why is it that girls i do like and am really nice to dont like me back...but girls i dont like and act like an asshole to always try to flirt with me.... :lol:
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why is it that girls i do like and am really nice to dont like me back...but girls i dont like and act like an asshole to always try to flirt with me.... :lol:
Ts are complicated in different ways that GGs
You should have specified the title a bit more to read: " American GGs "
youre kidding right???
Women don't like "nice" guys, despite what they say. They do want men who are decent and good and will usually marry these men, but they also like a guy who's a little bit of a challenge and not always available for them. You need to make them work a little and not kiss their ass to make them like you. Be a good person but not the kind of nice guy who wants to buy them drinks, take them out to restaurants, begs for dates, buys presents and always compliments them even when they have a bad hair day.Quote:
Originally Posted by LilWyte
You need to be flirty and a bit of a tease, but not necessarily a jerk. It's possible to be a good person and yet popular with girls. But if you're too nice all you'll ever get is the LJBF speech ("let's just be friends"). You'll end up throwing away your money on drinks, gift and dinners and she will run off with the first guy who's a challenge (which will usually be an asshole) and then come crying to you if he leaves her. Congratulations! You are now officially in the friend zone. I've been there buddy, and it's not pleasant. What's more it's almost impossible to escape.
Be a good man, respectful when appropriate but never supplicating. Don't take shit from anyone and show the girls that you're not so easy to conquer and they will respect you and want you more.
Don't be an asshole because it gives us all a bad name, but don't be a supplicating doormat either, because you will get your heart broken.
As for Tgirls being complicated, I'd say they are but, as Jennifer said, in different ways. You have to remember, they have been through a lot in their lives and we are all shaped by our experiences as well as how people behave towards us. That is why one should never be bitter about relationships that may or may not have happened.
They are more complicated than GG's, but ALOT less annoying.
As some one has already said because you were too nice.Quote:
Originally Posted by LilWyte
No girl want's a fish that jumps in her boat.
So try to be a dick if you can.
That being said your average TS girls sex drive is significantly stronger than your average GG's. So in the long run they are more passionate and fun.
lmao at all the misinformation in this thread
:lol: Okay, but why don't you enlighten us?Quote:
Originally Posted by tsntx
I for one think I gave him pretty good advice as far GGs are concerned.
this has stumped guys since the caveman daysQuote:
Originally Posted by LilWyte
^ this is the truth Lilwyte...im guessing its that feeling they get when they make someone hard and then can sleep like a baby afterwards and act like nothing happened. Who truly knowsQuote:
Originally Posted by flabbybody
it's simple ts, gg love assholes i had more than a few girls say they want me to be .. in few words an asshole to them yell at them , put them in there place , tell them they don't know shyt , make them feel like a dumb lil girl . for some reason they all like some lvl of that . as soon as a male act's nice then they think he is weak , soft, a pussy & no female want's a pussy .. aka a nice guy no matter what they sayQuote:
Originally Posted by LilWyte
130 pages of club kid faggotry tells me that no guy on here wants a pussy either when theres so many faggots in lip gloss running aroundQuote:
Originally Posted by puller
oh well whenever this shit bugs me i just remember that i gotta huge dick and everything seems much better 8)
129 get your shit right lol.... :DQuote:
Originally Posted by tsntx
damn i can get a girl easy but Ts girls are a headache. thats what i think. they dont show no love back. they are confused and complicated. i still love em tho
Because bitches likes the attention? lol I recall Johnny to had have the same problem. The more you ignore 'em the more they bug ya! :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by LilWyte
Something that turns them on about being rejected..masochist bitches!!
~Kisses.
HTG
LOL, It makes me wonder what the guys who follow your advice can expect in return. A good fuck maybe, or have the girls got more to bring to the party :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by LG
Wait, how can you get hard with someone you don't even like to begin with? Elaborate your above statement please.. lolQuote:
Originally Posted by ef9hatchman
~Kisses.
HTG
ts are not complicated like gg, they are more complicated!! trust me
THATS the spiritQuote:
Originally Posted by LilWyte
As much as i adore generalizations, this is not something that can be so easily figured out.
There are simple bitches with and without dicks all over the world. They cant hold meaningful conversation, and have a minimal sence of self.
Then theres women like myself and Maya Angelou 8)
We take in life as it comes, and try to find significant meaning in things and people. Our thoughts very often manifest themselves in high art and abstract language meant to stir the souls of others.
...Most of the globe fits somewhere in between.
overall, are men less selfobsessed?Quote:
Originally Posted by the_equalizer
do they usually use women for much more than sex and/or security?
ok. thanks for enlightening me..and the rest of us.
It depends on the person as stated before by the beautiful Alyssa ;)
There are simple bitches with and without dicks all over the world. They cant hold meaningful conversation, and have a minimal sence of self
theres was no bubble to burst. i dont think men are anything -overall.
i'm not damaged goods.. yet.
uh, whatever it is that burns most young women.
their :wink:Quote:
Originally Posted by the_equalizer
I love it when muppets think that being an 'asshole' gets women and they must act like one. Well guess what lads you are born to be an asshole , plastic assholes are muppets and girls can see right through it. You are right hard men do better with women. I know a guy doing a 5 stretch for violence and his missus is completely loyal despite the fact he knocks the shite out of her when he is out and at the moment who is fucking his shrink in there.But girly men are boring, and boring men get dumped. Every woman wants a rough diamond . They like the excitement , the drama they like feeling their man is desired by other women.
I'm not too sure about 'players' though. They get loads of pussy but in my experience they can't keep the pussy. I would say any guy can man up when in relationships but please don't overcompensate because you are a desk jockey and the most excitement you have all day is when someone pushes in ,in the sandwich line because it will all end in tears.
Would you care to elaborate on that one? I speak from experience, having gone through a lot of heartache before learning that what women want and what they say they want are two different things. I've been in and out of relationships, chased a few lost causes, spoken with female and male friends about this and changed my outlook a great deal. I came to realise that the kind of man I am now is who I was meant to be, before society taught and my own parents taught me that all women want is a man who will be nice to them and buy them chocolates.Quote:
Originally Posted by JamesHunt
I am not asshole and have never hurt a woman intentionally. But I'm not a wimp who acts all nice in the hope of getting into her pants, either.
What would your advice be?
I wouldn't agree with I like ts girls and ggs not interested in club kids or cross dressers. I know some people think when you have your first experience with a TSgirl then you never go back to pussy but no way, much as I like being with TSgirls you can't beat the feeling of slipping into nice wet pussy.Quote:
Originally Posted by tsntx
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Originally Posted by LG
LG my friend, I am just a philosophical observer. Nothing more, nothing less. Like a lot of women stereotype men as assholes who are only interested in sex, a lot of men stereotype attractive women as mind fucks, cos their thinking with their dick, even your animalistic coucil estate strumpet can tune in on this. There is much more difference between certain types of characters than gender.
Unfortunately Alyssa, based on my personal experiences with women, I believe you are the minority intellectually. Significant meaning, deep conversation, abstract thought, etc seemed to be a lost art these days, regardless of gender. As a whole, the reality show generation is brainless and superficial. And this is coming from a person who would consider himself a positive person.Quote:
Originally Posted by Alyssa87
more complicated :frustrated
However... judging by the popularity of the clubkids thread, followed by the popularlity of the sissy/tv/cd threads... I would say that you might be in the minority here. There are simply too many thread views, too many posts, by too many different posters to say "most guys here care about whether someone is TS."Quote:
Originally Posted by Transhunter
IMHO the concept of the clubkids thread I have no objections with. Sounds like a rational idea: "thread for clubkids who would make good, passable, attractive tgirls IF they were trans & transitioned."
Hmm, yet there is another thread here. One about "GG's that would make good, passable, attractive tgirls IF they had a cock" yet that thread has almost no interest, comparatively. Which says something in itself I would imagine. But, it could be that the reason why the former has more interest than the later... is because the later is absurd (no GG is going to wake up tomorrow with a 9 inch functional cock), whereas some (not all, but some) clubkids ARE trans, and HAVE transitioned. Maybe the "fantasy" if you will, needs (in addition of being a bit pedophilic in nature) a sense of realism that "GGs that would make good tgirls" fails to provide.
Per the OP, I am inclined on face value to agree with Celeste.
well younger girls are just headcases but the ggs ive dated over 30 are cool as hell. ive had mindfuck tgs and ive had ones that were great to deal with.
so the persons sex doesnt matter but there emotional handicaps do.
some tgirls are and some tgirls are great and i love being with them and i suppose the same gos for us guys
Ha..Ha...Ha.. that's funny!!Quote:
Originally Posted by baileyandkc
I wouldn't say that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Celeste
For one TS girls don't have a "bitch shield" and what you do have is just a method of self defense from men who want to take advantage of you. GG's bitch shield has nothing to do with men, it has to do about the GG protecting her self from her best friends and the rumors she will spread.
To quote an old friend, "There is nothing that I can say or do that will hurt a woman as much as what her best friend hasn't already done and will continue to do."
That is to say, GG's are in a two front war while TS's for the most part are worried about horn dogs.
I don't need to read all the posts to know that girls are gurls. Ts or GG ... they are simple very complicated.