to hear it.

Then...when the opinions you solicited thought it was wrong, you got testy...well you asked for them.

I got testy cause you twisted my words per usual

LMAO...per usual???? this is the first (and probably last ) time I ever engaged you in a serious topic!
03-13-2007
MrsKellyPierce

Re: Do you feel it's wrong?

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Originally Posted by specialk

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by specialk

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

So I am on a few "straight sites"...and I put my status as female. And I talk to the guys for awhile to let them get to know me, then if I want to meet them I tell them. It usually works out in my favor, but there's always that small percent that get mad. Do you think I am wrong for doing it this way? Should I tell them flat out?

Your a funny girl Kelly Shore. You start out mentioning some guys (small%) get mad, and you solicited an opinion from other members what they think.

Then you say Quote:Can one of the individuals that answered to yes its wrong..give their insight. I'd like to hear it.

Then...when the opinions you solicited thought it was wrong, you got testy...well you asked for them.

I got testy cause you twisted my words per usual

LMAO...per usual???? this is the first (and probably last ) time I ever engaged you in a serious topic!

If you say so and I wasn't talking about just you..I was talking about the mass.
03-13-2007
ohioboy

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Originally Posted by Luna555

Yes, some do mind and some dont mind.

Theres always the possibility that the one that do mind could turn very violent, whether thats physically or vocally violent.

Thats all im sayin. u hate to hear about people getting killed over stuff like this, but it happens. I just think some are being naive about some thing acting like 'oh it wont happen to me' or 'all guys eventually come around'.....im just sayin that is not true.
03-13-2007
Luna555

Ive never been that naive to think it could not happen to me. Its somthing i have in my mind whenever a guy wants to take me out or even talks to me.

But you know I can only try to do my best and be selective about which guys to just plain avoid and not even talk to again and guys that might be more openminded about it.
03-13-2007
specialk

Re: Do you feel it's wrong?

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by specialk

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

So I am on a few "straight sites"...and I put my status as female. And I talk to the guys for awhile to let them get to know me, then if I want to meet them I tell them. It usually works out in my favor, but there's always that small percent that get mad. Do you think I am wrong for doing it this way? Should I tell them flat out?

Your a funny girl Kelly Shore. You start out mentioning some guys (small%) get mad, and you solicited an opinion from other members what they think.

Then you say Quote:Can one of the individuals that answered to yes its wrong..give their insight. I'd like to hear it.

Then...when the opinions you solicited thought it was wrong, you got testy...well you asked for them.

I got testy cause you twisted my words per usual

LMAO...per usual???? this is the first (and probably last ) time I ever engaged you in a serious topic!

If you say so and I wasn't talking about just you..I was talking about the mass.

The mass= all the people who offered an opinion that differed from yours.

Kelly, your way too defensive here. Your idea of holding off and telling later, in hopes that a guy will like you for who you are DOES HAPPEN!! It happened to me. 3 yrs. ago, when I was on a photo trip to Tx., I was eating dinner in a club/restaraunt, and a woman who was a total stranger bought me a drink. So, I invited her to my table. We talked for hrs. I liked her personality, her style. At some point she decides to drop the bomb on me. When I climed off the floor and got back in my seat, the conversation was all about TS. Ok, so now I'm curious and all, but I go to my motel room and sleep on it. She was supposed to call me the next day
and hang out with me while I'm shooting film. We had a lot of fun that day, I invited her to dinner that nite and the rest is history as they say. I dated her for about 3 months long distance, and gave it up out of the reality of long distance was too much to overcome.
HOWEVER....some guys could have seen it all another way, and maybe got mad when they found out, and I understand that point of view too!
03-13-2007
MrsKellyPierce

Re: Do you feel it's wrong?

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Originally Posted by specialk

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by specialk

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by specialk

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

So I am on a few "straight sites"...and I put my status as female. And I talk to the guys for awhile to let them get to know me, then if I want to meet them I tell them. It usually works out in my favor, but there's always that small percent that get mad. Do you think I am wrong for doing it this way? Should I tell them flat out?

Your a funny girl Kelly Shore. You start out mentioning some guys (small%) get mad, and you solicited an opinion from other members what they think.

Then you say Quote:Can one of the individuals that answered to yes its wrong..give their insight. I'd like to hear it.

Then...when the opinions you solicited thought it was wrong, you got testy...well you asked for them.

I got testy cause you twisted my words per usual

LMAO...per usual???? this is the first (and probably last ) time I ever engaged you in a serious topic!

If you say so and I wasn't talking about just you..I was talking about the mass.

The mass= all the people who offered an opinion that differed from yours.

Kelly, your way too defensive here. Your idea of holding off and telling later, in hopes that a guy will like you for who you are DOES HAPPEN!! It happened to me. 3 yrs. ago, when I was on a photo trip to Tx., I was eating dinner in a club/restaraunt, and a woman who was a total stranger bought me a drink. So, I invited her to my table. We talked for hrs. I liked her personality, her style. At some point she decides to drop the bomb on me. When I climed off the floor and got back in my seat, the conversation was all about TS. Ok, so now I'm curious and all, but I go to my motel room and sleep on it. She was supposed to call me the next day
and hang out with me while I'm shooting film. We had a lot of fun that day, I invited her to dinner that nite and the rest is history as they say. I dated her for about 3 months long distance, and gave it up out of the reality of long distance was too much to overcome.
HOWEVER....some guys could have seen it all another way, and maybe got mad when they found out, and I understand that point of view too!

I am not defensive at all..there are plenty of other girls that said they agreed, but I was singled out. It's not like I'm meeting them and sucking their cocks and later being like ha ha I'm a transexual. It's conversation to get to know someone the sex of the person shouldn't even be an issue, but when it starts getting intimate and the guy seems genuinely interested. I to do tell them. I don't hide it, but I don't need to broadcast it. Especially if I plan on dating a guy that doesn't want people to know? That is what I'm getting at Special K. I like being treated as a woman like I am..I don't like sitting there explaining everything I've done cosmetically, Everything I've done hormonally to look like I do. I don't want to talk about what I have downstairs either with a guy I'm interested in on the first date defenitely and the first 20 minutes of getting to know them. I don't think thats too much to ask for..and I think I made a VALID POINT...that guys will treat you differently when they found out you are a transexual..they will treat you like an OBJECT..and you think I type in caps to yell but its not it's to point out things I'm pointing out the most!
03-13-2007
ohioboy

Kelly you are the target of alot of scrutiny. I remember my first post you dogged the shit out of me in an undercover way...lol.

BUT you do contribute alot of action to this forum. They should put you on salary.
03-13-2007
MrsKellyPierce

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Originally Posted by ohioboy

Kelly you are the target of alot of scrutiny. I remember my first post you dogged the shit out of me in an undercover way...lol.

BUT you do contribute alot of action to this forum. They should put you on salary.

lol Ohio, did I really dog you? ha ha I feel so funny saying that last part.
03-13-2007
specialk

Re: Do you feel it's wrong?

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by specialk

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by specialk

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by specialk

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

So I am on a few "straight sites"...and I put my status as female. And I talk to the guys for awhile to let them get to know me, then if I want to meet them I tell them. It usually works out in my favor, but there's always that small percent that get mad. Do you think I am wrong for doing it this way? Should I tell them flat out?

Your a funny girl Kelly Shore. You start out mentioning some guys (small%) get mad, and you solicited an opinion from other members what they think.

Then you say Quote:Can one of the individuals that answered to yes its wrong..give their insight. I'd like to hear it.

Then...when the opinions you solicited thought it was wrong, you got testy...well you asked for them.

I got testy cause you twisted my words per usual

LMAO...per usual???? this is the first (and probably last ) time I ever engaged you in a serious topic!

If you say so and I wasn't talking about just you..I was talking about the mass.

The mass= all the people who offered an opinion that differed from yours.

Kelly, your way too defensive here. Your idea of holding off and telling later, in hopes that a guy will like you for who you are DOES HAPPEN!! It happened to me. 3 yrs. ago, when I was on a photo trip to Tx., I was eating dinner in a club/restaraunt, and a woman who was a total stranger bought me a drink. So, I invited her to my table. We talked for hrs. I liked her personality, her style. At some point she decides to drop the bomb on me. When I climed off the floor and got back in my seat, the conversation was all about TS. Ok, so now I'm curious and all, but I go to my motel room and sleep on it. She was supposed to call me the next day
and hang out with me while I'm shooting film. We had a lot of fun that day, I invited her to dinner that nite and the rest is history as they say. I dated her for about 3 months long distance, and gave it up out of the reality of long distance was too much to overcome.
HOWEVER....some guys could have seen it all another way, and maybe got mad when they found out, and I understand that point of view too!

I am not defensive at all..there are plenty of other girls that said they agreed, but I was singled out. It's not like I'm meeting them and sucking their cocks and later being like ha ha I'm a transexual. It's conversation to get to know someone the sex of the person shouldn't even be an issue, but when it starts getting intimate and the guy seems genuinely interested. I to do tell them. I don't hide it, but I don't need to broadcast it. Especially if I plan on dating a guy that doesn't want people to know? That is what I'm getting at Special K. I like being treated as a woman like I am..I don't like sitting there explaining everything I've done cosmetically, Everything I've done hormonally to look like I do. I don't want to talk about what I have downstairs either with a guy I'm interested in on the first date defenitely and the first 20 minutes of getting to know them. I don't think thats too much to ask for..and I think I made a VALID POINT...that guys will treat you differently when they found out you are a transexual..they will treat you like an OBJECT..and you think I type in caps to yell but its not it's to point out things I'm pointing out the most!

I understand fully your point of view...I got that hrs. ago. However, you refuse to see any other point of view other than Kelly's ....which is all I've been saying here tonight. I'm not passing judgement on your way of handling it, I'm just trying (very unsuccesfully) to get your to understand another point of view.....Mon de' Jamina gi dei mort!!!

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