I told my mother about Jennifer --

yup --after eight months of hiding the truth ---I told my mom that Jennifer was born a male ----I dunno --I have mixed feelings on this major decision --

I just don't know -----Jennifer was upset the last time the subject came up ---and I dunno ---I finally did it ---

I guess my mother's reaction was/is as expected (then again --ANY reaction could be expected)

but I even said to my mom "you seem different toward me now"

she flat out said back "Lee --you ARE different now"

I dunno ---she isn't exactly being supportive ---in fact she said she is flat out embarassed --hurt --disgusted --and ashamed ----

I feel strange ---but I did it ---can't take it back ---

Maybe she needs more time to get use to the whole idea. I know if I would tell my mom something like that she also would have to take a lot of them and I admit even then I'm not sure she could accept it. I mean old mothers are old fashion when it comes to the girl you bring home I guess.

why would u tell ur mom about your girlfriend genetalia dude born female or male lol ur jus askin for it

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Originally Posted by dreamer

yup --after eight months of hiding the truth ---I told my mom that Jennifer was born a male ----I dunno --I have mixed feelings on this major decision --

I just don't know -----Jennifer was upset the last time the subject came up ---and I dunno ---I finally did it ---

I guess my mother's reaction was/is as expected (then again --ANY reaction could be expected)

but I even said to my mom "you seem different toward me now"

she flat out said back "Lee --you ARE different now"

I dunno ---she isn't exactly being supportive ---in fact she said she is flat out embarassed --hurt --disgusted --and ashamed ----

I feel strange ---but I did it ---can't take it back ---

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Does she know that you outted her to your mom?

I'd be pissed...

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why would u tell ur mom about your girlfriend genetalia dude born female or male lol ur jus askin for it

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Because he doesn't want his mom to have her own Crying Game moment?

Hmmm, I wonder if that was even a good idea. Lots of girls that I know would be really pissed off if you out them, especially to your mother. If your gf is cool with the fact that you told you mother, then everything will be cool. If she is not cool with the fact that you told you mother, then you have a whole other problem that you will have to deal with. Hope it all works out for you.

I think you did the right thing. you cant change who you love . I think you will find your relationship will become stronger and much happier now that that is out of the way.

um... didnt yall have a huge blow out breakup that train wrecked all over this forum like 2 or so months ago?

lame

Thought I should let everyone know i do did know about him tellin his mother. I honestly thought it would go better then it really did. She has seen pictures of me and has been wanting me to go out to dinner with her and go to her house for holidays. now that she knows ...she thinks i brain washed and tricked her little boy.

I'm with jen, is that the same girl(BabyFirefly4248) whom you recently broke up with because she was chating with "naked dudes".You are just now telling your mom, why would you tell her now when you broke up her that doesn't make sense.