Being Safe

[diego1974]

Hi all,

I have been enjoying sex with shemales for over 15 years. I have always played it safe with condoms during penetration but have not been using condoms when rimming or mutual oral. I have been fortunate to date to not have caught anything or have any issues.

But now I am getting married and I am afraid my days of taking some risks when it comes to oral and rimming needs to stop so that if I did get something I would not pass it on to my fiancee.

What I want to ask the group is I want to keep playing when I can with escort shemales in London but how safe do I have to be ? I will always use condoms when it comes to penetration, my question is more around rimming and oral. I know I can use dental damns and condoms with oral but its not the same. If thats my only option then so be it, but would be good to hear some opinions on this from you all.

Thanks in advance for those that respond.

[Tapatio]

The safest thing to do is tell your new bride you plan on having sex with other people after you get married.

Then tell her you specifically plan on sleeping with transsexual escorts after you get married.


Most likely after that you won't have to worry about bringing anything home to the missus.

[Jericho]

I'm not usually one to judge people morals (or lack thereof), but, you're getting married and already making plans for future infidelities?

It's only my opinion but, that kind of makes you a bit of a scumbag in my book! :shrug


Thanks in advance for those that respond.
You're welcome, don't mention it!

[Jamie French]

Unlike other people, I have no problem with passing moral judgments... You're a piece of shit and should suffer the worst kind of AIDS possible. I hope you die and you're fiance leaves you for a tranny.


Hi all,

I have been enjoying sex with shemales for over 15 years. I have always played it safe with condoms during penetration but have not been using condoms when rimming or mutual oral. I have been fortunate to date to not have caught anything or have any issues.

But now I am getting married and I am afraid my days of taking some risks when it comes to oral and rimming needs to stop so that if I did get something I would not pass it on to my fiancee.

What I want to ask the group is I want to keep playing when I can with escort shemales in London but how safe do I have to be ? I will always use condoms when it comes to penetration, my question is more around rimming and oral. I know I can use dental damns and condoms with oral but its not the same. If thats my only option then so be it, but would be good to hear some opinions on this from you all.

Thanks in advance for those that respond.

[lifeisfiction]

Unlike other people, I have no problem with passing moral judgments... You're a piece of shit and should suffer the worst kind of AIDS possible. I hope you die and you're fiance leaves you for a tranny.

Just curious Jamie, do you as an escort see married men?

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

Just curious Jamie, do you as an escort see married men?

LOL!!! Priceless! I guess that kind of shoots the whole morality thing in the ass a little.

[Tapatio]

LOL!!! Priceless! I guess that kind of shoots the whole morality thing in the ass a little.

Both you and Lifeisfiction have been here long enough to have viewed Jamie's thoughts on the subject.

To my memory she is very much against seeing married men.

Not all escorts are, I'm sure, and I'm willing to bet most don't even ask- but I think Jamie has been clear on this. Like, crystal.

But say she did see married men- her choice, regardless how she feels about them. It's probably not the most ambivalent choice an escort makes.

Think of it like a defense lawyer making money defending someone he knows is guilty- but with literal assholes instead of the figurative kind.

[Lovecox]

Honesty is the best policy in relationships. Think long and hard about why you want to get married if you are still wanting to have sex with others, presumably unbeknownst to your partner. You are not the first and will not be the last person who has considered this.
I see three options:
1. Move your attraction to others into the realm of fantasy and keep it there.
2. Engage in safer sex practices such as hand jobs, or covered blow jobs and deal with the guilt over the fact that you are keeping this a secret from your fiancee/wife.
3. Continue having sex that is not entirely safe and realize that you may catch something, pass it on to your partner and probably ruin that relationship forever.

[lifeisfiction]

Truth be told if you are willing to engage in a risky endeavor, be prepared for the consequences. I would not advise it.

If you decide to engage you have a responsibility to take all measures necessary to reduce risk.

I personally would not cheat on my partner. Nor would I suggest such a temptation is easily dismissed. For your sake I recommend taking the highest level of precaution. It is both your health and hers at risk. Whether or not you derive the most pleasure is not the main concern.

If I were you, I would ask myself why do I feel the need to cheat? Before the consequences of separation has dire outcomes. Depending where you are divorce can be a nightmare based on the laws and legal precendent. Maybe you are not ready to settle down? Still, that's my opinion.

[Jamie French]

You tell me: http://dallas.backpage.com/TranssexualEscorts/jamie-french-arlington-tx-incall/28630402


Just curious Jamie, do you as an escort see married men?

[itsnotme]

im inclined to agree with Jamie french not in that you should get aids but you need to at least tell your wife and if youd risk her health yeh you are abit of a shit and it seems dishonest as hell

[Ts RedVeX]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7YFC0O393DQ

[lifeisfiction]

You tell me: http://dallas.backpage.com/TranssexualEscorts/jamie-french-arlington-tx-incall/28630402

That's why I asked, I couldn't remember. You should really knock off the wish Aids on people thing. Not everyone gets your manner of communication and for some Aids is a real reality. We get your point without the dramatics.

[tarot]

What shocks me about this thread is the level of morality and hostility projected at the questioner.To be honest I find it a little rich and extremely hypocritical.
The guy was asking advice , and he gets shot down .
What gives any of you the right to wish Aids or anything else on anyone ?
And in my experience what we wish upon another often comes back to haunt us .So , we should be careful with our words.
Some of us our born multi-sexual , and have need to express different parts of our sexuality .The majority of clients for transexual escorts are married men - fact .
So my advice would be this .Give up anal completely .Only do oral covered .No rimming .No cim. Get into mutual masturbation and watching porn with the transexual escort .Get into talking fantasies and dirty .Then you can go home knowing you and everyone else is safe .

[Tapatio]

You should really knock off the wish Aids on people thing.

100% agreed.

Maybe it's a "stage persona" thing. I bet the real Jamie is the sweetest HA HA HA HA HA I CAN'T EVEN FINISH THAT!

No shade, Jamie- this board is all I know of you.

[Tapatio]

What shocks me about this thread is the level of morality and hostility projected at the questioner.To be honest I find it a little rich and extremely hypocritical.
The guy was asking advice , and he gets shot down .
What gives any of you the right to wish Aids or anything else on anyone ?
And in my experience what we wish upon another often comes back to haunt us .So , we should be careful with our words.
Some of us our born multi-sexual , and have need to express different parts of our sexuality .The majority of clients for transexual escorts are married men - fact.

I tried not to be judgmental but make my opinion known. And you (and lifeisfiction) are right about the AIDS thing, IMO.

Most clients are married? I'm not disputing that, and o bet it's true for all escorts, though I wonder how to accurately make that conclusion.

But I'm actually a little offended that anyone would expect a different response- as if because we see escorts, or (worse) because we like transsexuals (this board isn't just for escorts/clients) we'd be OK with cheating on a committed partner.

[tarot]

Personally , I think anyone on this forum who wishes aids on another member , should be banned .... period .

[alexcw]

Personally , I think anyone on this forum who wishes aids on another member , should be banned .... period .

Agreed.

[fred41]

I think some of you are missing the point though. Sure, married guys see hookers. That may not make them the best people in the world, but sometimes it's what holds a marriage together. I'm not saying that's a great thing, but it's often better than the alternative...depending on the family. Maybe, or maybe not, preferable to a mistress. Whatever.

But, in my opinion, when you're already planning a life of hookers before you even get married...that's another game entirely.

...unless they already have some unusual agreement...like: He can see all the TS or GG hookers he wants, and she can get as much cock on the side as possible. But the OP hasn't said if this is the case.

[tarot]

Fred41, I think you are trying to make it too simple .
The real problem with a lot of men and transexual escorts is , it's actually an addiction .If it was just a question of cheating, and one could just turn off the urge because they were married and decided to become moral and respectable , that would be nice .But more than often that is not the case .
As with any other drug or distraction for stress .Add poppers and other substances into the mix , and becomes ,very very difficult to give up .

[fred41]

Fred41, I think you are trying to make it too simple .
The real problem with a lot of men and transexual escorts is , it's actually an addiction .If it was just a question of cheating, and one could just turn off the urge because they were married and decided to become moral and respectable , that would be nice .But more than often that is not the case .
As with any other drug or distraction for stress .Add poppers and other substances into the mix , and becomes ,very very difficult to give up .

Very simple then, don't get married.

he has the advantage of already knowing it. It's not the same as marriage first - then discovery

[fred41]

hell, for all we know, the future missus could be on another forum asking the exact same question: " Please help me out here. As you all know I like getting stuffed by as many cocks as possible, but now that I'm going to tie the knot soon, I'm thinking I should play safe. I used to tell them to cover up when they fucked me (vaginally or anally) but I would let them shoot it straight down my throat...now I'm thinking, since I don't like the taste of latex, I will only let them shoot it on my face or breasts...because I really care about the health of my future husband."

So there may be an agreement. Won't know til we get the answer.

[Jericho]

The real problem with a lot of men and transexual escorts is , it's actually an addiction.


Please tell me you're having a FUCKING larf?
Well, unless addiction is the new way of saying selfish prick!

Do the girl the biggest favour of her life, DO NOT MARRY HER!

Unless of course it is an agreed on thing...WTF!:hide-1:

[tarot]

I agree , don't get married ....Perfect advice .

[Jamie French]

I know folks with AIDS, I know folks who've been in devastating car accidents, I've lost folks to cancer, I've lost people to suicide... I don't care what flavor death comes in... it doesn't change the fact that I'll wish it on someone. I assign the flavor of death that jives with the scenario.


That's why I asked, I couldn't remember. You should really knock off the wish Aids on people thing. Not everyone gets your manner of communication and for some Aids is a real reality. We get your point without the dramatics.

[itsnotme]

idk couldnt we just surgically remove his penis

[tarot]

I get a feeling that , Jamie is just trying to be nasty and controversial.But I'm sure if I had been wishing Aids on members of this forum , I would already have received my ban.
I think it shame that when members have some kind of political power that they are allowed to misuse it .
The person in question was just asking some advice and he has been wished a death sentence because of it .

[Jericho]

It's always easy to talk shit on the net, init! :shrug

[bassman2546]

Unlike other people, I have no problem with passing moral judgments... You're a piece of shit and should suffer the worst kind of AIDS possible. I hope you die and you're fiance leaves you for a tranny.

Wow. Piece of fucking work.

[tranylover]

I know folks with AIDS, I know folks who've been in devastating car accidents, I've lost folks to cancer, I've lost people to suicide... I don't care what flavor death comes in... it doesn't change the fact that I'll wish it on someone. I assign the flavor of death that jives with the scenario.


Jamie;

You're wonderful, I always like checking in and seeing what you're up to. All of the events you mentioned are personal tragedies that shape your emotionally development. They made you who you are today. They do not warrant wishing death o anyone.

You're an incredible person, much better than this rant thread.
I'd love to hang out with you and chat, but I'm married.
Finally, as every person here knows, human sexuality is complicated and with the morals of society, have to keep their sexuality closeted.
I think constructive advice be appropriate for the original poster, Rather than an attack. We all know what it feels like to be persecuted for being different in public. No need to persecute fellow board members when they come to a refuge seeking advice

[tranylover]

Jamie;

You have a unique and special life experience that very few others have. You could give positive constructive feedback to those coming here seeking advice.

Great chatting with you and everyone else on the board!

[CoolAwesomeBXDude]

why get married then?

[Vladimir Putin]

Hi all,

I have been enjoying sex with shemales for over 15 years. I have always played it safe with condoms during penetration but have not been using condoms when rimming or mutual oral. I have been fortunate to date to not have caught anything or have any issues.

But now I am getting married and I am afraid my days of taking some risks when it comes to oral and rimming needs to stop so that if I did get something I would not pass it on to my fiancee.

What I want to ask the group is I want to keep playing when I can with escort shemales in London but how safe do I have to be ? I will always use condoms when it comes to penetration, my question is more around rimming and oral. I know I can use dental damns and condoms with oral but its not the same. If thats my only option then so be it, but would be good to hear some opinions on this from you all.

Thanks in advance for those that respond.

Boy your wife-to-be sure picked a real winner - NOT!