Are Transexuals emotionally Stable?

I'm not trying to put anyone down here or anything, but I was just kinda curious about the mental stability of some transexuals..

I know that a lot of them are are harmonal threapy and some more than others, but over the years I come to beleive that a lot of them are actually emotianally unstable..

I mean look as Danielle Fox and Yasmine Lee, as beautiful and fine as they both are when they posted on the boards regualarly even though I love when TS post on here, sometimes reading the crap that they dumped in here often times made me wonder were they emotionally stable? Not just them, but also from some of the my dealings with trannies, I come to beleive that they're just very emotionally unstable beings, and most don't even have a clue about what they really want out of life, or it changes every day!

Some talk about chopping their dycks off on day and enjoying being a top the next?

What are your thoughts in reguards to this subject?

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Originally Posted by drock

What are your thoughts in reguards to this subject?

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1/ Spell check? Dyck ?

2/ Qualify "mentally unstable". Are you mentally stable or unstable and why?

3/ Are gay people/fat people/white people/newreaders/teletubbies/private school children/McDonalds eaters/etc. Mentally unstable?

That's my thoughts.

seanchai

PS not saying this to be obtuse (apart from point 1) but your question, really is a bit strange and not thought out too well.

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Originally Posted by seanchai

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Originally Posted by drock

What are your thoughts in reguards to this subject?

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1/ Spell check? Dyck ?

2/ Qualify "mentally unstable". Are you mentally stable or unstable and why?

3/ Are gay people/fat people/white people/newreaders/teletubbies/private school children/McDonalds eaters/etc. Mentally unstable.

That's my thoughts.

seanchai

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Now if I were in a English class then I would have used a I instead of a Y, but since i'm not and it's a message board, who cares.. ==

I dont think its that we are mentally unstable but rather that some of us have seen allot of things or experienced alot of things that no one should ever experience or shouldnt have to experience....When I say this I mean that transexual women or transexual people are not mentally unstable by nature like as if they were born emotinally unstable...

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Originally Posted by Luna555

I dont think its that we are mentally unstable but rather that some of us have seen allot of things or experienced alot of things that no one should ever experience or shouldnt have to experience....When I say this I mean that transexual women or transexual people are not mentally unstable by nature like as if they were born emotinally unstable...

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Well perhaps you weren't born this way by nature, but it could be a manifestation of the lifestlye and side effects of drugs you think?

By the way you're a cutie Luna555!

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Originally Posted by drock

I'm not trying to put anyone down here or anything, but I was just kinda curious about the mental stability of some transexuals..

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Ask Kelly.

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Originally Posted by xfiver

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Originally Posted by drock

I'm not trying to put anyone down here or anything, but I was just kinda curious about the mental stability of some transexuals..

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Ask Kelly.

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LOL she's another head case from what I gather.. :)

And about the wanting to chop one day and enjoying to top and wanting to keep it the next well I think that alot of girls including myself sometimes like themselves and feel okay some days but then other days they dont and want to be accepted by society for who they are women.

I have changed alot since when I first transitioned when I was 15. I went from haitng my penis, my body, and being trans, never wanting to have sex, never wanting to be have a guy touch me let alone please me in a sexual manner that included my penis, and wanting to have SRS as soon as possible heck I was going to get it this year then I went to accepting myself, enjoying my penis, feeling it was possible to live and be happy, not wanting SRS,

Sometimes it is tempting to want SRS, it not because I dont like my penis one day or liek it the next, for me it has to do with feeling like if I didnt have a penis I woudlnt have to go thru some of the things I go thru because of it...also I wanted to get SRS before because I wanted everyone to accept me and see me as who I am a woman...but I already knew I was and I have always been so doing it for others was not a good reason to do it...still I think about it and say to myself maybe I could be happier if i got SRS.

Sorry for teh mispelling I am really tired and its really late.

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Originally Posted by drock

By the way you're a cutie Luna555!

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Thanks :)

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Originally Posted by seanchai

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Originally Posted by drock

What are your thoughts in reguards to this subject?

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1/ Spell check? Dyck ?

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Now if I were in a English class then I would have used a I instead of a Y, but since i'm not and it's a message board, who cares.. ==

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So does that make Drock, mentally unstable? Or merely a spacker? Surely, an I is as easy to type as a Y?

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Originally Posted by seanchai

So does that make Drock, mentally unstable? Or merely a spacker? Surely, an I is as easy to type as a Y?

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So seanCHAI, does, your, drunk, posting, make you, notice, spelling errors, ?

But, not, grammar, ?

(as long as we are posting for the sole purpose of berating people's typing faux paus)

You not only generalize most girls as unstable base on the fact that they might want SRS but that attitude that you know all about them and deem them as unstable base on a couple of posts is absurd.

Everyone changes and most don't know what they want in life it's not just transwomen.

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Originally Posted by xfiver

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Originally Posted by seanchai

So does that make Drock, mentally unstable? Or merely a spacker? Surely, an I is as easy to type as a Y?

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So seanCHAI, does, your, drunk, posting, make you, notice, spelling errors, ?

But, not, grammar, ?

(as long as we are posting for the sole purpose of berating people's typing faux paus)

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Nope - my original posting had a point and bad grammer should have been corrected. Drock's original questions and posting although, "not trying to put anyone down, or anything" seems pretty insulting and as I stated, not thought out.
Bad grammer is one thing, incorrectly spelling every 3rd or 4th word, including four letter words another.

seanchai

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Originally Posted by Legend

You not only generalize most girls as unstable base on the fact that they might want SRS but that attitude that you know all about them and deem them as unstable base on a couple of posts is absurd.

Everyone changes and most don't know what they want in life it's not just transwomen.

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huh?

You want to know about mentally unstable? I'm married to a menopausal GG. Come over and spend an hour. You'll never have to ask questions about such things again.

lol TJT. they don't necessarily need to be menopousal to be out of their minds. I always know when my gg supervisor at work is having that monthly thing, cause she acts like a fucking idiot towards everyone. gimmie a tgirl with the SRS hangups any day.
of coures, I fully admit us guys can be assholes at times too.

you wanna talk about stable?? lets talk about the guys that on average are interested in trannies...

-married
-liars
-crossdressers
-odd fetishes
-see women of any form as objects
-ashamed
-self hatred

yeah theres a list of qualities right there that makes you not only emotionally unstable, but mentally as well.

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Originally Posted by tsntx

you wanna talk about stable?? lets talk about the guys that on average are interested in trannies...

-married
-liars
-crossdressers
-odd fetishes
-see women of any form as objects
-ashamed
-self hatred

yeah theres a list of qualities right there that makes you not only emotionally unstable, but mentally as well.

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A good point, because some guys might have some of those characteristics.

Just looking down that list, comparing it to me (and probably the majority of guys here)...

Married? No, I'm not.
Liar? Well, I was always been told that honesty is the best policy and have always believed in that. I may be a little bit secretive, but I don't lie.
Crossdresser? Umm, no. Never.
Odd fetishes? Does fancying transsexuals count as a fetish? Because other than that, I'm sexually pretty normal (I don't jerk off into shoes or get my jollies from asking people to fart in my face). I wouldn't say my admiration for transgirls is odd, just a little offbeat. So, strike that one out too.
Seeing women as objects? No. Growing up with a sister taught me that women should be respected, loved and protected.
Ashamed? Only of not doing enough to help people who may have needed my help. That's why I try to be more active in society nowadays.
Self hatred? Not really. I kind of like myself most of the time. I get angry at myself when I make a mistake, but I don't hate myself.

True, some guys are assholes or pathological liars. I have no time or respect for them. Some guys aren't emotionally stable, but neither are some women and some transwomen. I think that the ratio or percentage is just about the same in every case.

That said, some girls and transgirls have been badly treated by guys or have met their fair share of jerks and thus tend to become a little angry at the world, suspicious of men and maybe a little introverted. It's not their fault.

There are assholes everywhere. I don't think it's good to generalise about men, women or transsexuals. Each person is different.

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Originally Posted by tsntx

you wanna talk about stable?? lets talk about the guys that on average are interested in trannies...

-married
-liars
-crossdressers
-odd fetishes
-see women of any form as objects
-ashamed
-self hatred

yeah theres a list of qualities right there that makes you not only emotionally unstable, but mentally as well.

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Define "odd"... :?

You can't go off someone's sanity or stability off a message board or a video! And definitely not rumors. You have to actually know the person in life.

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

You can't go off someone's sanity or stability off a message board

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That's not exactly true. In the case of "blackmagic", for example, it was fairly clear that he was unstable based on the incoherent ramblings he posted, giving insight into the chaos that was (and is) his mind.

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

You can't go off someone's sanity or stability off a message board or a video! And definitely not rumors. You have to actually know the person in life.

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I don't even know where to begin on THAT one!

Can I poop on your face after eating 20 orders of taco bell nachos with extra cheese sauce?

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You can't go off someone's sanity or stability off a message board or a video! And definitely not rumors. You have to actually know the person in life.

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I don't even know where to begin on THAT one!

Can I poop on your face after eating 20 orders of taco bell nachos with extra cheese sauce?

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ah the irony

Do you even know Blackmagic. How do you know he isn't doing it to be funny or for attention? FOR ENTERTAINMENT?

Xfiver you are joke

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Do you even know Blackmagic. How do you know he isn't doing it to be funny or for attention? FOR ENTERTAINMENT?

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If I run into a crowd, pull out a kitana and hack my arm off because I think it would be funny to see their reaction... I will get definitely get attention, and I might be entertained by the spectacle, but I will regardless have to be insane.

It's cool to give people the benefit of the doubt Kelly, but sometimes, it is what it is. Blackmagic's a damned nut, and there's plenty of evidence to prove it.

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Do you even know Blackmagic. How do you know he isn't doing it to be funny or for attention? FOR ENTERTAINMENT?

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If I run into a crowd, pull out a kitana and hack my arm off because I think it would be funny to see their reaction... I will get definitely get attention, and I might be entertained by the spectacle, but I will regardless have to be insane.

It's cool to give people the benefit of the doubt Kelly, but sometimes, it is what it is. Blackmagic's a damned nut, and there's plenty of evidence to prove it.

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To be honest I stopped paying attention to him, after he made the thread about his moobs. So I have no idea what he is about etc.

-married: haven't put a ring on any broad yet (including Giselle)
-liars: I find telling someone the truth to be much more hurtful at times
-crossdressers: Jen if you EVER see me on cam in anything feminine shoot me, seriously, I can say that because it'll never happen
-odd fetishes: hey I like older women.................go figure
-see women of any form as objects: I'm around women that treat me as a sex object daily.....................so no
-ashamed: I'm not ashamed of being around good looking transsexuals
-self hatred: I hate that I'm so nice to losers, so there might be truth to this

hehehe

to answer the OP: dude there are VERY FEW people on this planet that are 'emotionally stable' I respect your attempt to ask what you thought was a reasonable question to ask, even though you got attacked for asking it. With that out of the way I'd tell you simply 'no, they aren't' and if you happen to be around a bunch that are (usually my situation) to just walk away from that set of individuals.

My observation: with everything transsexuals go through – and let's face it, that is a lot – they seem to either wind up being raving lunatics or incredibly together. For what ever reason, there just doesn’t seem to be much of a middle ground the way there is with most communities and subcultures. :2cent

-Quinn

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Originally Posted by JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel

-married: haven't put a ring on any broad yet (including Giselle)
-liars: I find telling someone the truth to be much more hurtful at times
-crossdressers: Jen if you EVER see me on cam in anything feminine shoot me, seriously, I can say that because it'll never happen
-odd fetishes: hey I like older women.................go figure
-see women of any form as objects: I'm around women that treat me as a sex object daily.....................so no
-ashamed: I'm not ashamed of being around good looking transsexuals
-self hatred: I hate that I'm so nice to losers, so there might be truth to this

hehehe

to answer the OP: dude there are VERY FEW people on this planet that are 'emotionally stable' I respect your attempt to ask what you thought was a reasonable question to ask, even though you got attacked for asking it. With that out of the way I'd tell you simply 'no, they aren't' and if you happen to be around a bunch that are (usually my situation) to just walk away from that set of individuals.

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Johnny are you going to meet up with me when I come to New York this summer to see James??

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

You can't go off someone's sanity or stability off a message board or a video! And definitely not rumors. You have to actually know the person in life.

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True! On a forum, I come across as sane and rational, but in real life I'm a gibbering nutter. :lol:

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

To be honest I stopped paying attention to him, after he made the thread about his moobs. So I have no idea what he is about etc.

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So then why the fuck are you defending him? You've now succeeded in wasting my time yet again, having me go into an explanation of something that you never gave a shit about anyway! Curse you, Kelly Shore! :evil:

i said ON AVERAGE... not every guy that likes trannies is a basket case, but most are... just like not every tranny is a nutjob... but usually when they are... its all the dumbass guys she met that made her that way ;)

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Originally Posted by JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel

-married: haven't put a ring on any broad yet (including Giselle)
-liars: I find telling someone the truth to be much more hurtful at times
-crossdressers: Jen if you EVER see me on cam in anything feminine shoot me, seriously, I can say that because it'll never happen
-odd fetishes: hey I like older women.................go figure
-see women of any form as objects: I'm around women that treat me as a sex object daily.....................so no
-ashamed: I'm not ashamed of being around good looking transsexuals
-self hatred: I hate that I'm so nice to losers, so there might be truth to this

hehehe

to answer the OP: dude there are VERY FEW people on this planet that are 'emotionally stable' I respect your attempt to ask what you thought was a reasonable question to ask, even though you got attacked for asking it. With that out of the way I'd tell you simply 'no, they aren't' and if you happen to be around a bunch that are (usually my situation) to just walk away from that set of individuals.

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Johnny are you going to meet up with me when I come to New York this summer to see James??

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Ummmmmmmmmm who the fuck is James?
and ummmmmm, iono Kelly I still don't know what you look like

This post hints of ts discrimination BUT I have to admit that I can see where the poster is coming from. NO, I don't think that all TS women are crazy but being around mant TS women I have found that there are many emotionally unstable TS women. I have talked with many TS women that openly will discuss about the high number of unstable girls in thier circle of friends.

For me, one of the pluses in finding a TS woman that is not 'unstable' is one of the better blessings of having a good girl. I cherish that aspect of most of the girls that I have been serious with.

I may be inclined to think that being unstable can run in higher occurences among these women. That is not to demean these women, I ain't waled in thier shoes and I am very sure that the struggles that comes with being born the wrong gender take a toll on most emotionally.

In fact, i find myself giving transwomen a little more room to be extra emotional. I'll give a transwoman a little more wiggle room when in relationships just because of my respect for the struggle that they go through. I also find that with the emotional stuggles comes other positives that can outweigh the negative.

Some of the best loving that I have recieved (not talking physical loving) has come from women that were a little more emotional. Love is an emotion, and some emotionally conflicted women (GG or trans) can be great and committed girlfriends because they bring more to the table.

So while it can come off as dissing transwomen for me it is not.

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Originally Posted by drock

Now if I were in a English class then I would have used a I instead of a Y, but since i'm not and it's a message board, who cares.. ==

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I do for one, because firstly it let's me know what kind of mental state you are in, and shows off your personality a little. You can mistype words to show off your sense of humor, but if trying to address a serious topic (like you did) I think being a little more formal would help.

If you can still show reason why I shouldn't feel the way I do (i.e. care) please reply to my post and direct the comments to me sir.

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Originally Posted by Ecstatic

True! On a forum, I come across as sane and rational, but in real life I'm a gibbering nutter. :lol:

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But you're sexy so... :wink:

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-ashamed: I'm not ashamed of being around good looking transsexuals

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I go you one better, Johnny: I'm not ashamed of being around transsexuals, period. (Of course, I do rather prefer the good looking ones....)

Me:

-married: Yep, 26 years and 9 days. (Good thing my wife understands me....)
-liars: I try not to, though some circumstances call for either a white lie or a lie of omission
-crossdressers: a handful of times when I was younger I tried on women's clothes, but that's all
-odd fetishes: What's odd about dressing up as Huckleberry Hound and running down Main St at 10pm spanking the monkey?! :twisted:
-see women of any form as objects: only when they want to be, heh
-ashamed: See above
-self hatred: nope. Pissed at myself for doing something stupid, sure.

seeing as this is the latest fad

-married: no and not planning on becoming any time soon
-liars: not about anything that is remotely important
-crossdressers: christ no
-odd fetishes: considering the amount of milf porns you see these days i wouldnt call it odd... mild foot fetishes also seem to be very common
-see women of any form as objects: i grew up with a strong mom so... no
-ashamed: im kinda overweight despite that most will tell me im not when they hear the numbers... so as far as that goes yes... other than that... no
-self hatred: often but i dont think in the sense youre refering to... eg right now im hating myself (yet again) for not doing stuff that really needs to be done