Unreachable desires

[giadamn]

Lately I have been loosing my desire to watch tgirl porn. It seems pointless because I end up wanting to have sex with someone I have no chance of being with. At least with gg porn I can have my desires met (positions, body types, etc.) in real life. The tgirls in porn that I am attracted to are so attractive that it makes the fantasy feel unattainable. Does anyone else feel the same?

[Jericho]

Porn fantasies should be unattainable...What's the point of wanking over something you can get down at Wallmart! :shrug

[RallyCola]

Well, the question becomes why is it unattainable? Are you unwilling or unable to explore your fantasies? There are transwomen everywhere...meeting one for a relationship is obviously harder than finding an escort but that's the same in the ggirl world as well. if it is a matter of location, i.e. there are just no transwomen to be found...take a drive!

Remember, when you watch ggirl porn, you are probably not going to fuck that ggirl either, just an approximation of her. if you see Anikka Albrite and want to fuck her froggy style and go home and fuck your girlfriend froggy style...it is not the same.

you just have to decide if your transwomen fanaticism will remain fantasy or if you will make it a reality.

[kingaddictx]

giadamn you are not alone. the problem is the TS pornstars and porn represents the BEST CASE. Passable, passionate, friendly etc. I feel your pain on KNOWING exactly what you want, only to have a lack of quality Tgirls (in both bodytype and personality). This is especially true if you only check around the USa. Most of the time when you point this out people get defensive lol. You watch and hot video and then go to meet someone only to find the majority don't look anything near as hot as the videos. Most TS's don't look like the top stars..or even close. Hell some of the top stars aren't even hot or are overrated (um bailay jay, miran)

My suggestion would be look overseas. Thailand and brazil have been calling me for ages. Both have an very large amount of sexy TS's that match the vids and at least with thais have great personalitys too.

[cassieukts]

This made me laugh. A top quote!
Porn fantasies should be unattainable...What's the point of wanking over something you can get down at Wallmart! :shrug

[trish]

porn fantasies should be unattainable...what's the point of wanking over something you can get down at wallmart! :shrugcleanup in aisle seven.

[martin48]

They should wait until they are outside

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/woman-caught-having-sex-unconscious-6428587

[buttslinger]

Sometimes at Walmart I can't reach something on a high shelf and it just makes me sad.
When I first came on here I thought this would just be another site where guys trade porno pics, but I can still remember when it dawned on me that this Prospero guy was actually dating thousand dollar thoroughbreds in a city where escorting is actually legal. Not to mention first class restaurants. I can't afford them either.

[RallyCola]

If you can get a hot ggirl, you can get a hot tgirl. Not everyone has a chance to date but anyone has a chance to fuck. It is simple supply and demand.

[giadamn]

King gets what I'm saying. T-girl pornstars represent the best. They go through a lot of work to look the way they do and they are my fantasy. Not just any tgirl. There is nobody else that compares to bailey jay, domino, barbie woods, nefertiti, etc. They are very unique. I have not seen another tgirl that looks like either one of them and the list goes on. Danielle fox, kimber, Jessica host. And you can find girls that look like gg pornatars cuz they are just regular girls.

[RallyCola]

what you are saying makes no sense because tgirl porn stars are just hot women. there is really nothing different about them than other hot women except if you can't get a ggirl who is a 10, you won't get a tgirl that is a 8. it's that simple. there is greater demand for a small supply of transwomen BUT that doesn't mean it is impossible.

this is the dude that impressed bailey jay and convinced her to marry him.
879375

i think you are elevating porn stars because you think they are more than they are...they are just regular women who happen to be hot. if you are not able to find a non-porn star transwoman who is just as hot as the ones who fuck on camera, then clearly you don't know where to look. tgirl porn stars are NOT the only hot transwomen...they are just the ones comfortable enough to do porn. porn, simply, is not as lucrative as many fans think it is and also, is not for everyone. it takes a certain set of qualities to be able to fuck on camera and have that floating in the ethos forever.

if you are losing interest in tgirl porn because you will never fuck domino or bailey jay, you might as well not drive anymore because you will never drive a koenigsegg ccxr trevita...you might as well stop breathing because you will never smell the clean air atop Everest. that is the result of your line of thinking because if you can't have the best, what's the point!?!?!

[holzz]

porn isn't reality.

[niceguy4ts]

The porn business knows what makes a fantasy. That's why its a billion dollar industry. If a porn star escorts you have a chance to make that fantasy come true for a price. But that's it its not reality. After someone views so much porn their sense of reality changes and their motives become sexually charged. Im guilty I been sexually addicted to trans woman for a long time but having meet so many trans woman I see them all as a unique human being that can teach people so much. I will probably never be able to be in a relationship with a trans woman if I don't come to terms with my addiction. Trans woman just want to be accepted and loved like anyone else. The thing is the porn industry is out of control but people are making a lot of money on fulfilling fantasies. This addiction is suffocating me. The fantasy has made me delusional.

[RallyCola]

The porn business knows what makes a fantasy. That's why its a billion dollar industry. If a porn star escorts you have a chance to make that fantasy come true for a price. But that's it its not reality. After someone views so much porn their sense of reality changes and their motives become sexually charged. Im guilty I been sexually addicted to trans woman for a long time but having meet so many trans woman I see them all as a unique human being that can teach people so much. I will probably never be able to be in a relationship with a trans woman if I don't come to terms with my addiction. Trans woman just want to be accepted and loved like anyone else. The thing is the porn industry is out of control but people are making a lot of money on fulfilling fantasies. This addiction is suffocating me. The fantasy has made me delusional.


its not an addiction if you recognize the problem unless you are pushing old women into traffic and curb stomping little kids who are in your way to get home and fap.

it is just sex...if your only sexual goal is to fuck a porn star, then yes, you have a problem, but there really is nothing stopping you from having a relationship, if that is what you want, other than your sexual hangup which should be easier to cope with than you are eluding to.

[niceguy4ts]

Im not saying its an addiction for everyone but this is just in my case to where fantasizing about trans women has become compulsive for me. For some people its not an issue.

[RallyCola]

Im not saying its an addiction for everyone but this is just in my case to were fantasizing about trans women has become compulsive for me. For some people its not an issue.

when was the last time you were with a transwoman and, was she a porn star, or were you disappointed that she wasn't one?

[niceguy4ts]

I think my constant fantasizing about being topped by a trans woman is stopping me from having a healthy relationship with one.

[niceguy4ts]

I actually cant remember when. I think a yr ago. It wasn't with a porn star.

[RallyCola]

I think my constant fantasizing about being topped by a trans woman is stopping me from having a healthy relationship with one.

well, that can be viewed one of many ways of which 2 seem relevant to me. it could be so many other things so correct me if i am wrong.
1) you are reducing a transwoman to her anatomy and focusing on that
2) you are so enamored with getting fucked that other positions and her satisfaction are irrelevant

if either of these are true, or as stated any number of other potential reasons, you may be so anxious to get fucked that it ruins your chance of anything more. i honestly do believe that in a relationship...something based on mutual attraction that results in passion and potentially love, that even the most submissive bottom transwoman may top her man because that's the point of a relationship...to do what makes the other person happy because they make you happy. in that, i contend that if you are truly after more than just getting fucked, you just have to realize that the transwoman in front of you, unless you are paying her, is just a regular person who has needs, desires, urges, baggage and drama just like you do. once you come to that, it becomes easier. now, if you are paying her...fuck it...treat her like burger king...your way right away.

[martin48]

There's fantasies, there's sex (OK to wow), and there's relationships. All have a part to play - the mistake is thinking you can have all three at once, or that one leads to another.

[rodinuk]

the mistake is thinking you can have all three for free

[fred41]

the mistake is thinking you can have all three for free

People are always reaching for the stars when they should be reaching for their wallet.

[Instrumental]

I've gone on dates and had sex with a fair amount of attractive trans women. All you have to do is look and be flexible (not literally lol).

[francisfkudrow]

There are unattainable cis-women too. I love Kathy Ferreiro, but I probably will never have sex with a woman that looks like that. I have had very curvaceous women though; they just had other flaws that kept them from being as unattainable as Kathy Ferreiro.

Likewise, isolate some quality you like in trans women, and then find one that fits that bill, but maybe has other flaws that you can overlook.

[buttslinger]

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[RallyCola]

Can anyone direct me to the ATTAINABLE ten dollar crack ho forum? I can't find their website!!!

***.craigslist.com

substitute your area for the ***.

in fact, right now, you can find lots of crack whores just minutes away from my place because jackson heights (and much of queens for that matter) has lots of crack whores just waiting to fuck for a buck, holla' for a dolla' and do somethin' strange for a piece a change

[wearboots4me]

Lately I have been loosing my desire to watch tgirl porn. It seems pointless because I end up wanting to have sex with someone I have no chance of being with. At least with gg porn I can have my desires met (positions, body types, etc.) in real life. The tgirls in porn that I am attracted to are so attractive that it makes the fantasy feel unattainable. Does anyone else feel the same?

I think you have some self defeating thinking going on. I am not sure if you're trying to meet people, but you should, because you won't know who you can get with until you try. I think you should try to date a lot of different women, (genetic too, if you're at all interested) and see if you like any of them. You don't have to marry someone just because you take her out on a date, go on an internet dating site and see how it goes. If it doesn't work out with one woman, move on to the next.


what you are saying makes no sense because tgirl porn stars are just hot women. there is really nothing different about them than other hot women except if you can't get a ggirl who is a 10, you won't get a tgirl that is a 8. it's that simple. there is greater demand for a small supply of transwomen BUT that doesn't mean it is impossible.

this is the dude that impressed bailey jay and convinced her to marry him.
879375

i think you are elevating porn stars because you think they are more than they are...they are just regular women who happen to be hot. if you are not able to find a non-porn star transwoman who is just as hot as the ones who fuck on camera, then clearly you don't know where to look. tgirl porn stars are NOT the only hot transwomen...they are just the ones comfortable enough to do porn. porn, simply, is not as lucrative as many fans think it is and also, is not for everyone. it takes a certain set of qualities to be able to fuck on camera and have that floating in the ethos forever.

if you are losing interest in tgirl porn because you will never fuck domino or bailey jay, you might as well not drive anymore because you will never drive a koenigsegg ccxr trevita...you might as well stop breathing because you will never smell the clean air atop Everest. that is the result of your line of thinking because if you can't have the best, what's the point!?!?!

That's a better perspective on it. Giving up is not a good attitude.