Retard at the job?

I recently moved back home to Louisiana. I have had a lil trouble adjusting to New Orleans post katrina. It is so boring over here at times. There is nothing really to do over here. Life is different than what it was before the storm. There are a lot more crackheads. Shopping is limited. Not every store has opened back up. The nearest walmart is 30 minutes away The nightlife scene over here is ok. So to say the least I have been bored and going stir crazy.So in an effort to save my sanity and my waistline I got myself a job. Not looking to do anything too complicated I became a hostess at a restaurant. I have now been employed for three months. It is a sweet and sour kind of deal. I have learned I can function in the real world and It is possible to be somewhat normal. The attention is overwhelming. The male attention is really quite flattering. Like in any restaurant we have a few distinctive homos Whom I love and get along very well with. So eventually in a hush hush kind of way Everyone knew I was transgendered. They were all still very polite and the attention never diminished. But I find that for the simplest of things they have to check up on me simple lil rotation stuff. They treat me like I am mentally defective but in a polite way. I find it humorous because some of these folks cant spell mental defective and here they are thinking that I am retarded. I am different not retarded is my point. I dont see how a few surgical enhancements affected my intelligence at all. I came into the situation with an open mind and learned that people think that trannies are mentally challenged. Which leaves me with 2 thoughts I still get a lot of sexual advances with them thinking I am retarded and all How many of you would fuck a retard? :lol: :lol: ( I just joking about that) but seriously does anyone else share this same view? Do people really perceive transgendered woman to be retarded?

I've fucked retards. Shit, even worse, I talk to retards. Go look in the P & R forum if you don't believe me.

At least your working and judging by the fact that you shop at Walmart, you're a good person. But seriously, you should leave that dump of a city and come to where nanny will watch over you, California. That or Las Vegas, though nanny isn't as strong in Vegas.

i do not percieve any to be retarded. perhaps they are just trying to be helpful. mind you are beautiful so perhaps they just wanna be able to get closer to you ;)
all i can suggest is ask them why they feel the need to keep doing so and tell them you feel uncomfortable with it

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Originally Posted by N.O.Kayla

So eventually in a hush hush kind of way Everyone knew I was transgendered. They were all still very polite and the attention never diminished. But I find that for the simplest of things they have to check up on me simple lil rotation stuff. They treat me like I am mentally defective but in a polite way. I find it humorous because some of these folks cant spell mental defective and here they are thinking that I am retarded. I am different not retarded is my point. I dont see how a few surgical enhancements affected my intelligence at all. I came into the situation with an open mind and learned that people think that trannies are mentally challenged. Which leaves me with 2 thoughts I still get a lot of sexual advances with them thinking I am retarded and all How many of you would fuck a retard? :lol: :lol: ( I just joking about that) but seriously does anyone else share this same view? Do people really perceive transgendered woman to be retarded?

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maybe they got all their ideas what a trannie is like from foolish talk-shows like jerry springer. just keep on doing your job well N.O. Kayla and the situation will change. its maybe the novelty effect they experience, to see a tgirl IN THE FLESH

and yeah, ure avatar is pretty pretty;)

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Originally Posted by N.O.Kayla

Do people really perceive transgendered woman to be retarded?

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Only a few, but not because they are transgendered. They're simply retarded, period!

how to fuck a retard

been saving that link for a while now

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Originally Posted by TFan

I've fucked retards. Shit, even worse, I talk to retards. Go look in the P & R forum if you don't believe me.

At least your working and judging by the fact that you shop at Walmart, you're a good person. But seriously, you should leave that dump of a city and come to where nanny will watch over you, California. That or Las Vegas, though nanny isn't as strong in Vegas.

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So because someone shops at walmart their a good person LOL yeah right.

you workin that place?deanies...dont worry about them bitches lookin at you funny-they dont understand and so they make fun..an them men fuck like dogs when no one is payin attention..fuck em..figuratively and literally...get your legit coins....ya herd me....

I've never experienced anyone acting like that toward me. I live totally out in the mainstream, I don't go flaunting it, but lots of people know I'm trans and nobody seems to care.

A lot of it is just the way women are treated. When I was about 6 months into my transition a couple of years ago a friend of mine came by to show off his new Corvette. Another guy friend was there and we all ended up out in the street looking at the car.

The guys were chatting away, like guys do, and essentially totally ignoring me. I wanted to add my 2 cents worth - seeing as how I have an AA DEGREE in automotive technology and can BUILD a car from scratch... Giggle.

But it suddenly occurred to me that they were treating me just like any other girl and everyone knows "girls don't know anything about cars..."

BTW Guys, if you are thinking of buying a Corvette to attract women. Don't. They don't attract women. They attract men who like Corvettes...

If you don't believe me take a look at who's at the next car show.

Giggle,
TS Jamie

I don't believe that people think you are retarded, they have probably never encountered a transsexual before, which makes them uncomfortable, therefore they treat you differently.

Do you have regular customers at this restaurant? Do they treat you normally? I would hope they would get over that initial shock and be ok.