Last post very true. It is all about mutual respect. However if you go to any of the parties in NYC, you see the polar opposite. Men are looked at as fools to be separated from their money and the ladies are treated and act like meat. (Just look at the clothes, or lack there of) No one goes there to meet someone for more than a hook up. I have tried to engage in conversation and get to know the girls and been laughed at and I am a young good looking guy with an established career. The scene is still taboo and underground and that makes it hard for genuine relationships to develop. Anyone interested can contact me.