Good luck. Like how many people would be comfortable telling their wives they have seen escorts. Or what porn they watched. You should be honest an open, but don't make it sound like it's easy
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If you aren't comfortable being forthright with a woman, you shouldn't be marrying her in the first place. And not entering a committed relationship with someone you feel you have to keep secrets from should be quite easy.
I'd love to heat , Jamie's music , I get a feeling it's punk ...
Jamie , where can I hear your music?
Instrumental, I admire you :) as a woman, whom seeks honest love, your wonderful relationship material! If a guy came to me bravely, and admitted his attraction to TS girls, I'd help him explore his attraction and accept him for his respectful truth! You're right! His wife is wasting her precious time! She only gets 1 life and it is up to him to be honest, and allow her to choose what she is alright with. Hopefully, he will take and use your advice! It just may save a whole lot of heart ache on both sides! He is using her and justifying his trickery with the facade that the truth may "hurt her." I personally see why people hide their sexuality in today's society, but if more people followed your advice the TS world wouldn't even be known as a TS world! It would just be common to see couples who are involved in Transgender relationships! As it should be! Because let's face it, more humans are attracted to Transgender than people think!
In my city the population is barely over 1000, and I personally know over a dozen men who frequent this site from my circle. The secret is theirs to keep, but I hope for a day when we can all be honest like you are saying and no wife, husband, or significant other will have to deal with the abuse this man puts his family through.
I wish him well