My husband cheated on me with TS/TV

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

I have offered to use a strap on and he said it was going to far but has agreed to a prostate stimulator

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This isn't going to end well

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Originally Posted by runningdownthatdream

This isn't going to end well

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Why?

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Originally Posted by mikelangelo1

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

I have offered to use a strap on and he said it was going to far but has agreed to a prostate stimulator

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so, it seems that u have reconciled with each other

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We are getting there. More talking tonight as I haven't actually confronted him about this site yet but we will see how it goes
He's always been very loving and touchy and always coming up behind me when I'm doing something for a hug and always kissing me but after our chat last night and this morning he's even more loving. He knows I know something, I can tell by the way he's looking at me but he hadn't opened up and admitted snything. I've hot a feeling he will deny it all anyway and say he's never actually gone through with any if it out of embarrassment and if that's the case I'm not going to push him for answers
I'm just taking it 1 day at a time from now on and see how it goes

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Originally Posted by runningdownthatdream

This isn't going to end well

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

Why?

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Well for one not all guys that like TS are into having there own butts played with.

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Originally Posted by CaptainPlanet

Well for one not all guys that like TS are into having there own butts played with.

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He stated on here that when this certain ts fucked him wow his horizons where widen so I'm guessing he likes it, besides he likes it when I finger his arse and he's admitted he wants me try a prostate massager on him which I have bought so we will see

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

We are getting there. More talking tonight as I haven't actually confronted him about this site yet but we will see how it goes
He's always been very loving and touchy and always coming up behind me when I'm doing something for a hug and always kissing me but after our chat last night and this morning he's even more loving. He knows I know something, I can tell by the way he's looking at me but he hadn't opened up and admitted snything. I've hot a feeling he will deny it all anyway and say he's never actually gone through with any if it out of embarrassment and if that's the case I'm not going to push him for answers
I'm just taking it 1 day at a time from now on and see how it goes

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Realistically quite a few married guys visit, or have visited, escorts. Of course I understand how your actually finding out that your husband is doing so has upset you. Curious as to why you were snooping in the first place?
Anyway, assuming you love him and want to stay together, it probably won’t hurt, and may help, for you two to have a frank discussion about what you’ve discovered.
Probably would be helpful to you for you not to have any expectations regarding his future behavior. He’s not going to stop seeing escorts occasionally. Either you’re going to give him what amounts to “permission”, or he’s going to get better at hiding these activities from you.

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

He stated on here that when this certain ts fucked him wow his horizons where widen so I'm guessing he likes it, besides he likes it when I finger his arse and he's admitted he wants me try a prostate massager on him which I have bought so we will see

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well then I stand corrected. Would you consider a 3 some with a TS and your husband? And how do you know he hasn't seen your post yet?

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Originally Posted by CaptainPlanet

well then I stand corrected. Would you consider a 3 some with a TS and your husband? And how do you know he hasn't seen your post yet?

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I did suggest we go to 1 of the swingers nights when there are ts/tv/cd's there but he said it would freak him out too much as he doesn't do men.
He hasn't seen my post cause he's account has been ban by the site

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

My husband and I spoke last night about swingers clubs and have agreed to look into it.

Xx

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I know some folks in the swinging scene....they are quite content!

Addendum: I haven't read through the entire mess so forgive me if this has already been addressed. I think a key factor in understanding your husband with regard to his relationship with you is to find out whether or not he is a "top" or "bottom" with transgender women.