Would you marry a trans girl?

[cutesteph]

How many of you would marry a completely passably trans girl? Would it matter if she wants to get SRS eventually? Would you tell your side of the family or keep it secret from them and just let them know eventually she can't have children? What are your feeling on the fact that she can't have your baby (so adoption is the only viable route at the moment)?

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I would and SRS does NOT matter. My family does not live my life.

[Jack8941]

Yes. Yes and Yes

[Jericho]

How many of you would marry a completely passably trans girl?


I wouldn't get married period, trans or otherwise, but if i was to...



Would it matter if she wants to get SRS eventually?

As horrible as it sounds, yes i think it would.




Would you tell your side of the family or keep it secret from them and just let them know eventually she can't have children?

Of course I'd tell them.
(i think they already know)



What are your feeling on the fact that she can't have your baby (so adoption is the only viable route at the moment)?

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. I don't see adoption as some sort of booby prize.

[Instrumental]

No, I have no desire to get married at all.

[scroller]

I would confess yes, even though it's probably a terrible idea. The no-baby thing is a plus. Having kids is super stupid.

[RallyCola]

How many of you would marry a completely passably trans girl? Would it matter if she wants to get SRS eventually? Would you tell your side of the family or keep it secret from them and just let them know eventually she can't have children? What are your feeling on the fact that she can't have your baby (so adoption is the only viable route at the moment)?

1. I would marry A transwoman. Passable is subjective and looks are not the only thing...actually not even remotely the most important thing when finding a woman to marry.

2. GRS would matter if she was conflicted about it. Whatever she felt she needed to do to be the woman she needs to be would be fine. If she was on the fence about it...i might try to steer her one way or the other. If she wanted to stay non-op, I'd be quite fine with that too.

3. I would do only what she was comfortable with. The anatomy of my wife is not my family's business unless she is cool with it. That's her call, not mine.

4. I'm married now and don't want kids so who gives a fuck. Kids suck.

[Jamie French]

Not only would I marry a trans but I'm going to... In the state of Texas. My ID says male, her idea says female. We'll have the state marry us, I'll go in as "stealth dude" as possible then we'll blow up that shit all over social media that Texas married two penises together.

[Teydyn]

How many of you would marry a completely passably trans girl?
Why wouldnt you marry a tgirl if she was NOT completely passable?

If you love her?

[nysprod]

Not only would I marry a trans but I'm going to... In the state of Texas. My ID says male, her idea says female. We'll have the state marry us, I'll go in as "stealth dude" as possible then we'll blow up that shit all over social media that Texas married two penises together.

Cool!

[francisfkudrow]

How many of you would marry a completely passably trans girl?

Yes, I'd happily marry a trans girl.


Would it matter if she wants to get SRS eventually?

No.


Would you tell your side of the family or keep it secret from them and just let them know eventually she can't have children? What are your feeling on the fact that she can't have your baby (so adoption is the only viable route at the moment)?

Irrelevant. Everyone who knows me knows that I don't want kids.

[tao1kiku]

I did, SRS is her choice - it's about loving the person - not what's between the legs, anyone knowing of her gender expression she will tell - it's not my business to tell anyone, I'd rather have a happy marriage with no children than a marriage where I'm not fully happy with kids. And I've only been happy with someone who is TG

[Idt20082008"]

Absolutely I would marry a Trans girl. I would marry someone that I love and want to spend my life with. That's most important to me. SRS is completely her choice, and I would support her if that was her choice. As for kids, I would go into the relationship knowing children wouldn't be possible by conventional methods, so I'd be perfectly fine with it. If we chose to do so, we could always adopt :)

[CoolAwesomeBXDude]

no. if i get married it would be with a gg

[pimpdog]

hell no.

[samspud]

Been married 25 years and have two wonderful boys, yet in less than a year my wife and I are planning to divorce, not to be apart but to bring someone very special into our lives. Either I or her will marry her depending on the state's choice, as it stands now I will marry her but one never can trust what the government says from one day to the other anymore.
We do not care what our family might think nor does it matter if she chooses G.R.S, we support her whatever her choice. We can not imagine our life any more without her smile, she brings the sunshine and spreads the stars across the sky and our world is a much better place since we met her.
We know that this is going create a lot of challenges in our life but we can think of no one we would rather share the challenges and the joys with.

[cutesteph]

hell no.

Why hell no? You make it sound so bad. =(

[pimpdog]

Why hell no? You make it sound so bad. =(
bad dating experiences.

[pimpdog]

Plus at my age, 33, the girls im attracted to are younger then me, and we have zero in common.

[TSaddicted]

I honestly prefer t-girls to GGs so that is something I constantly think about. I'm in a relationship with a GG right now, big ass, big tits and has a good career BUT goodness her sex is boring!! I absolutely love trans women, the UK just doesn't have enough. I can see myself moving abroad to be happy because this is not it for me.
Once I find the right trans woman, I would happily tell my family. I just don't think the transgender community is as vibrant in the UK as in the US.

[noble1337]

1 How many of you would marry a completely passably trans girl?
2 Would it matter if she wants to get SRS eventually?
3 Would you tell your side of the family or keep it secret from them and just let them know eventually she can't have children?
4 What are your feeling on the fact that she can't have your baby (so adoption is the only viable route at the moment)?

1 Just like with a cis-gender girl, I wouldn't marry her but I could spend my life with her.
2 Nope
3 Don't want children anyways and I would be fine telling them
4 No desire to have kids now, and don't think I will when I get older either...guess I'm not a good subject for this

[blueeyeboy]

It would depend on whether they would treat me right and make me feel special every day :-!

[Tapatio]

It would depend on whether they would treat me right and make me feel special every day :-!

That's sweet. You're sweet.

You should log out and come back when you're 18.

[bimale69]

Already engaged to one ;)

[wearboots4me]

How many of you would marry a completely passably trans girl? Would it matter if she wants to get SRS eventually? Would you tell your side of the family or keep it secret from them and just let them know eventually she can't have children? What are your feeling on the fact that she can't have your baby (so adoption is the only viable route at the moment)?

If I thought she was the "one" I would. Family and everyone else would just have to deal with it.

[Vladimir Putin]

Only if she's one of my all-time favorites (like Skylene, Mint, Mia Isabella, Tyra Scott, Lucia Matthews, Prue/Paige, Nia Lee/Brownie, Mariana Cordoba, etc.)

[philipsfrog]

Not sure if I would ever get married regardless of who it was

[hiwatt1000]

...yes...and have trying to date [again] to find that special person...

[must93]

No problem! I would love too.

[John1991]

yes i definitely would

[jesi_j]

Interesting thread thanks for sharing your views, I'm going to have to say no on this one. I think I would like my kids some day!

[lust4love]

I've been married before and I don't really plan to get married again. Then again, if the right persons shows up (no matter what she got inside her panties) I would be willing to do it again.

[ILoveTransWomen]

Yes, if I met the right trans girl, I would marry her. Her choice to get SRS would be hers alone to make, and would not stop me from loving her. I have no desire to have children, and if I married a TG, her plumbing would be none of my family's business.

[SXFX]

I prefer dating educated, sexually adventitious women and i don't wish to have kids...answer 10000% yes.
Now to only find a gorgeous educated TS woman who is not "working" but has a 9-5 and doesn't think every man who says hi is a chase....don't hold your breath boys...hard to find ;)

[cutesteph]

I prefer dating educated, sexually adventitious women and i don't wish to have kids...answer 10000% yes.
Now to only find a gorgeous educated TS woman who is not "working" but has a 9-5 and doesn't think every man who says hi is a chase....don't hold your breath boys...hard to find ;)

There are more trans women like that than you think. Most of us just remain stealth and do not advertise ourselves as transgender even on dating sites until a man takes a serious interest.

There seems to be a very common factor that most men on here do not want kids. I wonder why that is overly represented. I know it is a great sampling technique to use, but it still seems unusually strange.

[WesJohnson]

first of all as a 24 year old who has not had sex with a ts (YET).... I'm not thinking of marriage right now... but I would when I'm ready... she doesn't have to be passable(by the way that's fucked up word)...I'm into this world because the fact its a girl with a dick... so SRS surgery would be a big problem...I fell weird sometimes for liking my girl with a dick lol.... in the middle of telling my family now about my life so by that time it would not be a issue... I would adore my adopted kids:)

[deangamble1967]

Already have

[SXFX]

There are more trans women like that than you think. Most of us just remain stealth and do not advertise ourselves as transgender even on dating sites until a man takes a serious interest.

There seems to be a very common factor that most men on here do not want kids. I wonder why that is overly represented. I know it is a great sampling technique to use, but it still seems unusually strange.
yes but then you are in the catch 22 aren't you...
1) Finding her.....where ever she may be...hiding in the depths of OKcupid.

2) If you are actively looking for a TS women she will call you a chaser...

It's kind of a perfect storm.

[must93]

The real question is would they marry us?

[cutesteph]

The real question is would they marry us?

Are there skeletons in your closet? Why wouldn't we?

[speedking59]

since i believe marriage is a mistake one should only make twice the odds of me assuming the matrimonial dog-collar again are quite slim. but if love and a desire to share lives was present with both parties i would not hesitate to wed a trans person without regard to whether or not they wanted SRS. and screw what family or others might think.

[LB1over]

Yes, I have.

[TSPornFan]

I highly doubt I will marry anyone let alone a T-Girl. If I married one, then she must be very passable in every way just like Sarina Valentina.

[pabdul6]

Sure I would, but only if she was willing to stop short of a complete transition. I never want to be with a woman who has a vagina again. And I would prefer a girl who is larger than I am with a stronger sex drive. She wouldn't have to be 'completely' passable either -- I think that's kind of boring, really.

As long as she's sexy and nice and really enjoys being with me we could have a great relationship!

[Robert66]

There's no reason not to provided you get married for the right reasons, the same as you would to a genetic girl. Sure, there will be a lot of different things to deal with, but if the love is there you can do this.
I think I will eventually, as I've been involved in the Asian ladyboy scene for about five years and have very little interest now in genetic girls. I can only see my future as settling down with a ladyboy.
As far as SRS goes, I wouldn't want this, but would respect the wishes of my partner. A ladyboy is attractive to me because she has a penis. Several ladyboys I have dated over the years have loved their own cocks, and would never want to get rid of them, but attitudes change.
As far as telling my family, I wouldn't. If they asked me I would tell the truth, but I don't see it should be an issue that I feel that I have to explain myself.

[SXFX]

The real question is would they marry us?
I'm well educated, i work out so i'm in shape, i have a very nice swanky condo in the burbs, live an exciting life and have accepting friends.
According to Cosmo i'm a fucking catch.

[Pompom43]

of course, I think you would have an incredible life..

[SXFX]

well so many guys when they get near 40 give up on the gym and living a fun life and start playing golf and gaining weight.
I still rock climb, ride my motorcycle and skydive and travel as often as possible.
I haven't given up no trying to enjoy life as best as i can given what life has thrown at me.
And i hear from women that this is a turn on...so i'll take it =)