Who else has had this struggle?

[Misterman1993]

Hey everyone, long time no see. I have a question I'd like to ask the men on here. Are you out about being into transwomen? I've been coming out little by little throughout the years and I was wondering if I was alone in this struggle.

[disnug]

It took me a while, (came out to everyone right at 2 years ago) but I haven't looked back.
The funny part is that NOBODY gave 2 shits about my lifestyle, change/ choice/ etc.

I lived my entire life worried that people would find out my secret, and I would be a pariah.
Nope!

I went on a trip to Vegas with my (now) GF, who is transgender.
I DID NOT care what people thought as I strolled through the Aria with the ABSOLUTE HOTTEST girl in the casino, on my arm. (TS or not)

I had an epiphany that weekend, and once I returned home, I decided to out myself.
To my wife (had already separated from previously) my family, and all my friends.

I introduced my GF to EVERYONE. My parents absolutely LOVE her.

LOL, other than a few of my friends (who might have a secret themselves with regards to TS) everyone loves and accepts her; although, none more than I.
Here we are 2 years later, and could not be happier!

Coming out is a scary thought, but, I am SO MUCH HAPPIER, that I can live an "authentic life" (thanks for coining the phrase Caitlyn Jenner)

You would be surprised at just how much energy you use leading a double life. It was killing me on the inside.

Will it work out the same way for you? I cannot say; however, I hope it will.

D.

[tacocorp]

Yes, I have no shame of being attracted to beautiful women. Only sad that I couldn't go pro thanks to the injury, It'd be fun if someone tried to blackmail me about the matter then.

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

Some of my friends know, but I'm a pretty private person. A lot of people who know me don't know my specific taste in GGs, much less TGs. I like what I like and that is that. I don't like people in my business but I am certainly comfortable with my interest in ladies with cocks.

[Ben in LA]

Yes and no.

[niceguy4ts]

I grew up in a small town where everyone knew me and was always worried what people thought of me. It took a some time but once I realized after many years is that I could no longer deny my attraction so I try dating sites and am very open about it. I don't out the trans ladies im with only if they want me to. Plus really I could care less about what other people think of me. Their comes a time where we stop living our lives on making other people like us. We only get one life and when im dying I don't want to be saying I should have lived my life. Its all our own lives and as long as we are not hurting anyone I say do what makes you happy. You don't want to be asking this same question to yourself many years from now. Plus transgender women are very smart and caring if you meet the right one.

[Misterman1993]

I've given up on love and now I'd rather travel the world and pay for sex. These stories are very uplifting. I just wish I could be a better man. Oh well brothels and whores are my thing now.

[SXFX]

all of the gorgeous TS women i've dated were very "passable"
actually i'm going to guess some of you may have jerked off to one of them ;)
ok sorry didn't mean to gloat ;)

That said i was on a date this past weekend with a gorgeous TS woman in her late 20's and we went out for sushi at a well lit well known location.....i don't care she's gorgeous.

as for my friends......hey they love me i love them...i accept them and they accept me.

[Kiwi_bloke]

Understandable question.

I like to tell people early on, partly to assess reactions.

The number of guys who come and ask very discreet questions later is illuminating.

[Kioji]

Hey everyone, long time no see. I have a question I'd like to ask the men on here. Are you out about being into transwomen? I've been coming out little by little throughout the years and I was wondering if I was alone in this struggle.

In some ways all of my close friends any pretty much any new person i meat as a friend knows if they ask about my sexuality at all sometimes it just comes up.
I guess my family doesn't 100% know but they know i watched or watch trans porn so i think it's a pretty simple equation
I'm also pretty liberal and fiercely pro-lgbt so people are never really surprised

[Kioji]

In some ways all of my close friends any pretty much any new person i meat as a friend knows if they ask about my sexuality at all sometimes it just comes up.
I guess my family doesn't 100% know but they know i watched or watch trans porn so i think it's a pretty simple equation
I'm also pretty liberal and fiercely pro-lgbt so people are never really surprised

I should note that many of my friends are under the queer umbrella so some of them think it's cool that i like trans women as well as cis women so i know it's not as easy for some others but for me it's easy to cut bigots off and not interact with them. I have lost the majority of my male friends do to their sexism or homophobia

[LI SEAN08]

some of my guy friends are aware. some make jokes meaning no harm, but its just dudes ribbing ea other. I cpl ex gfs know, one was dumbfounded.. but whatever. I do me... and it feels good. Asl long as the illusion of a woman is present when Im having sex with a tranny, I have a great time.