"why most hungangels (in general) don't find brothas attract

dj4monie touched on this in his last post, it's something a lot of people have mentioned. I know I've seen it. There's certain girls (read: ESCORTS) who will tell you right away on the phone "I don't date black guys".
Once when a couple of us guys here at HungAngels were out at a club, a girl actually asked if another staff member "was Dominican or Cuban because Black Guys are a No-No".
Maybe someone can chime in on this (and for the record 1) I'm not Black and 2) I lied and told her that he was Dominican. He had the most priceless look on his face when she kept asking him to speak spanish)

LOL! That's one of the funniest things I have heard. I do find that kinda strange that most white and asian T's just don't dig brothas. The more I think about, this came to mind -

Maybe they feel an interacial relationship attracts too much attention and they feel people will look at them "closer". Esp if the lady in question doesn't feel 100% "passable" in public, even thou in most cases she wouldn't be "detected" by the avg joe/jane.

But another thing I see is more than a few brothas down at 7669 (Peanuts) and gurls talking to them. So I dunno, the only T I have dated was white and she didn't have an issue with it one bit. I also know of another T that likes black men, but what both of these girls have in common is that they are NOT in the "industry".

I would really like to see some ladies comment on this.

* I will add some white, asian and latina T's do find me attractive, but I will admit they are less than stellar in most cases. My standards are not too high, I would just like to be seen in public every once in awhile. If I wanted to keep it behind closed doors, I would just continue f**kin BiTV's (which I really hate doing) to get my TG fix.

Im starting to wonder if I should in fact "pay for it". Funny that I would get turned down by most escorts too. Just doesn't pay to be a brotha I suppose...

Each person is entitled to their own opinion and there is no accounting for taste. It seems like the actions of a few fuck things up for the majority of you.

I asked a couple of "tgirl-friends" of mine about Black Men. A few flat out said "No way", and listed a couple of reasons that seem racist IMO.

I'm probably not the best to answer this question, but maybe an article about this would be good......

I story would be great, if gurls were willing to sit down, give a name (fake works also) and just break it down for us.

I was wondering around Queen Mary tonight. More than a few gurls on "duty". I always thought that the management looked down on that. Dj was BAD, playing the same shhh, he played last week, when I came by. I asked about djin there over a year ago. I'm going to talk to him this Friday.

Anyway, I was TRYING to make eye contact with "Paige" aka "Payton" this month (lol). She's a beautiful woman. I tried to my best and I know she saw me, guess just wasn't interested.

Too man "guys" in QM now days. Guess the gurls can afford to be "picky" like other women.

Somebody should really do a story on interracial dating in the TG world. So some of us brothas can get some 411.

I have seen this type of discussion elsewhere and always said why should tgirls be any different than the general populace. It does not surprise me, but you would think that the discrimination that most tgirls receieve would make them more empathetic to Af/AM. That being said, I am black and have visited several tgirls and have had only one say something but we did do the deed. It's like anything else in life if that one doesn't work there is always another right around the corner, so I don't let that stuff bother me too much. Their loss not mine. Now some of us brothers have given many the bad rap by trying not to pay, bargin the girls down, being abusive, and stuff like that, so some of the girls probably have had a bad experience. To me they should just screen each guy individually and not blanketly reject some of us hot, hung and true admirers and lovers of tgirls. "Can't we all just get along"........

Good Post...

Couldn't agree with you more.

It's tempting to "pay" for it now. Just to make sure I get what I want instead of another closet CD/TV just to get my TG fix once in awhile.

Been looking at the review sites and settled on a few ladies. Any suggestions? I'm tired of going to QM alone and don't want to wade through the "working girls" at Peanuts. Not much choice now.

I just stick to the fine as sista and latina tranzs. That's where I spend my money and time with. I avoid a lot of hassle this way. I am a black man pretty new to the game but I am no fool. If a white tranz stepped to me at a club or something, I will holla back, see what see is like. But as far as escorts, no way. Time is money. I think an escort should put in ther add if they don't do 'certain' people. That way 'certain' people can look elsewhere.

word, I have a bad case of yellow fever meaning I love the Asian women. Its really fucked up when I'm trying to hookup with one and they tell you straight out that they don't "date Black men". I'm not a cheap ass, I got doe and have no problem spending to get what I want. But it seems that a few bad experiences have fucked it up for the rest of us.

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this thread is WAYYYYYYYYYYYYY before my tenure on HA but I gotta say that I used to think this was true. Now in '05 you'd be amazed how these broads throw themselves at a man regardless of his nationality at the parties.......................

This Subject has been ouch on on several occasions ...

I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some
2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..
3.Black men will Rob or rape you

All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

Hung angel who loves black men ^^^^^^^^^^^

yes, I've noticed the way the ladies seem to congregate around JWBL. I think the title of this thread is out of touch with the real world.

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that shit has always made me laugh, 90% of these guys ain't in condition to rape or rob anyone after they get bottomed, LMAO

props to Aniyah for making me laugh with the "YES TYPICAL and IGNORANT" stereotypes some simpletons have in their heads

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<<<<<HUNG ANGELS WHO LOVES BLACK MEN

This Subject has been ouch on on several occasions ...

I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some
2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..
3.Black men will Rob or rape you

All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

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That picture of you is so damn sexy.

This isn't a TS issue, it's an escort issue.

Lot's of escorts refuse to see black men.

Even a lot of black girls.

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Originally Posted by Danny partridge

This isn't a TS issue, it's an escort issue.

Lot's of escorts refuse to see black men.

Even a lot of black girls.

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There are many who will so who cares about the ones who don't.

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That picture of you is so damn sexy.

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ISNT IT ITS ONE OF MY FAVESSSS 8)

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Originally Posted by Shalaya

Well I only date blk guys

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Good girl.

LOL

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Originally Posted by ANIYAH

<<<<<HUNG ANGELS WHO LOVES BLACK MEN

This Subject has been ouch on on several occasions ...

I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some
2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..
3.Black men will Rob or rape you

All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

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LOL, ROB OR RAPE AND THIS IS COMING FROM A BLACKGIRL, ITS A DAMN SHAME WHEN BLACK PEOPLE STEREOTYPE THERE OWN COLOR!!!!

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LOL, ROB OR RAPE AND THIS IS COMING FROM A BLACKGIRL, ITS A DAMN SHAME WHEN BLACK PEOPLE STEREOTYPE THERE OWN COLOR!!!!

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Im hoping that ur not under the impression that i am sterotyping my own people ...???I am stating how others feel .....And Yes Internalized Opression is a big issue in society ? But i don believe in those sterotypes so please dont come at me like that hun

man read the whole post before you try to crack jokes

damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

she used it as an example of what dumb muhfuckas say about Black men

Thanks johnny i was gonna say it like that ..But I was being nice Lol

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Well I only date blk guys

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Good girl.

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I guess racism is only wrong if you're the one being discriminated against.

Im sorry aniyah i misread your post,your right those stereotypes are ridiciouls when did girls start thinking like that?

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Im sorry aniyah i misread your post,your right those stereotypes are ridiciouls when did girls start thinking like that?

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Im mad at you now you hurt my feelings :(

But i feel these sterotypes are influenced by the media ...And how u typically seeing black people on Tv taking part in violent crimes ..

And also the "Badseeds" who make it bad for he other dudes ..The ghetto ones that call you and try to negoitate .or the guy who wants to argue his money back cause u suck his dick for and hour and he didnt cum, Or the Black guy or always calling and offering 50 bucks ..Its those dudes who make it bad for other black men cause all of the above is what these girls are expecting ...so they rather not deal with that ...and indefense the racially profile black men

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Im sorry aniyah i misread your post,your right those stereotypes are ridiciouls when did girls start thinking like that?

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Im mad at you now you hurt my feelings :(

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Im really sorry, i have too stop scanning through posts and really read them, i know you would never say crap like that!

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I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some.

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I disagree. There are white, hispanic, asian, middle eastern men etc. who requires too much work as much as black men. Its case to case basis.

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2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..

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Thats not so true. There are other folks of different ethnicities who are also of that mentality. Not just prevalent to African American men. The thing is a meeting should NOT be built on "pressure" to "BUST" as many nuts one can within a given session..but should be about having a nice time "TOGETHER". If that is the "Mentality" of most brotha's or any men in general.. I wouldnt be surprised why some trannies or women wouldnt wanna kick it with a brother or said type of guys. Women and tgirls can vibe them right off the bat.

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Again, Not true. The probability of that happening is the same as with any other ethnicities. Races/ethnicities cant be drawn in generalization. Maybe alot of people do "THINK" that way..but thats too much assumption on their part. It should always be on "a case to case basis".

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All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

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The last statement I agree however because that is true. ANIYAH made very good strong points.

~Kisses.

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Originally Posted by ANIYAH

I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some.

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I disagree. There are white, hispanic, asian, middle eastern men etc. who requires too much work as much as black men. Its case to case basis.

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Originally Posted by ANIYAH

2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..

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Thats not so true. There are other folks of different ethnicities who are also of that mentality. Not just prevalent to African American men. The thing is a meeting should NOT be built on "pressure" to "BUST" as many nuts one can within a given session..but should be about having a nice time "TOGETHER". If that is the "Mentality" of most brotha's or any men in general.. I wouldnt be surprised why some trannies or women wouldnt wanna kick it with a brother or said type of guys. Women and tgirls can vibe them right off the bat.

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Originally Posted by ANIYAH

3.Black men will Rob or rape you

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Again, Not true. The probability of that happening is the same as with any other ethnicities. Races/ethnicities cant be drawn in generalization. Maybe alot of people do "THINK" that way..but thats too much assumption on their part. It should always be on "a case to case basis".

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All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

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The last statement I agree however because that is true.

~Kisses.

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I read on another board you prefer white guys.

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I read on another board you prefer white guys.

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Thats true..OPERATIVE WORD "Prefer" tho I didnt say "Exclusive" did I? LOL.

~Kisses.

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ANIYAH wrote:
I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some.


I disagree. There are white, hispanic, asian, middle eastern men etc. who requires too much work as much as black men. Its case to case basis.

ANIYAH wrote:
2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..


Thats not so true. There are other folks of different ethnicities who are also of that mentality. Not just prevalent to African American men. The thing is a meeting should NOT be built on "pressure" to "BUST" as many nuts one can within a given session..but should be about having a nice time "TOGETHER". If that is the "Mentality" of most brotha's or any men in general.. I wouldnt be surprised why some trannies or women wouldnt wanna kick it with a brother or said type of guys. Women and tgirls can vibe them right off the bat.

ANIYAH wrote:
3.Black men will Rob or rape you


Again, Not true. The probability of that happening is the same as with any other ethnicities. Races/ethnicities cant be drawn in generalization. Maybe alot of people do "THINK" that way..but thats too much assumption on their part. It should always be on "a case to case basis".

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All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

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Umm sis all you did was explain what i said over and more indepth ...That comment wasnt to diagree or agree with anything i said ...Like i said these are sterotypes that are ridulous !!!!

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Thats true..OPERATIVE WORD "Prefer" tho I didnt say "Exclusive" did I? LOL.

~Kisses.

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Prefer or exclusive if you had a choice it would be....?

ANIYAH sis..Yes..Thats what I did. LOL. And I agree how you see it or your point of views.;)

~Kisses.

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ANIYAH sis..Yes..Thats what I did. LOL. And I agree how you see it or your point of views.

~Kisses.

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Thanks 8)

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I prefer 1st and foremost that I am into him. If that makes sense? Makes the end result rather pleasurable for both. I cant say "Exclusive" as my taste varies by my daily moods.

Race is non issue. The reason why I said I "Prefer" is because Im being realistic. We all have our preferences in everything from our food, clothes etc. We all got good and bad experiences to affect our decision making. Like some guys "prefer" hispanic, black and or white transexuals over asians. Im not offended by it at all. Ive actually "dated" a brotha before (5 years ago)..Though I didnt like his attitude..That didnt deter me to see any brotha's I find attractive. Again, Attractiveness/beauty is in the eye of a beholder. Sometimes, what others find hot and or attractive I dont find attractive or vice versa.

~Kisses.

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Aniyah, I don't know if this was a typo or intentional, but LOL @ "well in doubt" instead of "well endowed"!

Anyway, excellent points. I think everyone is entitled to his/her own preferences, which isn't the same thing as discrimination: Shalaya is entitled to date only black men (sigh for the rest of us, but hey, it's cool) just as HTG is entitled to prefer white guys (though she clearly states "not exclusive"). Personally, I prefer beautiful sexy tgirls who like to have a good time with their partners, whether a client or a boyfriend. ;)

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Prefer or exclusive if you had a choice it would be....?

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I prefer 1st and foremost that I am into him. If that makes sense? Makes the end result rather pleasurable for both. I cant say "Exclusive" as my taste varies by my daily moods.

Race is non issue. The reason why I said I "Prefer" is because Im being realistic. We all have our preferences in everything from our food, clothes etc. We all got good and bad experiences to affect our decision making. Like some guys "prefer" hispanic, black and or white transexuals over asians. Im not offended by it at all. Ive actually "dated" a brotha before (5 years ago)..Though I didnt like his attitude..That didnt deter me to see any brotha's I find attractive. Again, Attractiveness/beauty is in the eye of a beholder. Sometimes, what others find hot and or attractive I dont find attractive or vice versa.

~Kisses.

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It wasn't meant to be a shade. I

the girls most definitely try to weed out the black guys. its pretty hard to get a straight answer as to why (as it can be hard to get straight answers from many escorts).

JWB you're a fixture now. They trust you. I think that that is the deal there.

so what's the deal? ignorance i guess.

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1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some

Aniyah, I don't know if this was a typo or intentional, but LOL @ "well in doubt" instead of "well endowed"!

Thats was a typo that is what i meant im sorry

I know Bridashead. I didnt think of your Q as a SHADE. I think Ive answered your question in an HONEST manner. I dont think preference is a bad thing. Like I prefer my burgers "Well done" or prefer not to eat "Raw" food like sushi. Its like asking me.."Do you prefer a cock to be cut or uncut?" Id say I prefer cut. But will a guy with a cute face a nice bod and an uncut cock stop me? Ofcourse the answer will be NO! LOL. Im sure you dont go for balding, 300lbs trannies? Now would you? LOL.

So lemme ask you this then Brideshead..

Would you do a transvestite/crossdresser who works during the day as a man and who dresses up on at night? Or would you prefer a transexual (TS..been on hormones, got nice hips, round ass, smooth legs, little tits, real long hair etc) who lives 24/7 in and out of the house as a woman?

Which would you prefer?

:D :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

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I know Bridashead. I didnt think of your Q as a SHADE. I think Ive answered your question in an HONEST manner. I dont think preference is a bad thing. Like I prefer my burgers "Well done" or prefer not to eat "Raw" food like sushi. Its like asking me.."Do you prefer a cock to be cut or uncut?" Id say I prefer cut. But will a guy with a cute face a nice bod and an uncut cock stop me? Ofcourse the answer will be NO! LOL. Im sure you dont go for balding, 300lbs trannies? Now would you? LOL.

So lemme ask you this then Brideshead..

Would you do a transvestite/crossdresser who works during the day as a man and who dresses up on at night? Or would you prefer a transexual (TS..been on hormones, got nice hips, round ass, smooth legs, little tits, real long hair etc) who lives 24/7 in and out of the house as a woman?

Which would you prefer?

:D :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

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The TS hands down.