Men on dating ts women

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Originally Posted by bluesoul

i can see now the problem with you is more complicated than just miscommunication.

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Sigh! Brick wall...

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

It's a reason I distanced myself from the board...

I used to love the group of girls and guys that were on here before even with our differences we still all got on and were able to still speak to each other as humans..

Johnny, Nicole, Emily, Ed, Mimi, Ashley etc etc etc

Now it's turned into a whose the hottest and whose the most passable and whose bitchier than who and whose got the biggest balls contest on here..

It's boring

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I certainly understand your frustrations. Take breaks as needed but please don't ever give up. I think this thread you created today will do a lot of good for many people. We each can make a difference in this world, it just usually takes a bit more energy to do the good work.

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Originally Posted by KelticForce1349

I certainly understand your frustrations. Take breaks as needed but please don't ever give up. I think this thread you created today will do a lot of good for many people. We each can make a difference in this world, it just usually takes a bit more energy to do the good work.

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I think if anyone takes anything from it will be good...

I just think people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones...

Most men may think a transsexual is all about the money...

When that may not be true..but that's perception..it's unfair..

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

It's a reason I distanced myself from the board...

I used to love the group of girls and guys that were on here before even with our differences we still all got on and were able to still speak to each other as humans..

Johnny, Nicole, Emily, Ed, Mimi, Ashley etc etc etc

Now it's turned into a whose the hottest and whose the most passable and whose bitchier than who and whose got the biggest balls contest on here..

It's boring

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I have been lurking on this board from around late 2006-2007 (If my mind serves me correct). HA has always had its waves of drama. It will be drama for a couple of months, then everyone is happy. After awhile drama again. Please stick around. Drama comes and goes, but in the end its not a bad place to hang out.

I think what some people forget is that for an escort, the type of men that see them, are the same they get emails from on dating sites, or out in the club. Which makes the dating game pretty damn shitty.

If the escort is experienced then its fairly easy to figure these dudes out that just want to suck some dick. So ofcourse the job is going to overshadows her personal life, which is the reason why the known ts spots are filled with pay4play girls.

The girls that aren't in the sex industry, get the same types over and over just like the escorts, so its no surprise why so many girls are jaded about the men who want to date(sex) them.

Ps: Treat us as the women that we are, and not the transsexuals we became.

Nothing on my end beyond the normal finding the right one deal.
The hardest issue a serious man would run into is if hes dated a few girls, didnt work out like it does every day for so many, but he's known as a ts dater. As dumb as it sounds to me, alot o fgirls wont date a guy whos open to actually dating (movies, dinner, the whole courtship deal) if they heard hes dated girls previously. Its no tlike th ebro code of "shes my ex so no" its mor elike "oh he dated her, and because shes trans i cant date him". I lil asinine imb but oh well.

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Originally Posted by blckhaze

Nothing on my end beyond the normal finding the right one deal.
The hardest issue a serious man would run into is if hes dated a few girls, didnt work out like it does every day for so many, but he's known as a ts dater. As dumb as it sounds to me, alot o fgirls wont date a guy whos open to actually dating (movies, dinner, the whole courtship deal) if they heard hes dated girls previously. Its no tlike th ebro code of "shes my ex so no" its mor elike "oh he dated her, and because shes trans i cant date him". I lil asinine imb but oh well.

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Omg you are still alive lol

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Originally Posted by blckhaze

Nothing on my end beyond the normal finding the right one deal.
The hardest issue a serious man would run into is if hes dated a few girls, didnt work out like it does every day for so many, but he's known as a ts dater. As dumb as it sounds to me, alot o fgirls wont date a guy whos open to actually dating (movies, dinner, the whole courtship deal) if they heard hes dated girls previously. Its no tlike th ebro code of "shes my ex so no" its mor elike "oh he dated her, and because shes trans i cant date him". I lil asinine imb but oh well.

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Very true Haze and what happens is the guys just eventually accept it. I can find a dozen gg's to date, but finding a ts in this milieu???? Very very hard.

Zee menzz,,, Zay are Zee Pigzzzz.

I never get to the sex part of a date, after ten minutes of talking with me the guy heads for the exit.

While I have had my share of losers I have had quite a few times guys who hang out with me for maybe weeks or months without having sex. Maybe it's where one looks for a man or where one hangs out might determine what kind of man they find.

Although I am not exactly involved in the sex industry, I did have to do things when I was young in order to survive, so for the most part I rarely met this elusive creature called the "tranny chaser". Maybe they were the guys who headed for the exits.

Edit, also Most guys don't find me attractive, that might be a factor I left out up above

from my experiences its difficult to find a man who can genuinely give his all to a ts . for the most part transexuals seem to be a mans "fantasy" or fetish and they cant seem to take is serious because it is still in there head that we have a penis in between our legs and gives them more of a guilty conscience to treat us like a real woman would get treated. that is takn us out to family events and what not. I personally love parading that i am a transexual and i am very proud of what i am and i know it will be much more difficult to find a man who will respect me for what i truly am without wanting to change me or make me be and lie to be a real woman because i am not, i have a cock and i love to use it. men just really need to grow balls and be who they are inside and truly love someone for who they are inside and if that means a transexual than prove it to us and not treat us like we just some fucking rag dolls who want to get laid all the time .

JLxx