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tom_10_
04-26-2015, 11:37 PM
Just wondering what you all think about the relationship of escort and client and what people would do if that could be more.

I've always wondered what it would be like to see or meet a hung angel without the escort tag.

I've now got the chance too but I'm not sure what to do. I booked with a escort that I've been with a few times and have always had a amazing time with them but it's always been between escort and client. Now I'm being asked to go over and stop the night with them and I'm not sure if to or not.

What do you guys think and what would you do?

Plaything
04-27-2015, 12:07 AM
No difference to a relationship with anyone. You both come to the party with a set of expectations.

Knowing her, and you, and your history...with all of that considered - if you believe there is a future...then pursue that future.

And may the road rise to meet you.

If (honestly) you're just savouring the idea of getting something for nothing - well, OK, I guess.

But that will be short lived and you will, quite rightly (and very quickly) have neither a commercial arrangement, a meaningful relationship or even the friendship that you have, clearly, already forged.

For my part, and in my experience, it is possible to have something real that is borne out of rented affection...but you have to be completely honest with her, and with yourself: remembering all the time that 'Pretty Woman' is not a documentary.

Seasalter
04-27-2015, 03:04 PM
Think it depends on what you expect to get out of it. Most escort experiences are simply business transactions, where you pay someone to give you tender pleasures and perhaps indulge your fantasy for an hour or so. Remember the next punter may be along in a moment or two. Are you sure you read the signals right. If an escort suggested to me an overnight I'd expect them to mention their fee. Perhaps that is what she meant. I'e that you book her overnight (for a fee). If on the other hand you think she genuinely fancies you, I think that is extremely rare, but why not. But just don't expect a long term romance.. Good luck if that does happen though.

tom_10_
04-27-2015, 05:26 PM
Thanks for the advise.

Seasalter, I fully agree it is very rare for a escort to like a punter never the less show that they do which is why I was taken back when she first mentioned it. There was no mention of money or a escort type booking and she sounded very keen to have me stop with her for a night.

She was happy to drop the escort name and give me her real name. And it wasn't just a were finished having sex and see you later it.

I guess maybe one of the reasons I'm tentative is if I have misread the signals and it's all just a misunderstanding

Donkey
04-27-2015, 06:04 PM
I think Kelly Shore met her husband as a client...and they seem to be happy!

LI SEAN08
04-27-2015, 06:08 PM
Anyway... let us know how it all turned out!!

Plaything
04-27-2015, 11:45 PM
Anyway... let us know how it all turned out!!

Amen

saifan
04-27-2015, 11:56 PM
I'm dating a girl that I met as an escort. I was her client exactly one time... we chatted for a few months after that but lost contact. We reconnected a few months later and started dating shortly after.

Wordzy
05-05-2015, 05:22 PM
Bump, you seen her yet?

tom_10_
05-16-2015, 05:43 AM
Sorry not been on for a while.
In the end I didn't meet up with her. Decided to keep things as they are for now. Maybe in the future if I got to know her more it would be a option but for now I decided to keep it as a escort and client relationship

tom_10_
06-29-2015, 12:27 PM
So another update after another chat decided that the relationship would be kept professional so i did stop the night and we spoke more in depth about stuff and got to know each other more. i did pay a fee so it was very much still escort and client but it was nice to get to know her more and of course have some hot sex all night.

Who knows what the future holds?